Xiaoshan man after work to concentrate on the baby, do not return to the leadership news, and later under the persuasion of the parents-in-law, the man is full-time at home with the baby, the father-in-law and mother-in-law reward 10,000 yuan per month, to which netizens have said, very good, not shameful!
Although the child is two people, with the baby is naturally also a matter of two people, but it seems that the mother is tacitly accepted as the one who needs to take the baby at home, in fact, the father brings up the child is smarter.
A bao dad in Xiaoshan, Zhejiang Province, started to work at home full-time with a baby, at first, the man just left work to concentrate on taking the child at home, the leader's news Bao Dad naturally could not see, the income is not very high.
Later, the mother-in-law asked him: "Can you take the baby at home?" ”
He was given a bonus of 10,000 yuan every month, so the man decided to stay at home full-time with the baby.
Taking a baby is actually a manual work, and this man has experienced the difficulties of the mothers.
The father said: "It is actually good to take the baby during the day, mainly at night, because the baby is still very small, and it is necessary to get up at night, which is actually quite tiring." ”
Moreover, it takes about four or five times a night to get up, which shows how tiring it is to take the baby at home, and how difficult it is for moms and dads.
And because he stayed up late, the man also gained nearly 10 pounds.
It was also this experience that made this man realize the difficulty of baoma, and sure enough, only by personally taking the child can he appreciate the difficulty of being a mother.
After seeing this video, netizens have expressed their views, but they are roughly divided into two categories.
Some people say that this role is directly reversed, and this mother-in-law is still better than the mother-in-law.
Daughter-in-law with baby, mother-in-law will be rewarded with ten thousand a month no?
This is the difference between a mother-in-law and a mother-in-law, for the sake of the daughter to be less tired.
As for how much the elders can help, they also need to look at their own economic strength, and directly take an example to compare their current situation, in addition to making themselves angry, there is no other meaning.
However, more boys will still feel that it is a bit humiliating to take a baby, just like when he first started with a baby, relatives also felt that he was humiliated to do so.
Some netizens also joked that this is the man who can flex and stretch, and the child does not follow his surname.
No matter what others say, as a husband and father, being able to contribute a little to the family is more important than the so-called "shame"!
In this regard, netizens have expressed their support: very good, not shameful!
There is really nothing to be ashamed of, the meaning of taking children at home is no less than the value created by work, and it is not a happy thing to accompany children to grow up.
In addition, the family is composed of two people, and the mother does not necessarily have to take the child at home, as long as the two can coordinate the work and take the child, who lives outside and who is inside the lord is not so important.
In fact, what we see more is that it is not easy to take the child behind it, and I hope that every parent who works outside the home can take some time to accompany the child and family when he goes home.
Don't let the other half of widowed parenting is the key, spend more time with the child, accompany the family, work hard and don't ignore the growth of the child.
It is indeed very hard to take a child for a day, and the physical strength of boys cannot be consumed, let alone the mother who has just given birth?
What do you think about being a full-time dad at home? Point a point of attention, so that more people can notice that it is not easy to be at home, and give them more care and care.