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The author of the wind condensed snow dance in the "Ju Ji Shocking Shadow" wrote: The heart of heaven is nine heavy, who can really guess through. Snubing is not necessarily really snubbing, and pampering is not necessarily really pampering. Think about it carefully, there is indeed a certain truth, although in real life, most of the female friends on the male friends of the "enthusiasm" will be easy to have immunity, but the male friends of the "snubbed" but there is no resistance, after all, female friends are very much eat male friends "snubbed" this set.
Especially in the process of interpersonal communication, sometimes, male friends snubbed female friends just right, will make themselves tried and tested on the love field, in other words, there is no female friend who can't catch up with themselves, only male friends who will not snub female friends.
Whenever a male friend falls in love with a female friend, has true feelings for female friends, and wants to pursue female friends, once it is found that female friends do not love themselves at all, or do not love themselves enough, then most male friends will often feel tied up, helpless, and even feel helpless.
But in fact, it is not that there is no room for redemption, to say that it is nothing more than because male friends pursue female friends using the wrong method, the truth of male friends can actually borrow some love skills of interpersonal communication to routine female friends, of course, the premise of all the methods and techniques is definitely that male friends in these love methods, must be based on the sincerity of female friends, on the basis of your love sincerity, otherwise, no matter how powerful the love skills, No matter how many love routines there are, they will fail because of this.
So in order to help the majority of male fans and friends can get off the list smoothly, you can chase after the woman you like, you can hug the beauty as you wish, let your beloved woman like yourself earlier, let the beloved ta love yourself more and more, and specifically collect and summarize some methods of intersex communication between men and women.
Especially the following 4 kinds of "snubbing" female friends methods, I believe that after you learn, your favorite female friends, your heart has been thinking about the twilight, the female friends who never forget will love themselves more and more, and friendship prompts, in addition to learning the following love skills, you must also know how to combine your own actual situation, learn specific problems and specific analysis, and then make good use of these methods, presumably male friends will be able to get what they want, The one you have in mind will love himself more and more, and even more and more inseparable from himself.
In the end, in the relationship, learn to "snub" women like this, she will become more and more "hearty" to you, don't believe it!
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Let her have a sense of gap in her heart, often the greater the sense of gap, the more she will compete to pursue you later;
Backstage, a male fan friend once asked me in a private message, why am I so good to my girlfriend, wholeheartedly for her, usually she buys what she wants to give her, she wants to play wherever she wants to take her to play, but in the end the girlfriend still offers to break up with herself and marry other men?
In fact, to say from the heart, love a person, want to be with him forever, it is far from enough to be good to this person, this is applicable to both men and women in feelings. Because over time, your good will become worthless, and it will be taken for granted by the other party.
So you male friends, when you fall in love with a female friend, move your heart to a female friend, and want to be with a female friend, then when the male friend and the female friend first start to communicate with each other, you must express yourself well, and the male friend is best to find ways to rack his brains to be good to the female friend.
Male friends strive to strive for female friends to be incomparable, good to the point of no addition, and male friends to female friends is best to be good day after day, that is, better day by day, and strive to be good to female friends to the extreme, so over time, female friends will get used to the male friends to their own good, equivalent to the invisible, untouchable air around the side, and even female friends will be obsessed with male friends This kind of good, deeply unable to extricate themselves.
To know that the good of male friends to female friends is more rare and valuable, but female friends can be easily palmed, easy to get, but if at this time, male friends unconsciously and quietly leave female friends, female friends in the heart is bound to have a sense of gap, naturally because they are not used to, so willingly chase after male friends, otherwise their lives will appear chaotic situation.
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Know how to talk to her to leave as much blank as possible, learn to make a fool of themselves and show off Guanzi;
Why when male friends and female friends talk or chat, we should leave as much blank as possible, that is, male friends should learn to know how to make things up, but also to know how to show off, but what needs to be remembered is that leaving blanks is not to let male friends lie, to trick and play female friends, but to know how to use their own goodwill as a starting point to show off to female friends, half of the words leave blanks for female friends.
In this way, female friends can leave blanks for themselves through male friends, and the suspense left for themselves is a clue, and female friends will think about male friends, worry about their stomachs, and even remember. Therefore, male friends should understand that when they talk and chat with female friends, whenever it is time to say goodbye near the end, male friends must create a feeling of "and listen to the next decomposition" for female friends.
