Yi Shu said: A woman's greatest confidence is economic independence.
When a woman maintains financial independence, she does not have to look at anyone's face because of money, be careful without spending some money, and do not have to fear that one day there will be a crisis in the marriage. This independence not only allows himself to always be in line with society, so that he can buy anything he wants to buy for himself, but also allows himself to have a confidence and not to be afraid of all the wind and rain in the future.
Ning You in the TV series "Meet the Season" is such a financially independent woman.
Annual salary of 2 million
Ning You (played by Yuan Quan) was born in an ordinary family, and her parents stabbed their boss because of a moment of excitement, and later committed suicide.
The death of his father, coupled with jia minmin (played by Luo Haiqiong), has covered the life of the Ning family with a layer of ashes. Mother Ning Hui was originally a pharmacist in the hospital, but later she could only take her two children away from her hometown and changed the names of a pair of children.
When he was young, Ning Yu had always been sensible and frugal. During college, she always ate pickles. Mother Ning Hui also encouraged her daughter to study well, so that she could live a good life in the future.
Ning Yu is very popular, majoring in finance, and after graduation, he entered the top 500 companies in Shanghai, with an annual salary of 2 million.
Because of the family and her own personality, Ning Youchang has become a smart, powerful, kind, clear-headed, straightforward woman, and facing problems.
Ning Yu's biggest bug was indecisiveness, and he also found a cowardly and irresponsible husband, Hao Qinglin. In the marriage of strong women and weak men, Hao Qinglin has always been a weak person, so he cheated.
After her husband Hao Qinglin cheated on her, Ning Yu chose to forgive for the sake of her children, and lived separately under the same roof for 2 years.
Ning Yu, who has an annual salary of 2 million yuan, is of high quality in terms of eating and wearing. As a strong woman, she will get up every morning to cook Western food for her husband and children to eat, and eat very exquisitely.
The only drawback is that the whole family atmosphere is lifeless.
There are 2 suites under the name
Over the years, Ning Yu has 2 houses under his name. One is an old house and the other is a new house that has just been bought. The new house purchased by Ning Yu is spacious and bright, and from the perspective of location and apartment type, this house must be at least 8 figures.
The down payment and mortgage of these two houses are basically in charge of Ning You, and her husband Hao Qinglin is a transparent presence at home.
I thought that Hao Qinglin would keep to himself, but he didn't expect to cheat again.
Divorce became Ning Yu's last choice.
Hao Qinglin selfishly proposed the condition of divorce, that is, the custody of the child was owned by Ning You. The old house belongs to him.
Hao Qinglin actually had no intention of repenting at all, and he also led all his mistakes to Ning You.
Hao Qinglin is a typical machismo, not only does not do housework at home, nor does he raise children, but he is unable to make money and suspects that others look down on him. Because of his limited ability, he was not only jealous of Ning You, but also developed an inferiority complex.
Cheating is also just hoping to get the adoration of women and satisfy his machismo. A man like Hao Qinglin, who can marry a confident and strong and excellent woman like Ning You, is actually grateful to Dade, but he is not satisfied.
Unexpectedly, on the eve of the divorce, Hao Qinglin was also involved in a fraud crime.
The front is just three small
After Hao Qinglin was arrested, Xiao San Gu Weiwei came to the door.
There is only one reason why Gu Weiwei supports Hao Qinglin so much. That is, she was really in love with Hao Qinglin.
After all, Hao Qinglin has only given her 50,000 yuan over the years, which can also be seen that she is not trying to make money.
A woman who does not want money, that is to figure out feelings.
Unfortunately, Gu Weiwei was not as good as Ning You, and she actually let Hao Qinglin's parents change lawyers. This is simply the behavior that pig teammates should have, deliberately changing a poor lawyer, is not it more unfavorable to Hao Qinglin?
Gu Weiwei hoped that the original Ning Yu could help Hao Qinglin tide over the difficulties. She also promised that as long as Hao Qinglin could come out safely, she would quit.
Taking retreat as an advance, this is Gu Weiwei's first trick. In the second step, she began to take the routine of "in-laws" and made Hao Qinglin's parents believe in her with the posture of a weak person.
In the third step, she once again found Ning Yu and swore her sovereignty.
These tricks are zero in the eyes of the strong woman Ning You, and Ning Yu has a word: You are a small third. Gu Weiwei had nothing to say.
After the head-on junior, Ning Yu still had to face bigger problems.
Too kind
If Hao Qinglin continues to refuse to tell the truth, then Ning Yu will face the possibility of taking a debt together, and most of the debts need to be repaid by her.
Our Lady, which is also the label of Ning Yu. As the girlfriend lawyer said, Ning You obviously has the opportunity to draw a clear line with Hao Qinglin, but she has to share the hardships.
Soft-heartedness is both an advantage and a disadvantage of Ning You. Because her in-laws were enlightened, she chose to carry everything alone.
As a strong woman with an annual salary of 2 million, driving a luxury car and having 2 houses under her name, Ning You's married life can be said to be a chicken feather. How good would it have been if I had chosen Jian Hongcheng (played by Lei Jiayin)?
An excellent strong woman like Ning Yu will choose to marry Hao Qinglin, which is more or less related to the impulsiveness of youth. Her mother and brother Ning Shu (played by Zhang Yixing) are opposed to her being with Jian Hongcheng, and she naturally has no hope for love.
Change the thinking of a normal person, such an excellent and beautiful strong woman, at least to find a man who is evenly matched.
No matter how bitter the path you choose, you must swallow it. Marrying Hao Qinglin, the biggest comfort is to give birth to such a sensible and excellent son as Ash Ash.
Ning Yu was ready to help Hao Qinglin pay off his debts.
Hao Qinglin borrowed 200,000 yuan from his parents, plus the previous investment, a total of 400,000 yuan.
400,000 yuan may be a large amount for ordinary people. However, for Ning Yu, who earns an annual salary of 2 million, it is not worth mentioning at all. From the perspective of annual income alone, it is entirely possible that Ning Yu can afford to pay 400,000 yuan in compensation.
Why can't even 400,000 be paid?
The answer starts from Ning Yu's daily expenses. A woman in Ning Yu took on the responsibility of supporting her family, just bought a new house, had to pay off the mortgage every month, paid tuition for her son, and supported both parents.
Judging from Ning Yu's new house, the monthly mortgage is at least 6 figures. As a strong woman, her own personal use also needs to be purchased, so the money left in a year is not much.
400,000, nature can not crush Ning Yu. She also cared about her in-laws' affection.
The best way for a woman to prove herself is to be financially independent. You can have no job or career for a while, but be sure to retain the ability to be financially independent.
Only in this way can we not rely on anyone to break the dispute and fight for the rights we want.
As Yi Shu said: No one can be a safe haven for you to blindly live in this life and this life, only you are your own shelter.