In the TV series "Heart Residence", many viewers are looking forward to Feng Xiaoqin (played by Haiqing) to be able to reborn and start a business after the death of her husband Gu Lei, and live a woman's posture.
In fact, Feng Xiaoqin's marriage had too many problems from the beginning! Her identity as a foreigner, family conditions are not good, after marrying Gu Lei, the reason why she was looked down upon by her eldest sister Gu Qingyu (played by Tong Yao), the most essential reason is that the two families, the door is not right.
In the play, Gu Xin and Ge Yue, a newlywed couple, are also facing the same potential crisis!
Gu Xin's family conditions are average, but he is an ordinary Shanghainese, but Gu Xin himself is a bully, and after graduation, he successfully passed the civil service examination, and his job is stable and decent.
Gu Xin's parents are ordinary people, but they can also come up with a down payment of 7 million yuan, of course, in the words of Gu Xin's mother, this is also hollowing out the family foundation. The reason why the two old people are willing to take out so much money to buy a marriage house for their son is also because the family is the director of the bureau, rich and powerful.
However, when the two families first met, they had already buried contradictions and hidden dangers.
Gu Xin's father made a strange sound when he drank wine, and Gu Xin's mother directly nibbled on the goose paw with her hand, directly sucked the juice on her fingers, and wiped her mouth with a tablecloth.
From the perspective of the dining etiquette of the two, there are not enough cultivated and decent people, which is also where Ge Yue's mother is very dissatisfied.
In the capacity of Ge Yue's mother, the wife of the bureau chief, the daughter should not find such an uncultivated in-laws, the two families are not a class at all, there is no common language, and even basic table manners are not at one level.
Ge Yue's mother deeply knew the importance of the door to the door. But in fact, Ge Yue is a rich little princess who grew up, and does not know her mother's worries, in her heart, advocating love is the greatest, and others are not obstacles.
Ge Yue is not naïve and romantic, but really likes Gu Xin and is willing to accept the situation of her in-laws.
Ge Yue's generosity is also reflected in the tolerance of her mother-in-law's various cold words.
Seriously, Gu Xin's mother is not only rude and shallow, but also a confused mother-in-law who can't figure out the situation.
Who does this mother-in-law?
Gu Xin's mother actually sneered in front of her daughter-in-law that her family was overbearing and selfish, and her son, who had been raising herself for 30 years, had become a son-in-law who had plugged the door upside down.
Gu Xin's mother satirized that the family was not counted, and in front of Ge Yue's face, she ridiculed Ge Yue's father for being delicate and expensive, and doing a physical examination had to make Gu Xin call Gu Xin.
Look at Ge Yue again, the mother-in-law is so sarcastic and provocative, but she always smiles and does not respond, really good cultivation and tutoring.
If this is changed to some daughters-in-law, in the face of the mother-in-law's such blunt words to hide the knife, either throw their faces on the spot, or find their husbands to theorize afterwards.
But Ge Yue did not have anything, she chose to suffer silently, she did not care like her mother-in-law, as long as her husband loved her.
Ge Yue not only suffered grievances alone, but also vigorously defended her mother-in-law and husband in the face of her mother's concern.
The one who knows her daughter best is always her mother!
Ge Yue's mother is precisely because she knows her daughter's kind personality too well, she will remind her not to accommodate her mother-in-law in everything, and not to tolerate her husband in everything. The more they behave in resignation, the more the husband and mother-in-law do not know how to cherish!
Ge Yue's mother's reminder is not unreasonable, Ge Yue is always a generous look, never angry, nor does he retort with his mother-in-law, which actually does not exchange for her mother-in-law's tolerance.
From the original 800 pieces of silk scarves, it can be seen that in the face of her mother-in-law's accusations of spending money indiscriminately, Ge Yue smiled and endured. This was the reason why the mother-in-law spoke badly again and again, and even in front of Ge Yue, she unceremoniously sneered at Ge Yue's father and mother.
Ge Yue's mother said that the key was the key, Ge Yue's forbearance did not exchange for the gratitude of her mother-in-law, but instead encouraged the momentum of the other party, so that the Gu family felt that Ge Yue was rushing to paste upside down!
Ge Yue's mother is precisely because she understands and worries about her daughter's grievances that she will summon Gu Xin at home.
It is also to ask Gu Xin to accompany him to do the physical examination, and also to make Gu Xin fry medicine to serve his father-in-law, Ge Yue's mother did this, which is nothing more than to give Gu Xin a horse again and again, so that he really understands that marrying Ge Yue is a blessing, not luck.
Moreover, Ge Yue's mother's strength and contempt for Gu Xin are also supporting her daughter to a certain extent.
Ge Yue's front foot was angry with her mother-in-law, and her mother on the back foot "taught" Gu Xin a lesson, which was also a breath for her daughter in her in-laws' house.
Suddenly, I felt that it was also very good to have a mother like Ge Yue's mother, and It was not the best way for Ge Yue to blindly accept it.
Why do you say this, just look at Gu Xin's attitude.
After Gu Xin's mother counted Ge Yue and her relatives every time, Gu Xin never seriously advised her mother, nor did she seriously analyze the gap between her own home and her parents-in-law's family with her parents alone, so that her parents could recognize the actual situation.
Gu Xin's painlessness and itching indirectly make the mother feel that her son is ultimately biased towards herself, so Gu Xin's mother will become more and more disrespectful to Ge Yue again and again.
And Ge Yue's good temper also made Gu Xin feel that his wife had to be him, so every time Gu Xin faced a problem between his mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, he always had a thin mud.
Therefore, seeing this, I really don't sympathize with Gu Xin, he was called and drunk like a "servant" by his mother-in-law, all of which was his "punishment" for improper handling of internal contradictions in the family!
Moreover, the most unusual thing about Gu Xin is that in order to break the class solidification, he married Ge Yue, who is rich and powerful, and abandoned his girlfriend Sun Qi (played by Chen Bige) who has been in love for many years!
It is Gu Xin who chooses to be "Chen Shimei", don't blame the ex-girlfriend for retaliation.
In order to change his fate, Gu Xin became a "negative person", sun Qi was also threatened because he was looking for his theory at the wedding, the root of all these problems is in Gu Xin, it is he who abandoned his lover who has been in love for many years and found a current wife who is not outstanding enough in appearance.
To interject, the person who threatened Sun Qi, I think it is also Ge Yue! I didn't see it, the petite Ge Yue, the determination to protect her husband and marriage, was still very big. She is not a blind "little white rabbit", she knows how to use video to deter Sun Qi, nor is she a simple person.
It can only be said that Ge Yue can tolerate her mother-in-law, but she can't allow Sun Qi's harassment, she really loves Gu Xin too much!
Therefore, I am more and more pitiful and sympathetic to Gu Xin, whether it is the accusations of my ex-girlfriend or the difficulties of my mother-in-law, which is the inevitable price that he wants to change the fate class through marriage.
The most crucial point is that the humble Gu Xin did not choose to let his parents compromise with his relatives, but while enjoying Ge Yue's true love, he also indulged in his mother's provocation, and both sides wanted to occupy, and the man who wanted everything was too terrible!
Officials look for officials, the people find the people, marriage matters or pay attention to the equal matching of family situation!