If this is done, female friends will be grumpy about what male friends say, and will think about the male friend, worry about the stomach, and even because of excessive missing of male friends, they will insomnia and sleep, and they will always think about the remaining words that male friends want to say to themselves.
As Xunzi wrote in "Xunzi. Honor and Disgrace" wrote, "Good talk with people, warmer than the cloth; hurtful words, deeper than the spear", in fact, the meaning of this sentence is that speaking is an art, speech can sometimes bring pleasure to people, and sometimes can also bring people a feeling of pain, so male friends must know not to speak at the right time, then female friends will naturally be able to do the wisher hook.
Know how to gradually close the relationship with her girlfriend, so that women feel unconvinced and disobedient in their hearts;
Remember that there is a plan in the "Thirty-Six Plans" is "Wei Wei to save Zhao", how to say, whenever a male friend likes a female friend and wants to chase a female friend, then you can start from the girlfriend or little sister of the female friend, first and the female friend's girlfriend gradually close the relationship, so that the female friend feels unconvinced in her heart, feel unconvinced by this matter, I believe that the female friend will suddenly wake up, and will definitely use the way of chasing the male friend backwards, trying to catch up later, which is on the love field, Male friends should know how to use the method of "encircling Wei to save Zhao".
To know that although female friends have a good relationship with their girlfriends or little sisters, but female friends are most likely to try jealousy, female friends are easy to compare with their girlfriends or little sisters, after all, in the end, the girlfriends or little sisters of female friends are the people who can be seen by the naked eye around them, it is very easy to produce jealousy and jealousy, otherwise there will not be so many so-called girlfriends or sisters in the world who compete with each other for friends' boyfriends or husbands.
So male friends, sometimes they can deliberately not to please female friends, and then deliberately to please the friends of female friends, to offer courtesy to the girlfriends of female friends, but the friendship reminds you that between male friends to know how to grasp the heat, do not step on the line, it is best to discuss with girlfriends to stimulate each other, and the most important thing is to show their advantages and strengths in front of female friends, know how to cater to the preferences and interests of female friends, Before the male friend and the female friend's girlfriend or little sister determine the relationship between men and women, the female friend is likely to suddenly realize that she will dig the wall of her girlfriend.
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Occasionally learn to reject her, but rejecting women needs to "point to the end";
In real life, most female friends do not like to only know how to blindly please, there is no backbone in the heart of male friends, there may be some male friends think that as long as they desperately want to be good to female friends, blindly bow their heads and waist to please female friends, and constantly offer courtesy to female friends, you can smoothly catch up with female friends, in fact, this idea is very wrong.
So male friends to understand, occasionally to learn to reject female friends, but the premise is of course to reject female friends, need to point to the end, to know that sometimes they appropriately reject female friends, will play a role in the development of the love line between you, and often the more beautiful and good-looking, often all aspects of the conditions are better female friends, once rejected by male friends, stimulate the potential stamina will be greater, that is, the effect will be more obvious.
After all, the more good-looking female friends who look better in all aspects and have excellent conditions in all aspects, in fact, there is no shortage of people around them to please themselves, but male friends know how to be maverick and know how to be unique, so that they can give female friends a refreshing feeling, and can they create greater attraction to female friends.
Just as the so-called attraction between men and women is equivalent to a magnetic field, it will make female friends like male friends, fall in love with male friends at first sight, and even rush to give hugs to male friends, so it is said that male friends treat their favorite girls' requests or help, occasionally can be appropriately rejected, female friends will feel that male friends have a burst of "manly" breath.
Eason Chan has a song that sings well: "Those who are loved have no fear, and what they can't get is always in turmoil." ”
In the final analysis, in the relationship, those male friends with a relatively high and cold personality, those who give female friends a different feeling, and those male friends who make female friends feel refreshed, will make female friends more fascinated and make her more moved.
So male friends, want to make their beloved women fall in love with themselves, want to chase after the women they like, don't just simply contact each other every time, but learn to use the above 4 methods to snub women, then women will think about men, worry about their stomachs, will love men more and more, until the end there is no way to leave men, understand?
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