Even more frightening than the economic depression is that men don't chase women

Have you noticed a phenomenon: men are getting too lazy to spend time pursuing women now.

For men, they are more willing to spend their time making money, and when they have money, they will find a woman in another way.

For women, they would rather have their own careers, become independent, and no longer pin their happiness on men.

Indeed, in this era, men do not lack sex, women do not lack money, and everyone no longer takes love and marriage so seriously.

The biggest cost of the future is the cost of emotion, and we are not easily paying our feelings.

When we were young, we often saw all kinds of pure love and beautiful love stories in various magazines, all over the campus, workplace, family and other corners.

But now, we rarely see the praise of romantic love on the Internet, replaced by a successful entrepreneurial story.

This seems to be a very simple phenomenon, but in fact, there is the ultimate problem of human beings behind it.

If you see through this problem, you see through the future of humanity.

First, the efficiency of the modern people

Let's first look at the difference between "ancient people" and "modern people".

The progress of the productive forces in ancient society was very slow, thousands of years ago people used hoes to cultivate the land, and thousands of years later people still used hoes to cultivate the land, at most from stone to bronze, and from bronze to iron. In this case, people have a lot of time to pursue emotions and spirits, so the ancient people can not move is poetry, song, piano, chess, calligraphy and painting, women for their own pleasure, soldiers for the death of confidants, men are full of pride, women are full of style, how wind and snow, romantic and beautiful.

And now the social productivity progress is very fast, just a dozen years of mobile phones are updated several generations, social changes with each passing day, so people have to continue to adapt to this change, every change is a shock, some people climb up and some people fall down, which invisibly urges us to continue to improve, constantly change themselves, so "efficiency" has become the core of social operation.

Today we live in a society where efficiency is paramount, everyone is improving their efficiency, especially men, almost all of them are shouldering the responsibility of transforming the world, where there is so much energy, time, patience to understand a person, or to pursue a woman.

Therefore, "modern people" and "ancient people" are simply two varieties, and "modern people" are indifferent to anything except desperately making money.

Second, money is becoming the yardstick for everything

In the future society, people will only become more and more realistic, and the purpose of people's interaction is to exchange benefits, and will no longer involve others. How tired are you talking about feelings? Talk about interests more directly.

The essence of marriage has also become an exchange of interests, everyone takes what they need, you put out your conditions and needs, I put out my conditions and needs, come together, go if you don't, hurry to find the next object.

So the future of love may be clearly marked price, do not believe you go to a variety of blind date websites to see, what are the rows of beautiful and handsome men below, is not how much salary? What is your height? How much does the car cost? How many houses are there? How much is the deposit? All of these are quantified data.

What was originally supreme love ended up being a bunch of measurable metrics. What we are looking for is no longer a confidant with a red face, but a person who can make your life better and maximize your benefits.

"Money" is also becoming the measure of all things, everything is clearly marked, everything is trading.

For men, instead of spending a lot of time and energy on chasing a girl, it is better to spend all this time and energy on career development, as long as the career is successful, everything comes. If there is no money, how long can it last even if it creates a momentary romance?

And the woman also sees through a reality:

Many boys tell girls like this: I really like you, although I don't have any money now, but I will definitely try to make money, and when I get rich in the future, I will definitely double compensate you.

And the reality is often: such boys either have no ability to do great things at all, or when they get rich later, they will abandon the wives of the chaff around them.

Therefore, women have become more and more independent, no longer pinning their happiness on men, and more often they are playing tricks.

Third, we will become more and more lonely

The world is both a contradiction and a balance:

The richer the substance, the more the person's IQ will degenerate;

The more developed the technology, the more empty the human spirit will be;

The richer the nutrition, the more the physiological function of the person will decline.

The more developed the economy of a society, the stronger the independence of people, and in the future everyone will be an independent economy.

Especially after this epidemic, people will maintain the habit of wearing masks and maintain a certain distance when meeting with each other.

This will further expand the distance between people and people, and we are already lonely in this era, but we will be even more lonely in the future.

In the future, everyone will be an island, helplessly adrift on the sea, seeking private space, afraid of being intruded by others, and longing to be understood, recognized, and eager to be associated with people.

The more lonely people are, the more they like to make themselves busy, in fact, this is an escape, many people are busy on the surface, in fact, the heart has long been like a pool of stagnant water.

Fourth, man becomes a machine, and a machine becomes a man

Humans are following an irreversible path towards mechanization...

We become more and more rational, numb, mechanized, indifferent to everything, like machines with established procedures.

Our language and emotions are tending to be formatted, our genes are being cracked piece by piece, new human life can be designed on demand in advance, and human beings are moving along an irreversible path towards mechanization.

Look at those children living in first-tier cities, everyone runs between various occasions all day, all kinds of business negotiations are dazzling, all kinds of social gatherings are like a scene, looking at smiling faces, the actual heart is cold as a machine.

At the same time, machines are really trying to achieve "emotionalization", and now many artificial intelligences are trying to use big data to interpret human emotions, they are trying to have human feelings and spirituality, trying to communicate with humans, and even replacing people.

This is really a huge irony, the development of science and technology makes human beings "de-emotional", at the same time, the development of science and technology requires machines to strive to achieve "emotional", so which one represents the direction of civilization?

We will find out one day that sooner or later people will become machines, and the machines will become people.

And when machines have spirituality, when humans are completely materialized, robots begin to rule over human beings, to exercise god's power.

As a result, human spirituality will eventually disappear into the civilization of its own creation.

This is the ultimate crisis of humanity.

Freud said: "All problems of man are sexual problems.".

All crises are fundamentally crises of human nature.

The most painful thing is that you know you're in it, but you still have to work with society.

Life is a huge shackle, and you have to repeat those boring lives.