In the past few years, Ye Haiyang went to the ocean to buy sperm and give birth to the news of the whole network, at that time caused a lot of controversy, most people are discussing, a single woman spent more than 500,000 yuan to go abroad to buy sperm, her own birth of children, this practice is obviously too contrary to "common sense", so at that time she received a lot of negative evaluations, and even some people said that she was sublime.
But Ye Haiyang was not affected, because she had her own ideas, and she decided that one thing would be done. The reason why I want to go abroad is because this practice is allowed abroad, and I can select better quality sperm for my offspring. This is also understandable, after all, who doesn't want their children to be smarter?
Now Ye Haiyang's daughter is almost 4 years old, and she often posts her interactions with her daughter on Weibo, and she says that her daughter's language talent is still very strong. At the same time, she will also write a family letter to her daughter, and from her words, she can see her love for her daughter. In a video last year, Ye Haiyang asked her daughter if she wanted a brother or sister, and the daughter gave a positive answer, when she asked her daughter whether she wanted a brother or a sister, the daughter said "brother", and in the comment area, she also said that since the daughter wanted, she would arrange one! So after that, I began to prepare for the second child.
Ye Haiyang went abroad to prepare for pregnancy, and this time she chose sperm from the same man, which shows that she is still very satisfied with her eldest daughter. However, this time it is a pity, because later in the video Ye Haiyang revealed that this time is still a daughter, as for the reason is not mentioned. So far, Ye Haiyang's second child has spent more than 100,000 yuan, and it will cost a lot of money in the follow-up. Many female netizens expressed great envy, but they were helpless to have no ability to ye Haiyang, and could only envy.
How hard is it to become the next "leaf ocean"?
First of all, in terms of economy, if you really want to be like Ye Haiyang, then at least you have to prepare hundreds of thousands of deposits, and it is not necessarily enough, because Ye Haiyang has also experienced failure in the process of test tubes, if it is not a success, more than a few times the cost of failure, not only the cost of domestic and foreign back and forth, the foreign medical cost itself is expensive, and the cost is rising.
In addition, after the child is born, the cost of parenting is also very high, and there must be a certain amount of savings, otherwise if there is no sustainable income, the future will withstand the pressure of parenting, you can imagine how difficult it is. Ye Haiyang herself is the CEO of a skin care company, and she also has strong personal abilities and relatively good family conditions, so she can naturally bear these pressures. For ordinary people, it is still difficult to resist this pressure.
Secondly, there was pressure from the family, and Ye Haiyang also consulted with her parents after making this decision, when her parents unconditionally agreed. For ordinary women, if they make this decision, their parents must be the first to oppose, after all, their parents' thinking is still relatively traditional, and they are also worried that their daughters will be difficult to take care of their children alone in the future.
If you don't get the consent of your family, then both your family and your relatives and friends may be criticized behind your back. Perhaps you can bear the pressure of such gossip, but as a parent, if you are not strong in terms of tolerance, in the face of outside gossip, your parents may not be able to bear it.
Finally, whether there is time to spend with the child is also a question. It is said that it is easy to have children, but it is difficult to raise children, and educating children can be said to be the hardest thing in the world. Because the child itself is a blank piece of paper, parents need to guide them in the process of growing up, otherwise this white paper may leave many bad marks, and the child may also go astray.
Parents' education of their children is reflected in the most important aspect of companionship, and many parents may feel that I am usually accompanying my children, which is difficult. But in fact, the companionship mentioned here mainly refers to "high-quality companionship", and few parents can achieve high-quality companionship, because parents need to devote themselves wholeheartedly, put down their mobile phones, and communicate patiently and carefully with their children.
Now many parents feel physically and mentally exhausted after work, where they have the heart to accompany their children to play games and chat, usually while playing mobile phones, while coping with children. Or directly give the mobile phone to the child to play, they choose to rest, such a way to take the baby is particularly relaxed, do not know that it will slowly ruin the child, but also let the child and the parent-child relationship between the child and the parent become extremely poor.
Ye Haiyang's work itself is relatively busy, but she knows the importance of accompanying her children, and almost all the time after work is given to her children to take them to travel all over the country. Even if you don't have time, you will let your parents and friends accompany your children and give them the best childhood, rather than letting their children's childhood only have mobile phones.