In a family, the status of the father is very important, he is the pillar of the family, responsible for making money to support the family, and is the backbone of everyone;
Dad is Mom's life partner and Mom's spiritual support;
Is the child's idol and role model, the father's words and deeds will form a mindset for the child, will teach the child to be independent and brave, and will also let the child learn how to fight and self-confidence...
These are the indispensable roles of a father in the family, especially for children, fathers are their future indicators, and an excellent father can lead children to the road to success.
Therefore, in order to create a better life for their children, fathers please do the following:
1. Give love to your wife
Dad's words and deeds are enough for the child to see in the eyes and remember in the heart, what state you are in now will subtly affect the child's future behavior.
Therefore, from the perspective of family relations, the first thing a father has to do is to pay for his wife's love. The father's attitude toward his wife now may determine the attitude of his future children to his family.
Children have the ability to imitate, this imitation will also be deeply engraved in the mind, if the child is a child often at home to see the father scolding the mother, cold eyes, all kinds of provocation, they will naturally think that the relationship between husband and wife should be this way of handling.
As he grows older, this imitation and mindset will deeply influence his family values. The boy would also scold and reprimand his lover to brutally solve family problems.
Girls are afraid of getting married, afraid of meeting someone like their father, which also greatly reduces their understanding of home and love.
The correct approach for fathers is to respect and pamper their mothers, take care of and be considerate as much as possible, learn to express and pour out love correctly, maintain family harmony with true feelings, and let children see the tenderness of their fathers and feel the warmth of the family.
2. Spend more time with your child to do sports
From birth, children will naturally feel the difference in strength between father and mother. Compared with the gentleness of the mother's movements, the father's movements will be more powerful, and this difference is exactly what the child needs most.
In terms of sports, the mother gives the child the sporting power is more feminine, which can make the child feel the stability and stability, and the father is more willing to interpret the strong power of the sport with the action of lifting high and climbing and running.
This strong energy will make children feel brave and determined in sports, and unconsciously cultivate children's courage.
It's better for dads to do this: take your kids to exercise and play more, and use your tough arms to make your kids feel strong and healthy.
Children can strengthen their physique like a man, have a strong body, and at the same time improve their inner courage through powerful exercise.
3. Build your child's self-confidence
Fathers play more with their children, which can bring the parent-child relationship closer. In the process of playing, we must also pay attention to the education and guidance of their ideas.
For example, children should be given self-confidence from an early age, so that they can win more times when interacting with them in games.
Children will have a desire to win and lose games and games, they will be happy when they win, and they will be frustrated when they lose. Dads may wish to "release water" a little while playing chess or running with their children, and occasionally let their children win once.
When the child wins the father, who is like a hero in their hearts, the child's heart will definitely be particularly happy, and perhaps they will feel that they are also valuable, can defeat the father, and prove their ability.
This is a kind of self-confidence cultivation, children in the process of playing to see their own value, later to the society, can also be more firmly believed that they can succeed in everything, will give them the motivation to persevere.
Dad does this: usually play and play, let the child win a few more times, send them a little more confidence, that is, encourage them to continue to persevere and move forward, I believe that the child's road to success will not be too far.
4. Give your child a hug
Father's love has always been more obscure and difficult to express, if the father is missing in the expression of love, it is easy to cause a certain impact on the child's love and expression.
In fact, expressing love is very simple, use your actions to tell your children that your father's love is no less than your mother's love for you.
Excellent fathers do this: stretch out their hands to give the child a hug, hug it as much as you want, just hug the child into your arms, let them feel the fierceness of your love in your harbor, and use the temperature of your hug to give the child stability and steadfastness, they will understand that the original father loves me so much.
Dad, this role, in fact, is very important, he will become the guide to the success of the child, a good father will teach excellent children.
Fathers, for the sake of their children's future, please take on the responsibility of this father.