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Whether men really love you and want to go on with you for a long time, it is actually easy to see. If you are treated as true love, then it will inevitably give you certain privileges, let you feel different in his heart, and thus have more confidence in the relationship.
On the contrary, if he just wants to play tricks and play with you, then in many cases, he will not care about your feelings and thoughts, but put himself first, so that you will suffer from loss and loss, do not feel any sense of security, and there will be no future.
In a man's heart, the lover and the lover are two very different kinds of existence.
To know whether men treat you as a lover or a lover, you only need to look at three points to see at a glance. If he loves you, these details cannot be hidden, and if he does not love you, he cannot pretend to pretend.
One: Giving you his mobile phone password represents an incomparable honesty and trust in you
Mobile phone passwords are used to protect personal privacy, and nowadays everyone has one or more mobile phones, about their social relationships, how much to save, daily work or travel, etc., all of which are closely related to mobile phones. If a man is willing to give you the password of his mobile phone, it can be seen that he has great trust in you and has obviously become his own person.
On the contrary, if a man says that he loves you, but always hides from you and never tells the truth, then it means that he is still in the wait-and-see stage, does not trust you, or just plays with you, and is not serious.
Either way, you have to think hard about whether he is a person he can trust and love.
Two: Give you certain privileges that others don't have, such as confessing your past and being single-minded about you
The man who treats you as a lover is transparent in front of you, he will not hide anything from you, but is absolutely honest with you, especially his own past.
If a man in a relationship is willing to generously tell his past and tell you that he once lived in a person in his heart, then please do not doubt his sincerity about this relationship. Because he has been able to talk to you generously about the past, it is largely proof that he has completely let go and is ready to face the future with you.
In fact, in the relationship, the most terrible thing is not that each other has lived in each other's hearts, but that they have not been honest with each other, and they have not forgotten the person in the past, and they have started a new relationship, which is an act that is not responsible for themselves and others.
Therefore, when women are in love, they must find an appropriate time to ask about each other's past, and if he is willing to say everything, then everyone will be happy. If the other person is always hiding, or even saying that you are unreasonable, then you should consider the relationship between each other.
Don't waste your feelings and energy on people who don't deserve it, that will only plunge yourself into the abyss and end up with nothing.
Three: Give you his wallet or payment password and treat you like your future wife
In addition to the above two points, if you want to judge a man's sincerity, you can also see if he is willing to spend money for you willingly. Although women in love do not want each other's money, but love a person will think of giving. Who would believe it if you were always on a dime and claimed to love deeply?
When a man offers to give you his wallet or payment password, obviously has regarded you as the other half of the future, and you are already good enough not to distinguish between each other, this trust is really rare.
On the contrary, if a man is not willing to spend money for you, and always guards you in terms of money, everything is calculated, then it means that you may only be a temporary companion and alleviate loneliness for him.
Of course, some women may think that feelings are originally two-way things, and it is understandable to spend money on each other. But understand that if you are always paying in a relationship, and the other party will even think that there is no need to spend money on you, such a relationship needless to say, it must not go long.
When a man really puts you in his heart, there is no doubt that he will be willing to take the initiative to hand over all his wealth to you to show that his sincerity is as solid as a rock.
On the contrary, if when you are together, he has reservations about you, whether financially, psychologically, or financially, he must not be real enough about your heart.
In fact, many women are full of expectations for love, they hope to meet a person who truly loves themselves, and spend the rest of their lives with him, even if it does not matter if they suffer, but not all women have the luck to meet the person who treats them sincerely.
Therefore, women in feelings must learn to judge whether the other party loves themselves, and if they find that the other party's feelings for themselves are not so true, then they must quit in time to avoid being hurt.
We should leave the truth to those who deserve it, so that it is worth it in the world.
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