Growth is not "all at once"
Text/Li Cui
I often hear parents say, "The child suddenly understands things!" "The child is suddenly bad!" "Learning is suddenly getting better!" "The grades have dropped all of a sudden!" “......”
There is no "all at once" thing in the growth of children, but we do not pay attention to the small details of children's growth.
Xiaoqin is a particularly attentive and attentive mother. Talk to her and you'll think she really loves kids. She talked about a small thing that impressed me very much.
Due to the epidemic, the boarding school did not have a holiday for three consecutive weeks, and her son asked her to bring back a small note for her, and when she saw it, she shouted: "My baby has improved!" She opened her phone photo album and shared her joy with me: "Look! The title is 'Mom', this is a respect for me, he did not write a title before, 'The teacher said to send something on Sunday, don't forget Ang', you see a 'Ang', this is playing with me! ”
She smiled heartily and read word by word the shopping list her son had written to her, which was divided into three categories of items, including clothes, daily necessities, snacks, and a long list of six snacks, almost each of which had a description of the price, brand, and quantity.
This mother happily interprets and shares the "feeling after reading" at any time. At the end of the reading, she proudly said, "Look! Finally, there are the 'precautions'! 'Put the instant noodles on the bottom and the clothes on the top, in case the teacher finds out', 'It's best to put it in a black bag', think about it thoughtfully! 'Stick my name, braces: paste a little smaller', this is afraid that the teacher will find his stuff more! ”
She said happily: "Before I wrote the baby, I looked for words on the paper to find the meaning of the words, look at the baby now, classified, clear, complete expression, neat handwriting, indicating that he can already plan, this is progress!" ”
Her eyes were full of admiration, and what a blessing it was for her to raise a child. A child's shopping list written to his mother is replaced by a "little glutton" that others may see, but what Xiaoqin sees is the footprint of the child's growth!
Children do not grow up "all at once" or become bad "all at once". They are growing and changing every day, as long as we love the child with our hearts and love the child seriously, we can find the subtle changes in the child's growth, so that we can timely affirm the child's progress or correct the child's wrong behavior, so that the child can grow well!
Don't "suddenly" change, because most children's "all at once" makes "careless" parents unacceptable and regretful!
Pretty Mom Profile:
Li Cui, female, Han ethnicity, member of the Communist Party of China, born in August 1979 in Longhua Town, Yicheng County, is a first-level primary and secondary school teacher and a registered senior psychological counselor. After graduating from Linfen Normal School in 1999, he has been engaged in education, and is currently the director of Longhua Center Kindergarten, and has been awarded the honorary titles of "Excellent Party Member Teacher", "Excellent Class Teacher" of the City, and "Model Teacher" of the county for many years.