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Text | Miss White
Why are women in the 21st century fighting harder and harder?
Because this society gives women less and less security, in order to live a better life, they can only fight in person and make money on their own.
In life, all women who earn money on their own are admirable.
Therefore, I deliberately wrote this article and dedicated it to those women who worked hard.
Women on their own, stronger
You find that no, around us, more and more women choose to go out of the family, go out to work like men, and transform from housewives who wash vegetables and make soup step by step into strong women.
They are getting stronger and stronger, they can wash and cook, they can teach their husbands and children, they can earn money to support their families, like a superwoman, cool like the wind, tough as grass, and they can carry themselves when they encounter difficulties.
Their hearts are very strong, in the face of difficulties and obstacles, still fearless, even if they are scaled all over the body, they can clench their teeth, dry their tears, and continue to move forward in a big way.
There is a saying in the book "Women Want to Be Rich": "Women want to be young, to be beautiful, to meet good men, and to be rich to be happy." ”
Women work so hard to make money, not because they worship gold, but they don't even want to have the ability to support themselves, they don't want to buy a dish to take money from their husbands, and they don't want to live at home that is coming, lingering, and relying on people's sniffles.
Men want to be rich and have a relationship with everyone; women want to be rich, and they will not be idle around.
All women who earn money on their own are women with strong hearts. Such a woman, even if she does not have the appearance of a country and a city, can still meet her own Prince Charming and live a prosperous life.
Women on their own, more independent
Zhang Jiajia wrote in "Passing Through Your World": "Everyone's strength is a soft cocoon, I hope that there is a person like you, go to all places, the reflection is beside me." ”
Those women who earn money on their own hard work in life do not want to have a shoulder to rely on, and women who are strong on the outside are still soft on the inside, and they also want someone to hug themselves when they are helpless.
Only in the end, the dream was defeated by reality, and they found that "the mouth of a man, the ghost of a liar", completely unreliable, only themselves are the shoulders that can be relied on.
Don't dare to be spoiled, because no one is used to it; don't dare to cry, because no one is coaxing; don't dare to be lazy, because no one helps; don't dare to rest, because no one gives money to spend... Strong and independent, hard work became the only choice.
Every woman hopes to find a man who can light a lamp for herself in the dark and give her an umbrella when it rains, but in the end she finds that she has become a grandfather, and in the cold night when no one delivers porridge, she can only deal with insomnia with three or five bottles of beer alone.
The mountain will fall, and everyone will run. The money given by others is a kind of disguised "almsgiving", which can be taken back at any time, and only by relying on their own efforts can they always belong to themselves, and no one can take it away.
Women who live on their own hard work and earn money are very independent women. They not only have a heart full of self-confidence, but also have the ability to pursue a better life, such a woman, live the way they want to be, master their own life.
Women who rely on themselves are happier
Why do women have to work hard to make money on their own? There is an answer on the Internet that I very much agree with:
"Hard work to make money, not because you love money. But in this life, I don't want to be inferior to anyone because of money, and I don't want to embarrass anyone because of money. ”
Women work so hard to make money, not to make themselves more confident in life, when their parents are old, they can have the ability to share; when their children need it, they will not be shy; even if the marriage is unhappy, they can support themselves.
Financially independent women are more likely to have a sense of happiness. After all, spending the money you earn and doing what you want to do is so reassuring and dashing!
There's a saying that goes right: "I don't love money, but I know that money brings independence and freedom, and what I like is an independent and free life." ”
Rich people are not necessarily happy, but they must be free to do whatever they want.
Having money allows you to live a carefree life without having to bend over backwards to support your family, and without having to worry about the price of a few cents of food that rises every day.
Having money allows you to live more elegantly and comfortably, buy the lipstick and skirt you want to buy, travel to the places you want to go, and don't have to worry about not spending enough money.
Women who earn money on their own hard work have extraordinary courage and self-confidence, they are not attached to men, they have their own careers, they have their own goals, they know what to do next, and they know how to live more wonderfully.
There is a line in the TV series "The Legend of Wulin": "Don't cry, the jianghu doesn't believe in tears." ”
In fact, no one naturally wants to be a woman, and every woman wants to be a little princess who doesn't even have to twist the bottle cap herself. It's just that there is too much helplessness in life, forcing them to grow, to bear, to be strong.
Life is difficult, no one will pay for you, you want to live a better life, only by working hard can you grasp what you want, the person you want.
Everyone's life is not easy, may all women who are desperate can get the life they want.
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