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There is a saying that "after fifteen months, there is little light, and people are middle-aged and everything is rested." ”
When people reach middle age, everyone lives the most embarrassing appearance. However, we can only grit our teeth and continue to hold on. Even if what you see and encounter is misfortune, you can only accept reality.
In the past, midlife crises did not seem to be so serious. However, with the continuous development of material life, we will be surprised to find that the pressure of today's mid-life crisis is even greater.
Doesn't it mean that with the development of the material base, our spiritual thoughts will be richer? Why are today's middle-aged people still hovering on the fringes of life?
It can be summed up in one sentence that the fate of individuals is closely related to the trend of the times. A grain of dust that has fallen from the times, put on anyone, especially ordinary people, will be like a mountain of pressure.
Nowadays, in fact, the industry situation is not good, and too many middle-aged people do not have the enterprising spirit of the past, but more of a "stable" mentality. That was a unique experience of this generation.
I remember that people in the past were ambitious and wanted to achieve something and make a lot of money. As everyone knows, once the time has passed and the market is saturated, no one can change the reality of the industry depression.
It can only be said that in the next few years, middle-aged people aged 40 to 50 will live a terrible life.
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In the next few years, middle-aged people will face these 3 problems.
Problem one: I was fired by my boss and gradually couldn't find a job.
Recently, we can find that there are too many Internet manufacturers, as well as some large enterprises, have chosen to lay off employees, from 25 to 50 years old, anyone needs to face the crisis of layoffs.
There are a lot of people who will say, why are people over 50 years old out of range? You know, even in the past, few companies would hire employees over the age of 50, so why today?
Ordinary people are fired and can't find a job at the same time, that's the big problem that makes people collapse. Light affects oneself, heavy affects the family, the burden gradually increases, and who will feel happy?
Problem two: the pressure on ordinary people to be indebted is getting bigger and bigger.
At any time, the situation of "spending future money first" exists. Especially in today's world where everyone needs to pay off their "mortgage", in fact, everyone lives not easy.
There is a colleague in Shenzhen, and the monthly mortgage is more than 20,000, which makes him worry that his hair is white. In the past two years, people are like teenagers old.
Moreover, some people are still in the process of entrepreneurship and investment, losing a lot of money, almost to the point of returning to the pre-liberation level overnight. This, after all, is their helplessness.
Problem three: Everything is soaring, and money is not worth anything.
In the workplace, many people like to joke, as long as they save hundreds of thousands of dollars, they can no longer look at the face of the boss. However, now these people have all become well-behaved and no longer oppose their bosses.
Why did they have such a big shift? Everything is soaring, the money in hand is depreciating, and wages are standing still. In the face of life, anyone can only bow their noble heads.
It can only be said that when people reach middle age, this is a battle without smoke.
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In the decade between the ages of 40 and 50, everyone lives a terrible life.
In the past two years, there has been a trend on the Internet - just got off the plane, with an annual salary of one million.
Slowly, people became anxious about these show-offs. They will wonder, are there really many people who make millions a year today?
It can be said that people, as long as they have mixed in society, will understand that ordinary people can only earn a few thousand yuan a month, and what about the annual salary of millions? Today, especially in the inner volume is particularly severe, even college students are just a new generation of "migrant workers" in the market.
For today's middle-aged people, they have too many people, in fact, what they desire is not the so-called annual salary of one million, but the annual salary of one hundred thousand. Because the former is illusory, while the latter is real.
However, how many middle-aged people can achieve an annual salary of 100,000 yuan? From the perspective of the law of two and eight, these people who can reach an annual salary of more than 100,000 are already moderate people.
There are also many middle-aged people who can only drive online car after work, or send express delivery, deliver takeaway, rely on the remaining energy and labor, to earn a little more hard money. This is the norm for all sentient beings.
Just imagine, there are old people to feed, there are small ones to raise, and there are couples to survive in the middle, which makes ordinary middle-aged people how to be good?
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Write to the end
It can only be said that the Matthew effect is intensifying, the poor are getting poorer, the rich are getting richer, and this is a reality that no one can change.
In the face of such a dilemma, middle-aged people aged 40 to 50 years old, how to be good? I think we have to do these three things.
First of all, try to have your own side business and give yourself a few more ways to survive.
While having a full job, there can be no lack of side jobs. Because no one knows when the regular job will disappear, and no one knows when the tide of layoffs will come to their side.
Second, try not to have too much debt.
There are too many people today who always want to make money with "leverage". This kind of behavior like this kind of small and broad seems to be particularly clever, but in fact, it is just a rich person playing the rest of the routine. Letting yourself be burdened with too much debt will actually ruin yourself.
Finally, low desire while maintaining physical and mental health.
If you don't have much savings, then you have to choose to live with low desire. At the very least, your low desires are reducing unnecessary expenses while calming the mind. More importantly, the peace of mind will make the body and mind gradually healthy.
In this year, saving more money, low desire, and maintaining health are the ways for middle-aged people to make a living.
Wen/Shushan has deer