I can't go back to my family in the New Year, and after I got married, I found out that when I was a child, the family grew up and became relatives

The flowers and flowers are unintentional, only the truth exists in the heart

Many people will have such a feeling after marriage, every time they go back to their mother's house, they have to carry a large bag of things to have a "face" to go back, but when they go to the in-laws' house, even if they are empty-handed, the people around them will not say a word of gossip. Over time, I became more and more like a guest in my mother's house, and it seemed that I was my real home in my in-laws' house.

Although there is a saying that "a daughter who marries out is like water spilled", every time I return to my mother's house, see everything in the family, and remember the time I have spent here for 20 years, I will all recall my long-term memories, many people are unwilling to admit it, and I can't understand why a family that was so close as a child finally became relatives.

01 The words of her parents when she got married made Tang Jing fall into contemplation

In Tang Jing's impression, her parents have always loved her very much, since she was a child, no matter what delicious and fun the first thing to enjoy at home must be her, even if she ignores the feelings of her elder brother, the requirements made by her parents to Tang Jing are as far as possible to meet.

Therefore, the feelings between Tang Jing and her parents are naturally particularly deep, even after her brother got married, in the face of the contradiction between her sister-in-law and her mother, Tang Jing always wanted to protect her mother, of course, Tang Jing would also change the law to comfort her sister-in-law. Therefore, as a brother-in-law, Tang Jing is naturally very loving.

Tang Jing sometimes thinks about how good it would be for her family to be so happy and happy forever.

In the blink of an eye, Tang Jing reached the age when she should get married, and after being introduced by her relatives, Tang Jing met her husband Tang Cheng.

The two were also considered to be love at first sight, and the feelings between them heated up rapidly, and soon, they reached the point where the two talked about marriage, and after preparing everything for marriage, on the first night of Tang Jing's big day, Tang Jing's parents called her to the room alone and said a word to her.

The parents said: Daughter, tomorrow you are going to get married, as a parent, you have to say a few words to you, after you get married, you are the person of your in-laws' family, you must honor your in-laws, shoulder the responsibilities that a wife should take on, as for the affairs of the family, you should not ask too much, take care of yourself.

After listening to her parents' words, Tang Jing fell into contemplation, as if there was a deeper meaning in her parents' words.

02 Married for many years, she is very considerate to her mother's family

However, after Tang Jing got married, she quickly forgot the words that her parents had instructed before she was about to get married, and for so many years, Tang Jing had done everything in her mother's family.

Sometimes, when the mother's family comes to visit, the brother and sister-in-law are not at home, it is Tang Jing who prepares the ingredients, and then goes to the mother's house to make a large table of dishes, and after cooking, Tang Jing cleans up the table to be able to go home.

Even if the affairs of the mother-in-law's family conflict with the affairs of the in-laws' family, Tang Jing also puts the affairs of the mother's family in the first place.

As a husband Tang Cheng, it is natural to complain about this behavior of his wife, but it is undeniable that although Tang Jing always takes care of her mother's family, during the time when Tang Cheng went out to work, everything in the family was handled by Tang Jing alone, and there was never any mistake, and the relationship between her and her mother-in-law was relatively harmonious, and Tang Jing knew how to please the elderly.

For many reasons, Tang Cheng only lost his temper occasionally, and did not have too many contradictions with Tang Jing because of this matter.

More than ten years have passed, during these ten years, Tang Jing has been dedicated to her mother's family for ten years, and every time she returns to her mother's house, she will always be welcomed by the family, but by chance, Tang Jing found that her mother always seemed to want to say something to herself.

03 Because of the child, Tang Jing returned to her mother's house less often, but when she returned home again, she was told that her sister-in-law did not agree to her returning home

Later, as Tang Jing had a child, she spent most of her energy on the child, even if there were some things in her mother's family that needed to be present by herself, Tang Jing was also lacking in skills.

Gradually, after the child grew up, for the future of the child, Tang Jing and her husband moved to the city, and there were only a few days of rest time throughout the day, sometimes Tang Jing missed her parents, she would take time to go back to her mother's house, and even sometimes she couldn't take care of eating, so she had to hurry home.

Many years have passed, and as the children have succeeded in their studies, Tang Jing and her husband are also relieved, and they plan not to live in the city and return to their hometown in the countryside.

It happened that tang jing and her husband discussed it at that time, and they were ready to bring some things back to their mother's house to see.

Tang Jing's parents were naturally very happy about Tang Jing's arrival, but not long after, her mother suddenly called and did not let Tang Jing go home, and her mother said on the phone: Daughter, don't come back first, your sister-in-law will not let you go home.

After careful inquiry, Tang Jing knew that her sister-in-law was angry, and the reason for her anger was that she had not returned to her mother's house for so many years.

Tang Jingben thought of calling her sister-in-law to explain, but her mother stopped her, and her mother said: Daughter, I have always wanted to tell you something, I also talked to you before you got married, but at that time you didn't care, now you and your brother-in-law are no longer family relations, but a kind of relative, just like me, since you remember, I don't go to your grandfather's house much, because my status in his family is the same as you are now, they are relatives.

After listening to her mother's words, Tang Jing fell into a long silence, she could not imagine that the family that was so close as a child had finally become relatives, and this transformation was really difficult for Tang Jing to accept.

Conclusion: When I was a child, the family was happy and harmonious, and after getting married, the mother's family slowly became a relative, in fact, this is also the verification of that sentence: the woman is getting smaller and smaller in the mother's family, and the in-laws are getting bigger and bigger, after marrying, as the hostess of a family, the family's efforts are obvious to all, but for the mother's family, the daughter has been married, has become a member of other people's families, over time, in addition to the parents, the rest of the family, slowly become relatives.