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In life, everyone needs to understand that our inner thoughts are energetic, and when you choose positive consciousness to shape your life, your self-confidence will really be built.
When your life is in a time of dissatisfaction and dissatisfaction, when you know how to use the three positive consciousnesses to shape your own life, you will not only be full of self-confidence, but also because you choose a positive consciousness, bringing about a change in your own life destiny.
The first consciousness, the consciousness of choosing self-appreciation
True self-confidence comes first and foremost from love for yourself, and when you love yourself, you have self-confidence. Self-confidence has nothing to do with our external conditions, self-confidence has nothing to do with academic qualifications, and self-confidence has nothing to do with our tall, thin and fat.
True self-confidence has to do with our inner appreciation of ourselves. The more you know how to appreciate yourself, the more you know how to appreciate life, the more confident you become.
When you can see the birth process of life from the source of life, you may find that appreciating life is a kind of looking at our life from the highest consciousness in the universe, appreciation is a positive force, and appreciation can ignite our life even more.
Many people may ask me what teacher appreciation has to do with narcissism. The difference between appreciation and narcissism is that appreciation is directed at oneself and others, and appreciation is all-encompassing.
And narcissism is often only directed at oneself, not at the whole of life, the scope of appreciation is larger, and the consciousness of appreciation is higher.
When you can appreciate life and appreciate everything, your self-confidence channel will open, you will see the preciousness of life itself, and you will see the preciousness of self.
Appreciation is a way of seeing one's own life from the whole picture, rather than basing one's life on comparison with others, appreciation is a rhythm of gradually finding oneself, so as to gain ultimate freedom within oneself. When you live with a sense of appreciation, your channels of self-confidence are built.
Second, choose a sense of joy and gratitude
Life is a journey of advanced experience, and when you approach your life with a sense of joy, you will find that self-confidence is built up spontaneously.
Self-confidence is about shaping one's life with a higher level of consciousness. Psychology has found that when a person has low self-esteem, they will be immersed in low emotions for a long time.
In fact, many people's inferiority is essentially controlled by the inner thought of lack, they regard their original family as their own life, and they regard external evaluation as their own life.
As our inner sense of joy slowly grows, the channels of our inner self-confidence are gradually established. In fact, what causes us to feel inferior is our low-level thoughts, especially those thoughts that we identify with.
For example, if you agree with the thoughts that you can't do, for example, you agree that your original family is bad, and your life will get worse and worse. When we take those low-level thoughts as our own lives, our inner life is limited and imprisoned.
When you stop identifying with the thoughts that hurt you, but slowly understand that those thoughts are only what others say about you, but not your life, then often you can be freed from those thoughts.
True life is a process of creation in which knowledge and action are one, and when you no longer bind you with the thoughts of others, but focus on your own life and act according to your own inner thoughts, your life will be opened, and naturally your life will have a living vitality.
The highest level of self-confidence is to no longer identify with the thoughts that hurt you, but to be freed from those thoughts, to learn to build yourself with mindfulness and righteousness, and your life will move towards a good positive cycle.
Third, learn to create your own life
The highest thoughts come from our inner creation, which are rooted in joy and love and peace, and the thought of love allows us to have a strong creativity.
Creativity is fundamental to the growth of our lives, and it is also the foundation of what we can create. When you know how to create, you will understand that life comes from our actions again and again, from creation after creation.
Creation is to express in their favorite form, some people like words, some people like music, some people like to paint, different forms do not matter, the most important thing is to learn to express their own life, record their own life, and choose positive thoughts to create their own life.
The essence of life is a creative process, and before the creation of life, we still need to smooth out our life, and many times, we live in pain, hindering our exploration of life.
When you know how to clean up your inner pain and clear your inner obstacles, we can express and create step by step. Here are two steps and two processes.
Often we need to clean up the obstacles of inner life, especially the wrong thoughts within.
When you know how to clean up continuously, your inner life force will become stronger. True self-confidence knows how to create the reality of life, and knows how to choose positive consciousness to shape one's own life.
Because those consciousnesses reshape our minds and reshape our lives, the idea of choosing to create is our highest responsibility for life, and this creativity activates the growth channels of our inner life and makes us brave enough to move forward.
If we want to attain ultimate self-confidence, we need to grasp the three higher consciousnesses, choose the thoughts of love instead of denying ourselves, choose to clear the inner obstacles, treat our lives with creation, choose higher thoughts, and not continue to treat ourselves with those hurtful thoughts.
When you continue to do this, you can create a better landscape for your life, and you will naturally be able to embrace a life of abundance.
Today's topic: Will you choose these three advanced ideas to treat yourself, welcome to discuss and communicate.