Let go of your hand and let the child go on his own
Text/Li Cui
With the development of the epidemic form, the epidemic prevention and control work in all walks of life has become more and more stringent and refined, and the prevention and control measures have gradually escalated - wearing masks, measuring body temperature, and scanning three yards.
The kindergarten is full of children and teachers, and they dare not relax in the slightest. The gate is the first line of defense against the epidemic, the school requires parents to pick up and drop off their children are not allowed to enter, and parents who need to enter the kindergarten must show "three codes".
There is no problem with the children in the kindergarten and middle class, the hand is eliminated at the school gate, the body temperature is measured in the hall, and they go through the process and enter the classroom by themselves. Some children in the baby class asked parents to send in, and parents in individual kindergartens also asked to go in. So I started encouraging my baby to try to get in on his own. "The baby is old enough to go in on his own!" Say goodbye to Mom! ”
The child went in on his own step by step, and the parent stood in the doorway tiptoeing inside. Some children "discussed" no way, so I let the older children hold their small hands and walk in, and they actually succeeded!
The most touching thing is that after the little hairy head of a baby class arrived at the school gate, without prompting, two small fat hands were gathered in front of me, and I sprayed him with alcohol to disinfect while praising him: "This baby is so smart!" Today the baby went in on his own to find the little friend, okay? The little hairy head nodded, the mother hung a small kettle around his neck, he beckoned to the mother and slowly walked inside, took a few steps and looked back at the mother, the mother smiled and encouraged him: "Baby fast in, you can!" "The child walked in smoothly under the eyes of his mother! This is the first time that the child has walked into the kindergarten on his own, and he has taken this valuable step with the encouragement of his mother!
"Baby, can we walk in on our own?" I said to a kid in a baby class. He looked at Grandma, who was very young, and she shook her head like a rattle: "No, no, no, no, no, no She can't! Can't go up the stairs! "Immediately picked up the child and went inside, we were also helpless, had to check her "three yards" release.
There are also children in a small class, the mother insists on sending the child in, how to persuade not to listen, "I still send the child, he can't do it himself!" If you don't send it, he'll cry! I looked at the child, and the child had tears in his eyes under the guidance of his mother's "thoughts". He "succeeded", and his mother took his hand and went in after showing the "three yards".
"You can!" "He can't!" Two different words, two different educational philosophies. The former focuses on encouragement, dare to let go, so that children become more and more confident, more and more brave, more and more independent; the latter focuses on protection, dare not let go, let the children always curl up under their "wings", lack of exercise, lack of attempt, loss of self-confidence, will only become more and more dependent.
Life is a long road, if you want your child to grow, you must know how to let go as soon as possible!
Pretty Mom Profile:
Li Cui, female, Han ethnicity, member of the Communist Party of China, born in August 1979 in Longhua Town, Yicheng County, is a first-level primary and secondary school teacher and a registered senior psychological counselor. After graduating from Linfen Normal School in 1999, he has been engaged in education, and is currently the director of Longhua Center Kindergarten, and has been awarded the honorary titles of "Excellent Party Member Teacher", "Excellent Class Teacher" of the City, and "Model Teacher" of the county for many years.