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Previously, a woman's self-report that "selling 4 apartments to start a business for 12 years with debts of 100 million yuan and being homeless" was widely circulated online.
Woman is the founder of a childcare chain. In 2009, the company began to start a business by selling houses, and the brand valuation was once as high as 500 million.
When her career was successful, she herself was also honored, and at the peak of her time, she gave a professional speech at the World Pediatric ChildCare Conference, and the scene was full of applause.
She was respected, admired and admired by everyone.
However, with the outbreak of the epidemic, the company could not operate, there was no income, but the rent, property, teachers' salaries were spent as usual, plus many people refunded fees, and the funds could not come in.
In order to ensure the operation of the company, she sold her house, found relatives and friends to collect money, and tried to find ways to go around in her own name.
After three years, she eventually ran out of family property and was in debt.
From being respected, to being insulted as a liar today, from being sought after, to now being prosecuted.
What was once a myth now looks back as if it were a joke.
Life is never smooth, just like the weather, it can't be always windy and sunny.
Wind and rain along the way is the norm, wind and rain are the mentality, and wind and rain are the state.
Flaubert once said:
In a person's life, the most glorious day is not the day of success and fame, but the challenge to life from lamentation and despair, and the day of courage to move towards the will.
Life is impermanent, calmly facing change, not arrogant and proud at the peak, and not self-hatred and inferiority at the trough. Even if life presses the shoulders low, you must shoulder your own share of responsibility.
When you face difficulties, do not pity yourself, do not shrink back, do not shirk, you can truly recognize the powerful truth.
Growth is more important than success
In "We Who First Entered the Workplace", the 22-year-old Meng Yutong's first assessment ranked first from the bottom.
Her marketing plan has been denied again and again by Dong Mingzhu, and even harshly criticized.
Meng Yutong did not fall into negativity because of these criticisms and denials, but instead thought positively and adjusted the plan again and again.
She values growth in thinking more than in the rankings.
In the end, she completed the task brilliantly, and Dong Mingzhu also looked at her with admiration, and when evaluating Meng Yutong, Dong Mingzhu said that he most appreciated her persistence. Insist on hard work, insist on progress, and insist on growing day by day.
Success is temporary, but growth is a lifetime.
Success may depend on luck, but growth can only rely on step by step forward, relying on unremitting efforts.
Truly intelligent people will be proud of their growth along the way, rather than being complacent about temporary success.
Zhang Yaqin, Microsoft's global vice president, lost his father at an early age and had to run to relatives.
Because several relatives lived in different cities, he began to travel between different cities alone at a young age, and also exercised his ability to live independently.
Near the college entrance examination, Zhang Yaqin suddenly fell ill but still insisted on taking the exam. He said that even if you fail, you can use it as a practice and work hard to grow.
The desire for growth in his heart made him move forward step by step, looking back at the past, Zhang Yaqin said proudly:
"In my opinion, growth is more important than success. Growing up, I gained independence, persistence, strength, self-confidence... Without that experience of growing up, there would be nothing I have today! ”
There is a sentence in "The Old Man and the Sea":
Life always makes us hurt, but later, those wounded places will become our strongest places.
Truly excellent people are always surpassing themselves.
If success is a diamond, growth is a path that constantly surpasses itself.
If you only indulge in the joy of getting a diamond, you will lose the opportunity to get more.
Psychological toughness determines the height of life
Gao Yifeng founded an entertainment company in 1990, and in 1996, he was invited to participate in the Spring Festival Gala, which spread all over the country, but at the end of the same year, he encountered the company's bankruptcy and owed a huge amount of money.
Faced with a heavy blow, he did not indulge in grief, but actively worked hard to earn money to pay off debts.
In 2010, he participated in the "China's Got Talent" and became one of the most dazzling players at that time. In 2011, he founded a restaurant management company and ushered in another peak in his life.
From singer to chairman, he relied on strong psychological toughness to step out of the quagmire step by step.
