Accompanying the growth of children is happy, and at the same time, fighting wits and courage in the process of companionship is also an indispensable thing in the daily life of kindergartens. In the face of lively, mischievous, introverted, well-behaved... Children with different personalities, kindergarten teachers not only need wisdom and courage, can adapt to changes, but also have their own unique cheats, belonging to kindergarten teachers and parents of parenting "Sun Tzu Art of War" thirty-six counts, how many tricks will you have?
The first count: the weak meter
Let the child act as a "little adult" for a time
If the child lacks a sense of responsibility, it is because you always show a fearless look in front of the child, and when something happens, the child will naturally think that you do not need his care.
Therefore, teachers may wish to play weak once in a while, ask for help from their children, and you will find that children can also use their own unique ways of dealing with things to solve your problems.
The second count: the reinforcement meter
Let the child change from inferiority to self-confidence
James Dopplin, a doctor of philosophy in California, proposed the "law of reinforcement". When a person's behavior yields satisfactory results, this behavior is repeated.
Therefore, when the child is recognized, his self-confidence will be stimulated, and he will continue to repeat satisfactory behaviors until he gets rid of inferiority and becomes a good child who is confident and self-motivated.
The third meter: the induction meter
Help your child get over the quagmire of "school weariness"
Almost every child has some "school-weariness" sentiment, which is understandable but cannot be left to its own devices. Because this emotion will hinder children's enthusiasm for learning, bringing immeasurable impact on children's growth. However, forcing children to learn is not a good way, this will only deepen the child's antipathy, the smart way is to induce children's interest in learning, so that children automatically and spontaneously learn.
The fourth count: the cold count
Let the child have a little self-control
Most of today's children are only children, and they are cared for and cared for by their families, but such a life has made children develop a wayward habit, which will lay huge hidden dangers for children's future lives. When it is recommended that children are willful, teachers try cold treatment, which will make children automatically restrain their temper because they are not noticed.
Fifth count: Grant setback count
Give your child a chance to experience failure
American educator Carle Sandberg said: "Of course, good times can produce talents, but adversity can also produce talents." And children who have grown up through setbacks and thousands of hammers in adversity are more competitive for survival. ”
That is to say, in order to enhance the child's endurance, teachers should consciously create some moderate frustration feelings for the child, and this frustration education is of great benefit to enhancing the child's psychological endurance.
Sixth count: Let go
Nurture children to do their own things
Be a "lazy" teacher, create more hands-on opportunities and platforms for children, and in the family, parents have arranged too many opportunities for children to do it themselves.
Therefore, in the kindergarten, teachers should encourage children to try their hands, the first time may not be good, but it will be done quickly and well later. Children learn to be self-reliant in order to grow better.
Seventh count: Connivance
Let the child develop their potential in the "naughty"
There are always a few naughty children in each class, in fact, such children are often very smart, their curiosity and curiosity are relatively strong, and their willpower is firmer than that of ordinary children.
Therefore, the smart teacher should try to "indulge" the child's naughty and "destructive" behavior, and take the opportunity to tap the potential and cultivate interest, maybe this child is another "Edison".
Eighth count: Penalty count
Let your child face up to his mistakes
Educating children should be rewarded and punished clearly, and children should be rewarded for doing well, but children cannot be tolerated when they do wrong things, even if it is only a small mistake, they must be punished moderately, so that children can face up to their mistakes, correct them in time, and avoid deviations in children's cognition.
The ninth meter: the refrigeration meter
"Pour cold water" on your conceited child
Conceit refers to the over-evaluation of self-esteem and the absence of anyone, which is extremely detrimental to the growth of children.
Therefore, once the signs of child conceit are found, the teacher should use the means of "refrigeration" to pour some cold water on the child in a timely manner, so that the child can learn to evaluate himself rationally and correctly understand himself.
Tenth count: Inclusion
Let the child feel the love of the teacher
Children may not be smart enough, they may have many flaws, and as teachers, they should not be prejudiced, humiliated, or disliked.
Because your tolerance will make your child become confident.
Eleventh Count: Role Model
Be a good first teacher for your child
The teacher is a role model for the child in daily life, and any action you do will affect the child.
