Remember the first time Xia Xue and Liu Mei met in "Family with Children",
The sword between the two men was raging,
Xia Xue even called Liu Mei's name directly,
The atmosphere is extremely tense,
This is also the scene where Song Dandan and Zhao Ting meet for the first time.
A rebellious teenage girl and a woman with her son trying to enter her own family,
That scene is like a battlefield,
Filled with the smell of gun smoke,
But who can think of two people who are so tit-for-tat,
Actually became a mother and daughter who were intimate in the end?
Zhao Ting was born in 1982 in an ordinary family in Beijing.
My father was a manager at a steel company.
My mother was a general doctor at the hospital.
I thought that the girl who lived in this kind of family life should be an obedient and sensible girl,
However, Zhao Ting was very rebellious,
This character was also laid down when I first met Song Dandan,
It won't be too easy between the two.
After his parents divorced, his father met Song Dandan at a party.
At this time, Song Dandan has ended a failed relationship,
Originally all thoughts were gray,
I joined the party with the encouragement of my friends.
The two looked at each other and did not know what chemical reaction was produced.
And quickly fell in love,
In August 1997, Zhao Ting's father and Song Dandan completed their wedding.
This period does not exceed one month.
Young Zhao Ting looked at this woman who had intruded into her life with her 7-year-old son,
Instinctively erect the spikes on his body,
Speculate on this woman in the worst way,
So when I first met Song Dandan,
She did not call her aunt, let alone her mother, but shouted: "Song Dandan." ”
This shout opened the prelude to the confrontation between the two men.
Song Dandan did not feel too much ill of this rebellious girl,
It was even a little sad for this girl who had experienced her parents' divorce at a young age.
In the face of Zhao Ting,
Her attitude was gentler than ever.
She told Zhao Ting in the most gentle tone,
She did not ask Zhao Ting to treat herself as a mother,
Don't even ask Zhao Ting to call out to her mother,
She treasured zhao Ting's favorite photos and good memories,
Under her gentle care,
Zhao Ting gradually accepted this new mother who joined her family.
On Mother's Day one year,
Song Dandan told this little girl in her own way,
What kind of gift to give,
How to give gifts to make her birth mother happy,
On that day, Song Dandan was recognized by Zhao Ting,
Zhao Ting called her mother,
This pair of mother and daughter who were sword-wrenching at first sight,
In this moment, the barriers are truly removed,
Become an unrelated mother and daughter.
Song Dandan is so powerful, Zhao Ting's father is not willing to show weakness.
Facing Batuu, the stepson brought by Song Dandan,
He also loves Batuu to the best of his ability,
Help him with his homework, attend his parent-teacher conference,
Let Batu have a complete childhood.
Thanks to the efforts of the couple,
Family relationship and harmony,
Batuu and Zhao Ting are also like brothers and sisters.
Zhao Ting's personality is natural, and she has not followed the rules since she was a child.
She has an extraordinary love for comic books and movies.
He also enjoys writing fanwork.
At that time, she was very fond of Wong Kar-wai's "Spring Light",
This movie has inspired her a lot,
It also gave her the idea of wanting to become a director.
So at the age of 15,
This girl embarked on a journey to study in a foreign country,
At that time, she could hardly speak English.
He came to England with a single passion.
If Zhao Ting chooses to stay in China,
Song Dandan can still help her complete her dreams,
But Zhao Ting did not want to live under the wings of her parents forever,
Insist on going abroad to study,
It is her firmness that has made her future.
Before leaving, the family was very worried about her,
Especially Song Dandan,
She doesn't care about the cost of studying abroad.
It's just sad that this daughter is going to leave home at a young age,
He even wanted to stop his daughter from leaving.
But the chicks always have a day to grow up,
Even if she didn't give up, she couldn't bear to break her daughter's wings,
I can only endure the pain and send my daughter away.
Not only that, because the husband opposed the daughter's decision,
She's also going to do her husband's job.
Let the daughter leave without worries.
As he left, Batuu looked at his sister,
Put the pocket money you saved in her hands,
I hope my sister can live a little better in a foreign country,
With the family full of worry and care,
She came to England to start her studies.
Zhao Ting is also very powerful,
Being in a foreign country, the bitterness in it is self-evident,
But this little girl carried it hard,
Not only that,
As an adult, she did not continue to accept the living expenses of the family.
At this time, she relied on various jobs,
It's all about supporting yourself.
When Zhao Ting walked forward step by step,
Song Dandan did not stop either.
In 2004, she joined the crew of "Family with Children".
Become a stepmother of two children.
