"Femme Fatale" told me: This money can save my life

Source: China Insurer Magazine, a subsidiary of Manager Media

"Femme Fatale" told me: This money can save my life

Anything can be counted as a business. Young people try to save money, and this money is called "say no money." If you own the money, when your boss wants to fire you or force you to do something you don't want to do, you can respond with a dashing salute: no! When you encounter a low point in your life, you can climb up with this money.

Liu Yuling, who plays Simone in the American drama "Deadly Woman", mentioned in an interview the perception of money she learned from her father: "I learned one thing from my father, and anything can be counted as a business. So I've been working hard to save money, and it's called 'fxxk you money'. If you have the money, when your boss wants to fire you or force you to do something you don't want to do, you can respond with a dashing salute: 'fxxk you'! ”

To sum up, everything is business, and hard work can find more ways out of your life.

In the play, Simone is unrestrained and decisive, kicking off the unfaithful cheating husband, and remaining celibate for the second half of her life but still living a flowery life, which can be called a model for modern women.

However, a large part of the reason Simone can live such a dashing life is that she is super rich.

Simone is a super rich woman, rich waist pole hard, if she is a housewife with no source of income, then she will not dare to kick off her husband, and live a tasteful life.

As the old saying goes, a penny can overwhelm a hero. If there is not enough anti-risk ability, it is a piece of paper.

I thought that the role in the play was enough to attract people's likes, but I didn't expect that the actors in reality were also so domineering, after all, not everyone had the courage to refuse to do what they didn't like, including rejecting the unreasonable requests of the boss.

This theory, of course, is not teaching us how to be quick with our tongues, but how to "say no" with confidence and sound.

In fact, all of us ordinary workers need such a sum of money to build a small safe house for ourselves.

This money may not be a lot, but it allows us to have a less embarrassing transition period after a short period of unemployment; it allows us to respond to the emergency when our relatives suddenly fall ill and need money; and it allows us to retire without pointing to our children for the elderly.

This money may not be a lot, but it can allow us to have a transition period of less difficulty and embarrassment after a short period of unemployment; it can allow us to respond to the emergency when our relatives suddenly fall ill and need money; and we can retire without pointing to our children for the elderly.

Say no money is a kind of human sobriety

Some say that if my income is high and stable enough to combat those potential risks, then Say no money doesn't seem necessary for me.

In elementary school math textbooks, there is a question like this:

A reservoir, the inlet and outlet are open at the same time, the two pipe diameters are different, then after a period of time, how much water is left in the reservoir.

If the inlet is much larger than the diameter of the outlet, then there is no doubt that the amount of water stored is more; but what if the two pipes are the same diameter?

Even if it is an annual salary of millions, if the "inlet" and the "outlet" are the same size, the ability to resist risk is still 0.

Life is impermanent, life is fragile, accidents and tomorrow may be just a night, or even a momentary choice. We can't predict tomorrow, but we can at least be prepared for risk in advance.

Afraid of drowning, first learn to swim; afraid of illness, actively exercise and maintain health; afraid of being tripped by money one day, save money regularly, invest in financial management.

Having Say no money is like manually inserting an alternative to this answer sheet for life. People who have a long-term vision and plan ahead understand.

Say no money, is a type of delayed gratification

There is a famous saying on the Internet: "My money is not blown by the wind, but it must be blown away by the wind." ”

Perhaps many Moonlight Clans will be deeply touched by this sentence. For example, people who have just graduated finally have a sum of money that is completely at their disposal, as if the flood has opened the floodgates, and the desire to shop has surged forward, and they want to buy everything they see. Looking at the consumption record of a pen on your phone, it is as if you are just playing a virtual shopping game.

Some people call this a drunkenness in this day and a drunkenness, but this kind of "dashing" cannot withstand a little wind and waves.

People who really know how to taste the wine of life know more about moderation, temporarily abandoning outdated ideas and desires in order to delay satisfaction and obtain more benefits.

They live within their means and consume in moderation. Don't pay for unnecessary consumer desires.

Of course, delaying the satisfaction of these four words is easier said than done. But it is this impersonal self-denial that makes the money that has been accumulated more meaningful.

Say no money is a kind of accumulated confidence

"Life is precious, love is more expensive, if it is for freedom, both can be thrown away." Throughout the ages, there have been many famous articles praising freedom.

But what exactly is freedom?

True freedom is not to do whatever you want, but not to be bent on perfection. It's a kind of say no.

The continuous accumulation of Say no money represents the confidence we continue to accumulate.

With this money, we can say no to the life of the people who are full of grievances; we can say no to the boss who is difficult and rude; and we can also say no to the embarrassing no who desperately needs money but can't come up with it.

This kind of confidence allows us to see the other side of life.

How can I successfully own my own Say no money?

Some people save regularly, some people do financial management, some people buy insurance, some people invest in funds (single transactions), and some people invest in batches.

Invest in batches, restrain unnecessary material desires, maintain patience, and wait for the gift of time over the years.

The process of any investment is actually the process of preparing a Say no money; and adding insurance planning to the investment adds a heavy safety cushion to deal with various emergencies in life.

Although it is difficult for us to become rich, it is expected to beat inflation; insurance seems useless when the wind and waves are calm, but once life encounters a small probability of unfortunate accidents, it can play a huge or even 100% role. Increase some of the ability and confidence to deal with risks, which is the meaning of The existence of Say no money.

Simone in the play said: "People are not bound by money, and life is rich and complete." ”

In reality, there are very few people who can not be bound by money, but the satisfaction of life lies in actively choosing life, rather than passive acceptance.

Even if we are not billionaires and our financial freedom is still some distance away from us, we can still strive to have our own Say no money through a variety of financial means such as fixed investment and insurance.

*This article is contributed by "Little Ki Run"