As soon as the golden wind and jade dew met, they won countless victories in the world.
In this unusually noisy world, everyone is in a hurry, the same for feelings, for marriage, some people are in a flashy place, and then choose to retreat, perhaps see through the red dust, or maybe just escape from reality, as for which, only they know in their hearts.
Yang Yan is a painter, he is a disciple of the famous painter Li Keyan, he also has his own reputation in the painting world, but Yang Yan is obsessed with painting, in the early years has not been married, for what kind of wife to marry, he has long set a most ideal appearance in his heart.
In the 90s of last century, Yang Yan went to a friend's house as a guest and saw a sculpture of an African woman, with a nearly perfect body and exquisite face, which made Yang Yan fall in love at first sight, and he silently vowed in his heart that he must marry such a wife.
In the days to come, Yang Yan met many beautiful women, but he could not find the feeling of love at first sight in them, and turned around to 2011, Yang Yan was 53 years old, with a goatee beard, he looked more old.
People who don't know him at first glance think that Yang Yan has already had children and grandchildren, but people who know him know that he has always been alone, under the persuasion of friends, 53-year-old Yang Yan embarked on a sketching trip to Africa, Yang Yan's trip to Africa In addition to sketching, the most important thing is to find the dream lover.
However, Yang Yan searched almost all of Africa and did not find the person, until Yang Yan came to a university in Freetown, the capital of Sierra Leone in West Africa, where Yang Yan met Ida, a 21-year-old African female college student.
At the first sight of Ada, Yang Yan felt that he had found the person who could spend his life together, Yang Yan invited Ada on the grounds of sketching, the two spent several days and nights together, enhanced their feelings, and when they were about to end their trip to Africa, Yang Yan and Ada showed their love and expressed their willingness to take her back to China to live.
Ada has liked Chinese culture since childhood, the university major is also related to Chinese, going to China is also her dream, although the two have a 30-year age gap, but Yang Yan is very humorous, the mentality is very young, Ada also has a good feeling for him, agreed to marry Yang Yan.
Yang Yan took Ada back to China, and held a very grand wedding in Yantai Tianma Zhanqiao, it is reported that from the wedding preparation to the end, a total of 40 million yuan, this "across the equator" love has also received great attention, after the two married, Ada followed him to learn painting, in just one year, she also mastered some painting skills, her paintings have also been recognized by some people.
Ada even gave birth to two mixed-race babies for Yang Yan, everything looks quite perfect, just when people are envious of this transnational marriage, there is suddenly news that Yang Yan has escaped into the empty door. As a disciple of Li Keyan and married a 21-year-old African girl, Yang Yan has always been the object of people's talk.
But just after 7 years of marriage, he gave up everything and chose to escape into Buddhism, this transnational year-old love is also a song and a person, a successful career, a happy marriage, why would he give up all this and choose to become a monk?
Many media also interviewed him, and in the face of his questions, Yang Yan said: "Just for wisdom", what this sentence means is difficult to understand.
However, Yang Yan and Ada married very hastily, almost belong to the flash marriage, and the two received different education, from small to large in the environment is also different, coupled with a 30-year age gap, there will inevitably be some "generation gap", just like the newlyweds, a few years before marriage, still full of sweetness and surprises, but after getting used to married life, the passion will tend to be flat.
Ordinary people are difficult to cross the "seven-year itch", Yang Yan as a painter, the things he experienced, personal ideas are more complicated and complicated, perhaps in these seven years of marriage, he also saw through the right and wrong in the red dust, and chose Buddhism qing cultivation after great enlightenment.
It is said that Ida would occasionally bring their son to see him, but the marriage between the two could never go back to before.
In this red-light, wine-green but ordinary world, everyone is fighting for their future, and the things they understand are different at the end point.
The movie "Heartbeat" has such a sentence: some people live in high-rise buildings, some people are in deep ditches, some people are full of light, some people are rusty; there are thousands of kinds of people in the world, floating clouds can not be asked, and if the People of Sri Lanka are rainbows, they know that there is a party.
Without experiencing the world of others, we can never understand the choices of others, and Yang Yan's choice may also be based on his "best" choice in the world.