No way
On the first day of the finance and business class, Dan Dan shared his story:
Born in the countryside, she had three sisters in her native family and no boys.
Dan Dan, who comes from a poor family, has always lacked self-confidence: he feels that his life is not good, his family is not good, he is not good...
Outside, afraid of being looked down upon by others, she tried very hard to show herself and prove that she was no worse than a boy.
At home, afraid of being ignored by her family, she tried to please her parents and elders, but she often felt wronged in her heart.
Dan Dan dropped out of school very early to earn money, worked, opened a shop, worked as a micro-businessman, participated in fake investment projects, and finally led to his own debt.
"Doesn't it mean that the harder you work, the luckier you get?" How I feel like I've worked hard, but my fortunes never seem to be better! ”
Now Dan Dan is not yet 40 years old, has been in debt of nearly a million, she does not dare to say to her family, but she feels powerless to fill this huge pit...
negation
In life, when we have many "no" and "negative" emotions about ourselves, the relationship between money is also easy to deny.
From the point of view of spiritual energy, the more you think "no", or the more you "deny" your views, then your perception of life is actually gray.
Among the various negations, it contains not only the negation of the world, but also the negation of oneself:
"I don't think the world treats me well enough, and I don't think I'm good enough."
However, this universe doesn't need you to lose anything in exchange for what you gain;
The world also doesn't need you to feel bad about what you gain by hitting you.
On the contrary, how you see the world, the world treats you.
Just relax
There is a reality in money that is: "I am relaxed and open to trust in the world."
Relaxation includes two aspects: one is your relaxation of the world, and the other is your relaxation of the self.
Ordinary people think: I want to get something first, because I have a good result and relax.
Not really!
The flow of money is this: because we first learn to relax, then enter a state of open trust, and then attract good results.
Of course, when you have good results, relaxation is an inevitable state of mind.
But it's not because you're all good that you're able to relax.
Rather, the first thing is to learn to relax :
Relax within yourself: I am safe, I am a baby graced by the universe.
Relax your view of the world: the world is safe, warm, full of love and joy.
insight
If you want to learn to swim, the first thing is not how to coordinate your hands and feet, but first learn to relax.
Learn to relax in the process, come back again, try to trust, trust the coach, trust yourself...
Have you ever seen a person who is so nervous that he can learn to swim quickly?
Life has always followed the "Law of Attraction": I feel really bad, then life will get worse and worse, and the whole negative vortex will become bigger and bigger.
The same is true of debt and swimming.
So, for Dan Dan, you can try to relax first.
First put on the brakes, stop borrowing money and loans, and decide not to fall into debt and fear.
Then inside try to believe, "I can flip wealth, I have the ability to improve my relationship with money, I can live a better life." ”
Let herself enter a state of warmth and joy, and she will find that money will also come to her side with warmth and joy.
A person's vision of the world also represents the way the world sees her.
When we look at the world wherever it is good, then the world will also give back to us more and more beautiful.
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