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It is undeniable that in the cognition of many people, the traditional family has always been a structure of "male outside and female inside", that is, the husband earns money outside to support the family, and the wife handles housework and takes care of the baby at home.
However, with the development of society and the improvement of women's social status, some families have also appeared the opposite phenomenon, that is, Bao Mom is working hard outside, Bao Dad resigns to take a baby at home, although this structure is contrary to tradition in the eyes of many people, but it has to be admitted that many fathers are also a good hand in bringing children.
Recently, a door-to-door son-in-law in Xiaoshan, Zhejiang Province, suddenly caught fire on the Internet, and his experience also made many netizens envious, what is the matter?
The door-to-door son-in-law takes the baby at home, the mother-in-law rewards 10,000 yuan per month, and netizens directly call it too generous!
The dad who is taking care of the baby is a door-to-door son-in-law, and it is understood that his wife is busy at work, and he is flexible at work, and the degree of freedom is much higher than that of his wife.
After his wife gave birth to a child, the mother-in-law gave her son-in-law a suggestion, that is, to let him take the baby at home and the daughter to continue to work outside.
In this regard, the mother-in-law promised that the son-in-law would give him a bonus of 10,000 yuan per month as a reward for bringing the child.
With their own baby, you can also get up to 10,000 yuan per month bonus, which makes many people very envious, Bao Dad did not refuse this, after all, his source of income is investment, usually have a lot of free time to take the baby.
After promising his mother-in-law, Bao Dad began a near-full-time life with a baby, and the mother-in-law also did what she said, and would transfer bonuses to her son-in-law every month.
Although at first, the people around Bao Dad felt that this was a bit faceless for men, but after careful consideration, Bao Dad gradually figured it out, after all, it was incumbent on Dad to take care of his children, and taking children was also contributing to the family.
In the process of raising children, Bao Dad also experienced the hardships of being a parent.
He said that the day is actually fine, but the night is very hard, because the child has to wake up almost four or five times a night, which greatly affects the sleep of adults.
In addition, Bao Dad also admitted that his monthly bonus of 10,000 yuan is basically spent on children and families, as long as the family is harmonious and harmonious, moving towards a common goal, the days will always get better and better.
The door-to-door son-in-law who took the baby at home was rewarded by the mother-in-law, and this matter also triggered a lot of discussion among netizens on the Internet:
"Sure enough, times have changed, and it turns out that as long as women are capable, men can also willingly wash and cook at home with their babies."
"Ten thousand yuan a month, better than many people go to work, or bring their own children, may I ask this mother-in-law still lack a son-in-law?"
"The mother-in-law is very good at doing things, in fact, as long as it is beneficial to the family's children, who is outside the master and who is inside the lord is the same."
In the new era, how to view the phenomenon of fathers taking babies full-time?
In life, due to the different division of labor between men and women, the family structure of "male outside and female inside" has been recognized by many people, and over time, everyone has formed the stereotype that men should work hard outside and women should take care of children and families at home.
In fact, how to divide the family between husband and wife should depend on the actual situation, if the wife has a strong sense of enterprise, is not willing to give up work for the sake of children, and the husband has enough time and personality is more suitable for taking care of the family, then the man as a "full-time dad" is also a good choice.
In addition, there are several benefits for dads with babies:
First of all, compared with women, men's energy and physical strength are more sufficient, and taking a baby for a long time will not exhaust them, in addition, when the father takes the child, the mother can get a good rest.
Secondly, many fathers understand the difficulty of motherhood after taking children, so this experience can also allow more husbands to experience the hardships of their wives, which not only helps to enhance the feelings between husband and wife, but also more conducive to family harmony.
Finally, although many people complain that dads with babies are not as careful as mothers with babies, many times, men's thick lines and optimistic emotions are more beneficial to the growth of children, and children brought up by fathers will be more courageous in personality.
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