Therefore, teachers should always pay attention to their own words and deeds, set an example for children with their correct words and behaviors, and guide children to grow up healthily.
Twelfth count: Encouragement
Give your child the strength to keep improving
Children are easy to lose confidence in themselves, it is easy to choose to give up efforts in the face of difficulties, therefore, the teacher should continue to encourage children, give them the courage to move forward and the confidence to win, so that children can take the teacher's expectations and continue to make progress.
Thirteenth Count: Listening
Carefully understand your child's feelings
Each child has his own voice, the teacher should patiently listen to each child's words, in order to truly understand the child's thoughts, feelings, in order to make a timely and meticulous treatment of the child's physical and psychological problems and changes. With such a foundation, the relationship between teachers and students will become more and more harmonious and warm.
Fourteenth Count: Reward the Good
Let the child progress in the praise
Educationalists believe that rewards are more effective ways to educate children than punishment. Therefore, they suggest that rewarding the right instead of punishing the wrong, and using the positive advantages instead of the negative shortcomings, can not only avoid causing harm to the child, but also make the child make better progress.
Fifteenth count: point dialing
Subtly hint at what is right for your child
The nagging preaching and powerful teacher is the child's least favorite, and the smart teacher will only give a little hint and guidance to help the child solve the problem when the child encounters a problem or a behavioral error.
In this way, the child understands the truth, and the teacher achieves the purpose of education.
Sixteenth count: Virtual meter
Let the child have a sense of "I'm great" self-
Japanese educator Jinichi Suzuki said: "With the feeling of genius, you will become a genius; with the feeling of a hero, you will become a hero." When a child finds the feeling of a good child, he will become a good child. ”
Use virtual means to create a "I am great" self-feeling for the child, and he will gradually "stick" up.
Seventeenth count: Tolerance
Let the child learn more from the mistakes
In life, children will inevitably have some mistakes and mistakes. Some are unintentional, some are intentional.
If the nature of the child's mistake is not very serious, then the teacher may wish to give tolerance and forgiveness, so that the child will not only correct the mistake more seriously in the guilt and self-blame, but also make the child form a good tolerant attitude.
Eighteenth Count: Cautionary Count
Let children recognize mistakes and reform themselves
Children are children, and there will be all kinds of problems and mistakes, some mistakes can be tolerated, and some mistakes cannot be tolerated.
The child must be criticized reasonably and effectively to ensure that the child does not make similar mistakes again.
Nineteenth count: Edification meter
Give your child a good impact in life
In daily life, teachers can cultivate children's healthy interests and hobbies through storytelling and other ways, cultivate children's interests and conduct, and let children grow up healthier.
The twentieth meter: the evacuation meter
The success of allowing children to change from confrontation to cooperation is that they are "loose" rather than "blocked", and teachers can also get inspiration from this method. Being too authoritarian in educating children will only cause the child to rebel and let the child "do it against you", but if you adopt a wise and open counseling strategy, the child will be willing to cooperate with you happily.
Count 21: Respect for the Young
Get your child closer to the teacher
The reason for the conflict between teachers and students is often because the teacher has too high control over the child's daily life, disregarding the child's wishes, making the child's heart dissatisfied and pulling away the distance between them.
In fact, children also need respect, and if you want to become the most popular teacher for children, start with respect for children.
Count XXII: The AC meter
Achieve good communication with your child
Put down your body, communicate with your child in your child's tone, and be your child's good friend.
In this way, the child will be willing to speak to you, and the teacher can help the child get rid of various problems in time.
If the teacher always puts on the shelf of the teacher and demands that the child obey himself, then the door of communication between teachers and students will slowly close.
Twenty-third count: offensive and defensive count
Give your child a "preventive shot" first
In terms of martial arts, the best defense is offense.
In the education of children is also the case, rather than the child after the problem, and then to teach and remedy, it is better to give the child a "preventive shot" in advance, improve the child's "immunity", let the child take fewer detours, make fewer mistakes.
Twenty-fourth plan: discipline and thrift
Help your child overcome arrogance
Now the children are the "little emperor" and "little princess" of the family, and they want the wind to be windy and the rain to be rainy.
