Yang Was originally the concubine of Zhao Zhen's biological mother Li Shunrong's younger brother, after Zhao Zhen became emperor, he sealed his birth mother's mother's family, Yang's concubine, her son was able to marry a princess, this kind of luck is tantamount to buying a lottery ticket and accidentally winning five million.
Logically, the Yang clan should know how to cherish blessings, but the Yang clan, which has always been sitting on the ultimate wealth and glory, blindly demonized, and in the end, because of her confusion, both Li Wei and Hui Rou have paid a tragic price in the marriage.
As a mother, Yang does not know how to educate her children
Yang Clan said that no matter what he did, he was for his son, but the breakdown of Li Wei and Hui Rou's marriage was inseparable from Yang's provocation and indiscriminate interference.
First of all, Li Wei's cowardly personality is related to the way Yang clan educated him from childhood to adulthood.
Yang's personality is strong, his speech is harsh and mean, and the general mother is too strong, which often leads to the cowardly personality of the son.
In the play, Li Wei shows the image of a mother treasure man, always dependent on his mother, and is easily provoked and seduced by his mother.
Originally, if it were not for Yang's instigation and indiscriminate interference, Li Wei and Hui Rou's marriage would not have reached the point of breaking up.
Li Wei originally liked Hui Rou very much, Hui Rou was reluctant to round the room at first, and Li Wei was not willing to force her, thinking of slowly cultivating feelings with Hui Rou.
However, as soon as Yang Shi heard that Li Wei did not have a round room with Hui Rou, he immediately indiscriminately scolded Li Wei, saying that he was a straw bag.
Yang's words made Li Wei have a kind of anxiety about his feelings, so that he did not have the patience to cultivate feelings with Hui Rou.
And Hui Rou originally had no emotional basis for Li Wei, and the more anxious Li Wei showed, the more he made himself disgusted in Hui Rou's view.
Not only did the Yang family fail to educate their sons well, but the son had a hard time marrying his own goddess, because of the mixing of the Yang family, Li Wei was even less likely to get the favor of the goddess.
Yang's mother is not qualified at all.
As a mother-in-law, the relationship with the daughter-in-law is handled in a mess
Part of the reason for Hui Rou's dislike of Li Wei is related to Yang's mother-in-law.
Yang's own crude and vulgar, which in turn also affected Hui Rou's impression of Li Wei.
Hui Rou married into the Li family, purely to obey the father's orders, so the big wedding night Hui Rou is not willing to round the room with Li Wei, although Hui Rou's approach is not right, but if the Yang family is wise, they can slowly negotiate with Hui Rou, anyway, Hui Rou has married into the Li family, and there is time for her to willingly become the daughter-in-law of the Li family.
However, yang directly adopted the simple and rude method of Bai Aya, forcing Hui Rou and Li Wei to round the room.
First, it was a contempt for royal dignity, and second, it was distrust of the bride.
Hui Rou as the proud daughter of heaven, grew up by the stars and the moon, usually in the palace, even Zhao Zhen was reluctant to scold her, as soon as she married into the Li family, the Yang family gave her such a big humiliation, just imagine, Hui Rou can have a good feeling for the Yang family?
After Bai Aya's damaged move, Yang Clan met Hui Rou and continued to play tricks.
First she claimed that the princess house was her home, and then she called herself a princess.
Yang Shi: "The princess has been living in my house these days, and the next person who serves in this house can still meet the princess's wishes, if there is anything wrong with them, although the princess tells the mother, the mother should fight, scold, and will definitely be well adjusted, and then give the princess a summons." ”
The princess house was originally built by Zhao Zhen for his daughter at great expense, which is the dowry of Hui Rou, in ancient times, the dowry of the woman's dowry belt was the woman's private property from beginning to end, even if it was divorced, the dowry was taken away by the woman, and if the husband's family used the dowry of the new daughter-in-law, it would be looked down upon.
In "Know It or Not", Sheng Hong mentioned that Uncle Kang could not lift his head because he moved Aunt Kang's dowry.
Ordinary officials and eunuchs still abide by this set of rules, let alone the house of the lord?
The Yang family directly counts the princess's dowry as their own property, anti-guest-oriented, which is to disregard the rules of etiquette, in addition, the Yang family also calls herself a mother to the princess.
Even Hui Rou's biological mother, Miao Niangzi, Hui Rou can only call her sister, Yang Shi's status as a concubine, and even called herself a mother to the princess, I have to say that Yang Clan will really elevate herself and try to put herself in the same position as the empress and the emperor.
At a lesser level, it is ignorant and shallow and ignorant of etiquette, and at a large level, it is a disrespect for royal rules.
In fact, if the Yang family can treat Hui Rou with courtesy, Hui Rou will not fail to give her face, and will always maintain a superficial relationship.
Even if in the future, Hui Rou always has no feelings for Li Wei, but the brilliance that the Li family needs, Hui Rou will do her best to satisfy.
Hui Rou promised Li Wei a concubine, and even The monthly money hui rou in Li Wei's concubine room was willing to come out of his hands, but yang always did things that made Hui Rou unhappy.
The use of the three indiscriminate means of the city well on Hui Rou forced Hui Rou to become more and more disgusted with her, which also affected Hui Rou's impression of Li Wei.
In particular, giving Hui Rou a crush on wine, peeping at Hui Rou and Huai Ji's drinking, exposes Yang's vulgarity to the fullest.
If the Yang family is really a wise mother-in-law, when she finds that her daughter-in-law does not love her son, she must either patiently think of a reasonable way to match her son and daughter-in-law, or simply choose to let go and get the power and glory that the Li family wants.
Unfortunately, Yang clan wants too much, greed is insufficient, but not enough ability and love to meddle indiscriminately, the result is that whether it is lizi or face, Yang clan can not get.
Whether it is a mother-in-law or a mother, the Yang family is not qualified
As a mother, Yang's education of Li Wei is too strong and rude, she carries the banner of being good for you, and takes over Li Wei's life, but she does not know what her son wants at all, nor does she have the patience to listen to Li Wei's voice, Li Wei and Hui Rou failed to round the room, Yang Wei scolded Li Wei is not a man without saying a word, under Yang's blind depreciation, Li Wei's character will only become more and more inferior and cowardly.
Yang Shi despised her son's cowardice, but did not know that Li Wei's cowardice was inseparable from her inappropriate education method.
As a mother-in-law, Yang Does not know how to respect her daughter-in-law, has no sense of boundaries, and always tries to interfere in the affairs of her daughter-in-law and son, but the result is that the daughter-in-law becomes more and more disgusted with her, which in turn affects the feelings of the daughter-in-law and her son.
Therefore, whether it is as a mother-in-law or a mother, Yang Shi is not qualified.
Without yang, Hui Rou and Li Wei should be able to respect each other even if they can't fall in love.
However, after Yang's careless mixing, Li Wei and Hui Rou finally reached the point of breaking up.
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