I once heard such a sentence:
As much slander as it can withstand, so much praise as it can be.
The road of life has ups and downs, with peaks and valleys.
At its peak, the spring breeze is triumphant, and the heart naturally stretches;
At the trough, the inner tenacity can usher in the next peak.
People with a strong heart, in the face of a difficult fate, can still adjust their mentality, strive to focus on the present, always accumulate experience and strength in a down-to-earth manner, and ultimately create a new height in life.
Chen Jiulin, the king of aviation fuel, is such a person.
In 2003, after unremitting efforts, Chen Jiulin, as the executive director and president of China Aviation Oil (Singapore) Company, led the company back to life and ushered in the peak of his life.
But everything in the world will flourish and decline.
A year later, a prison disaster fell on him, and Chen Jiulin fell from the peak to the altar.
While serving his sentence in Singapore, his mother in his hometown died of illness, and all the misfortunes seemed to come together.
But Chen Jiulin calmly spent every day of his sentence with a good attitude, reading, exercising, and writing.
In 2009, Chen Jiulin regained his freedom, the scenery of the past is long gone, and the road of life must start again.
In 2012, he chose to start his own business, and in 2016, he was awarded the title of "Top Ten Business Leaders of China's Economy in 2016".
Psychologically resilient people, even after experiencing life ups and downs, huge pressure, can maintain a good psychological state, stimulate their potential, wait for the opportunity, break through themselves again and again, and create peaks again and again.
Lin Huiyin once wrote: "Life is not a simple flame, it is heavy in itself and needs the support of resilience." ”
Only when a person has resilience can he go further.
Because their life height is never limited, because they always have the courage to break through the past and embrace a new future.
Responsible life is more exciting
I once saw such a video on the Internet.
A woman posted a video on the Internet, saying that her husband stayed at home for 9 months after losing her job, and she had to do a lot of housework when she came home every day after work, and couldn't help but complain, hoping that her husband could help her share some of the pressure.
But her husband said: "It's really a little scary to go out to work now... Staying at home is trying to find your way out. ”
For the family, working to earn money is a responsibility, and doing housework at home is also a responsibility.
If the husband does not take responsibility in marriage, he will only consume the wife, drag down the wife, exhaust the patience, and the family will be scattered.
An Yiru wrote something like this:
I am the peach blossom with the heart, and I want you to flourish and bear enough responsibility.
Life needs to be taken responsibility everywhere.
Without responsibility, life will only suffer, self-worth will be lost at work, there is no responsibility in marriage, and the warmth of the family will only become less and less.
Whether poor or rich, noble or humble, has never had anything to do with responsibility.
Only those who have responsibilities can win the trust of others.
U.S. President Ronald Reagan was 11 years old when he kicked a neighbor's glass while playing soccer. Neighbours seek $12.50 for this. At that time, it was enough to buy 125 hens that could only lay eggs.
Reagan did not run away, he bravely confessed his mistake to his neighbors, and told his father the truth.
The compensation was paid by Reagan's father first, and in the next six months, Reagan worked hard and finally earned $12.50 and returned it to his father.
Many things, small to see the big, responsibility is not always reflected in the major events of life, ordinary small things can also see a person's sense of responsibility.
Wang Guozhen once said:
In a lifetime, there is heat and cold, and the morning must be responsible, and the twilight must be responsible.
On the road of life, people who have responsibilities seem to be hard, but they can go further, more steadily, and have more gains.
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There is no smooth road in life, and bumps are the norm.
The People's Daily wrote:
Life in the world, no one will be smooth sailing, those who hold flowers in their hands, are all stepping on the thorns all the way, out of the trough of life, and then are the upward road.
How long life is, how far the road up is.
Live every day conscientiously, strive to grow every day, there is wind and rain on the road, when there is an umbrella, you will hold an umbrella for yourself, without an umbrella, you will run forward.
No matter how difficult the road is, you have to go by yourself. Only by not being afraid of wind and rain can we embrace the rainbow.