Some children have developed the habit of arrogance, do not know how to cherish the goods, this habit is extremely detrimental to the healthy growth of children, therefore, teachers and parents communicate, teach children to be diligent and thrifty, help children develop frugal habits, this is the real love of children.
Count 25: Companion planning
Teach good kids in participation
The teacher treats himself as a child and participates in the daily life of the child, which can make the teacher more understanding of the child's thoughts and thoughts, and deepen the sense of trust between the teacher and the child.
Twenty-sixth meter: anti-micrometer
Don't let your child's little problems become big problems
In life, children sometimes have some small problems, such as overbearing, rude, etc., at this time the teacher should pay attention to, although the problem is small, but also to strictly manage, to prevent micro-gradual, otherwise these small problems will become big problems, then want to let the child correct, it is not so easy. Do not tolerate the child's small problems, strict management is also a manifestation of love.
Twenty-seventh count: Persuasion and peace count
Children can also tolerate each other
There will also be some friction and misunderstanding between children, at which time the teacher will play the role of "peacemaker", help both sides eliminate contradictions, misunderstandings, tolerate each other, and let children learn to love.
Twenty-eighth count: establish rules
Use reasonable rules to let children learn self-control
The child's self-control ability is poor, and the teacher's "don't do this" and "don't do that" preaching is easy to cause children's boredom. Therefore, the teacher can establish a set of effective behavior rules for the child, as the basis for the child to judge his own behavior, so as to restrain his own behavior.
Twenty-ninth count: burden reduction meter
Don't put too much pressure on your child
In life, there are more and more children with psychological disorders, and child psychologists point out that excessive pressure is an important cause of psychological problems in children, and reducing the burden on children has become a top priority.
In order to let the child grow up healthily, teachers should not put too much pressure on the child when making requests to the child.
Thirtieth count: Excitation meter
Stimulate children to love learning
Teach children to find the right way, and when persuasion and preaching do not work, teachers may wish to try this trick to stimulate the device.
Use the child's competitiveness, rebelliousness and even jealousy to deliberately stimulate the child, so that they change from not loving learning to active learning.
Count 31: The Acceptable Count
Let the child like and accept themselves
If the child cannot fully understand himself and see his strengths, there will be many problems. Such as low self-esteem, jealousy of others and so on.
Therefore, teachers should let children see their own strengths and let children like themselves, so that children can face life confidently.
Count Thirty-second: The Good Patience Plan
Gently correct your child's "out of line" behavior
Children often do some "out of line" behavior, and "stormy" education will only take children to extremes. Therefore, teachers should be able to "no hastes and be patient", suppress the anger, understand more children and tolerate children, and guide children on this basis, so that children can realize their own behavior mistakes. Thirty-third Plan: Cultivate children's courageous personality of bold exploration
In life, it is often those who dare to explore and be bold and fearless to achieve outstanding achievements and achieve happiness.
Therefore, in daily activities, teachers should not overemphasize the cultivation of "obedient" children, but should give children more opportunities to exercise and encourage them to be brave children.
Count Thirty-Four: The Moving Meter
Touch the child's heart with true feelings
Educating children cannot only be preaching and persuading, but sometimes it must also be emotional, so as to shake the child's heart and achieve the best effect of education.
However, to move the child must be sincere, otherwise the effect will be greatly reduced.
Count 35: Equality
Raise an open-minded child
Today's children are mostly only children, all of them are "little suns", they are accustomed to self-centered, but such a personality is extremely detrimental to interpersonal communication.
Therefore, in life, teachers should treat every child equally, cultivate their spirit of sharing and cooperation, and gradually cultivate a child with an open mind.
Thirty-sixth meter: Grinding meter
Develop your child's will and perseverance
Today's children are facing a society full of competition, and many children often lack the courage to overcome difficulties because their lives are too comfortable. Therefore, teachers should create more platforms for children to overcome difficulties to cultivate their perseverance and perseverance, so that they can win in future competitions.
Thirty-six counts is only a method of education for teachers. More or more need teachers in their daily life with a sense of responsibility to accompany, with their own professionalism, kindness, love, to cultivate a child with a strong enough heart, so that they are invincible on the road to growth, and the heart is full and happy.
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