Xia Xue in the play is just like Zhao Ting in the original,
When facing Liu Mei, played by her, it is sharp and vivid.
Now that I think about it, Song Dandan at that time was able to play the role of Liu Mei so vividly,
Perhaps also influenced by the experience of getting along with Zhao Ting.
"Family with Children" was a great success after the broadcast,
It has been welcomed by many students and parents,
Who didn't have "Family with Children" in their childhood?
This TV series also made Song Dandan's career climb to a new peak.
In the years when Zhao Ting and Song Dandan were separated from each other,
Neither of them stopped moving forward.
The experience of studying abroad has a very far-reaching impact on Zhao Ting.
All her energy will be the inspiration for the future,
In 2014, she filmed her first film in her life, "The Song My Brother Taught Me to Sing".
Life is far from the smooth sailing she thinks,
While shooting this movie, she had a lot of accidents,
First, the investor withdrew,
Then the family was robbed, and the hard disk used for filming was lost.
It was almost a devastating blow to her.
Pour out her passion cold.
But after the collapse, Zhao Ting regained her strength,
In the end, this debut film was still bumpy and finished,
That year, the 32-year-old Zhao Ting was shortlisted for the Cannes Director's Fortnight,
Won the Best Female Director Award at the 24th Gotham Independent Film Awards,
It's rare for a newcomer to get such a result in the first movie.
Zhao Ting can also be regarded as setting off some waves in the United States,
Western film circles are also beginning to notice the girl.
In 2017, Zhao Ting filmed the new movie "Knight",
Like Virgo,
The film also faces the dilemma of lack of money,
At this time, Song Dandan was already famous for receiving both money and wealth,
He also became a mentor for the show "The Birth of an Actor",
The cause never stops
My father also operated the company for many years.
The accumulated money can solve the urgent need, even if it is not enough,
If Zhao Ting opens her mouth to ask for help,
The two must have not hesitated to help her.
But Zhao Ting did not open her mouth,
She gritted her teeth,
He finished the film with $80,000.
This year, she took her boyfriend, Batuu and stepmother Song Dandan on the red carpet of the Pingyao Film Festival.
The film "Knight" has also won numerous awards.
At this moment, Song Dandan's heart is indescribable pride and pride,
Zhao Ting went farther and farther down the road of the movie,
At the age of 39, she won the Golden Lion Award for Best Cinema in Venice for her film "The Land of No One".
And then he won the Golden Globe Award for Best Director,
It also means that the next um has a very good chance of winning against the Oscars.
Zhao Ting's step-by-step excellent films have also allowed her to enter the eyes of European and American filmmakers.
Become a popular director,
Even took over Marvel's latest movie blockbuster "Eternals",
I'm afraid that Song Dandan wouldn't have thought that the girl who was rebellious at the beginning,
In the end, he can become a director with a high reputation in the world.
However, Song Dandan has never forgotten to care about Zhao Ting,
After Zhao Ting won the award, Song Dandan also sent a long Weibo,
Expressing a blessing to her daughter.
When her film "Knight" was nominated four times for the Independent Spirit Award for American Cinema,
Song Dandan also proudly called Zhao Ting a baby daughter,
Maybe in so many years of getting along,
Even if the two are not connected by blood,
They have also become important relatives who cannot be replaced by each other.
Today's Zhao Ting is also in her 40s,
But still not married.
She lives with her photographer boyfriend James in a small town in the United States.
The two experienced a split and a merger,
Stumbling together,
They don't seem to ask for much of marriage.
And Song Dandan, as an elder, naturally hopes that her daughter can settle down as soon as possible.
But as an enlightened elder,
She will not impose her own demands on her daughter,
Although full of worries about Zhao Ting's love life,
She never interfered.
And Zhao Ting also respects Song Dandan,
Every year I would call her to greet her,
The mother-daughter relationship between the two has never been weakened by the distance.
In the eyes of most Chinese, the stepmother is a very difficult role to do.
If you don't do well, you will be said to abuse your stepson and stepdaughter,
If you do a good job, you may not be able to get the thanks of your stepson and stepdaughter.
Song Dandan, as a public figure, faced Zhao Ting during the rebellious period,
There was no choice to confront her,
Instead, it melts the ice in the heart of the stepdaughter with a little heart,
And from the perspective of the stepdaughter for her consideration,
A stepmother can do this, it is also very powerful,
It's no wonder that even if the two are separated,
The feelings between Song Dandan and Zhao Ting are still undiminished.
Now as Zhao Ting, she has become an excellent director.
I hope she can continue to work hard to create more excellent works,
Become an internationally acclaimed director.