The advice of a 50-year-old retiree: When people are over 50 years old, they must learn to enrich themselves if they have money or not

Life is a process, and in a hurry, it is not more than a hundred years at most, and in the blink of an eye, it will reach the age of 50.

As the saying goes: Thirty and standing, forty without confusion, fifty knowing the destiny. After 50 years of age, people understand the cold and warm in the world, and also see through the vicissitudes of this world.

A 50-year-old retired aunt said: People over fifty, whether they have money or not, they must know how to support themselves.

Narrator: Aunt Wen, 50 years old

01 After the age of fifty, eat well and sleep well, no one is as important as their own body.

I'm 50 years old, my wife is two years older than me, and both of our sons are married. When I was younger, I worked in a factory and often stayed up late to work overtime. Usually, my wife and I are very frugal and frugal, but even so, the life is still not wide.

Later, I nagged my husband every day to let him start a business and wanted to make more money. Without venture capital, we took the house as a mortgage, and at that time, we borrowed 300,000 yuan, and my husband opened a big bone shop.

Even the rent plus the decoration fee will cost more than half of it, and it will also cost money to hire people, raw material procurement, etc. The owner has been working before and has no experience in opening a store. The store only lasted for 6 months and lost money almost every day. Later, it really did not move, and could only close the door.

The loan came from 300,000 yuan, all of which were adrift.

That year, I had just given birth to my second eldest, my husband failed to start a business, the family was in debt of 300,000 yuan, and we quarreled for three days. Once, when we had a quarrel, my mother-in-law actually helped my husband to say that I was threatening me with not showing me the child. The next morning, the mother-in-law returned to her hometown in a huff.

At that time, I was stubborn, and I would rather take my child to suffer hardships than ask my mother-in-law to come back. I bought the machine, worked at home with my children, and in 3 years, I paid off the debt.

I don't want to talk about the tiredness and bitterness of those years now. It is precisely because of those years of experience that my heart has become more and more tenacious. I stand up half the sky alone, not relying on my husband, I earn more and more with my children.

In the fourth year of debt, my life was on the right track, and from that time on, I also began to learn to love myself, no matter how hard life was, I would let myself eat well and sleep well, and when no one cared, I also learned to care for myself.

02 After the age of fifty, you should understand that "children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren"

After the two children graduated from college, I gave them two 150,000 yuan each, and told them that this was the down payment, and the mother had these skills, and the rest of the days would be on their own.

As for taking children in the future, I also have words first, I don't bring anyone, I just want to live the rest of my life. In the future, as much as they have the ability, they will give birth to a few, and I will not interfere or help.

In life, many parents dedicate a lifetime of energy to their children, but they never plan for their future, and even do not set aside pension money for themselves. Reluctant to eat and wear, some even use their pension to help their sons pay off their mortgages.

What's more, some people even use their pensions to buy houses and cars for their grandchildren.

However, in their later years, how many children can read the painstaking hearts of their parents and will feed their parents as if they had taken care of them in the first place?

People live a lifetime, and no one should expect anyone. Even their own children are the same, don't rely too much on them, don't rely too much on them, don't want them to rely too much on themselves.

Only when they are independent will they have their own free happiness.

03 After the age of fifty, be more active every day, insist on exercising, live a regular life, and maintain more health.

With the older you get, the functions of the human body begin to decline, and all kinds of geriatric diseases will come to the door.

Sitting and standing for a long time are not good living habits, if you want to reduce the sickness, you must make yourself more active, and live a regular life.

Every day when I get up, I will go to the neighborhood to jog a few laps, take a deep breath, look at the flowers and plants, take a walk and listen to the wind, which can make me feel happy all day.

At the same time, these exercises allow us to be energetic and healthy every day.

Only with a good body can we grow old and strong, and have the possibility of a happy old age.

04 After the age of fifty, cultivate a hobby and make money as much as you can.

After retirement, not going to work does not mean not working.

When I was at work before, I always had the habit of writing. At first, I wrote in the QQ space, and then I wrote a blog, and then I saw that others were doing self-media, writing public accounts, and I also began to write.

Up to now, I have more than 600,000 fans on the whole network, and my income from writing can exceed my retirement pension when it is good. Last year, I started trying to make videos again, sharing some of my favorite books and good things in the videos, and slowly adding another revenue channel.

I am a lifelong learner who has been trying and learning all my life. People over fifty, don't give up on yourself because of your age, give up learning and hard work.

It's good to cultivate a hobby for yourself, do what you like, and make some money along the way. Work can make me feel fulfilled, because there is a steady stream of income, so that I feel more stable and solid inside.

Write to the end:

Life, the first half desperate, the second half to save life. Don't leave too many regrets in a lifetime, people over fifty, nothing is more important than your own body.

Cherish your body, learn to care for and take care of yourself, let yourself have the quality of life, and learn to maintain health. Laugh at every day, don't get angry, don't worry, don't worry, don't fear.

People who are calm and calm in their hearts, even if they are coarse tea and light rice, eat the same "tasteful", even if there is a grass room, there are wisps of cooking smoke rising.

People over fifty, want to eat well, want to see the place, while the body is still strong, let's go.

People over fifty, rich and not rich, must remember to be rich and support themselves. Every day, start by caring for yourself, giving yourself a smile, life is sweet.