Wen | condensed mother's understanding
The epidemic has fought back, and many cities are carrying out full nucleic acid. Whether it is the elderly, young people, or students in online classes, kindergarten children, all of them are indispensable.
However, if you can't queue up in time to do nucleic acid because of special circumstances, can you have your family queue up on your behalf? For example, the time conflict of online classes, just need to take care of sleeping children? Netizens are also talking about it, each with its own reasoning.
In Qingdao, Shandong, when some netizens lined up to do nucleic acid, they filmed a tearful scene.
There was a little girl in a red down jacket in front of me, who was five or six years old. It was rare to queue up at such a young age, and I didn't think there was a note on my back.
It reads "Substitute row of 2 people, brother sleeps at home, mother takes care of at home!" Thank you all".
It turned out that it was really difficult for her to take on the queuing task of the whole family alone. Most netizens are very distressed about the little girl, such a cold day, let her do it first without opinion. But there are also many discordant voices that think this practice is unreasonable and exposes many problems.
Some people boast of responsibility and upbringing.
Many netizens commented:
Highly qualified family, great in educating children.
The courage of a responsible girl to queue up alone at such a young age is commendable.
I have borne too much at a young age, and I am also a responsible person when I grow up.
Children in cultured families are all good.
It's also worth it for girls to win such reviews.
Although the child is young, he also knows the queue and knows that there is a first-come, first-served. Not to cut in line, not to ask for special care, this aspect has a responsibility. There are many people who need special care, and it is difficult to take good care if everyone asks for care.
The note behind it clearly explains why, telling the people in line behind her that she is lining up for several people and making them mentally prepared. If there is no note, the back mistakenly thinks that it will soon reach me, and suddenly finds that there are several people coming, and it is inevitable to feel resentful.
Understanding the hardships of the mother, understanding the basic needs of the younger brother at a young age, even if he is still a child who needs to be cared for by his mother, he bravely shoulders the heavy responsibility and takes on the heavy responsibility of being a sister.
Some people have questioned the need to have a second child.
Many netizens commented:
Other children are led by parents, because with a younger brother, they have to grow up early, which is why I don't want a second child.
She did something wrong, asked her to line up, then a little her, she will also be afraid, a poor care why give birth to a second!
In fact, children will grow up sooner or later, and whether there is a second child has nothing to do with it, and it has more to do with the parents' philosophy, family environment, and social experience.
If parents think their children need to go through the experience, the children can be more mature than other children. If because of various realistic conditions, children can not get more care from their parents, children learn to take care of themselves early.
We have also seen many children cook their own meals, go out on their own, and even help their parents at a young age, more than adults can bear.
Who is not the heart of mom and dad, who doesn't want to accompany the child at all times, to protect the child tightly, but the world is unpredictable, who can be prophetic, and will think of the accident of the day before?
Having a second child is full of beautiful expectations for the future, and will not ignore the first child because of the arrival of the second child.
Some people are afraid of human traffickers and worried about the safety of their children.
There are also netizens who are full of worries:
The baby is alone, so afraid of human traffickers.
If there is an accident regret death.
This is indeed a problem, before did not know that there are many people who lost their children, since Sun Haiyang's high-profile recognition of relatives, I know that the group of parents who have lost their children is very large. A public welfare search platform has found 18,000 people in 6 years, which is really massive.
Fortunately, at the scene of the nucleic acid test, everyone is in good order, they are neighbors in the same community, and there are volunteers, public servants who maintain law and order, and bad people have no chance to do it. The girl's mother should consider the child's safety, otherwise she will not take the risk of letting the child go to the queue.
What needs to be worried about is whether the child himself obeys the order and rules, and can only go to the queue and not run around. In our community, some children finished doing nucleic acid, did not rush home, and even went to climb the door together, and the door of the community almost lost their hands.
Looking at this child should be a rule, not a troublemaker, so the mother will be more at ease.
Some people do not approve of or support this behavior.
There are many people who understand this phenomenon, of course, there are also those who do not support it.
Like you, you don't have to queue up.
Sleep can be called up, isn't this a disguised queue?
Can't get used to it, don't advocate it.
It is also normal to be unaccustomed, after all, I am in line, and when I see someone not queuing up, I will do it, and my heart will be unbalanced and very unhappy.
If one person represents many people to queue up, it really can't be said. Seeing someone say that a person lined up for 200 people, he immediately arrived at himself, and a bunch of people came hula, and he was so angry that he stared.
For such a queue for people, it is really necessary to publicly denounce, what queue is still queued, who wants to test first, who can measure.
But for those who do have special circumstances, this understanding is understood.
Like this little girl, her mother has two children alone, and her brother is very small, just in time for bedtime, and can't leave him alone in the house, so she has to accompany herself. If you push the car out, it is too cold outside, the child is asleep, it is easy to catch a cold. If the frost breaks, the mother is even busier, and she can't take care of the two children.
Therefore, there is no need to go on the line for such a thing, more understanding is good, overall, this phenomenon is not much, completely controllable, will not take the rhythm, there is no need to worry about the sky.
What do you think about this generation queue phenomenon? If it were you, would you leave your child alone in line?
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