In this world, it is a terrible thing to have only when parents do not have a job certificate. As we all know, the influence of the original family on a child is a lifetime, happy families are similar, and unhappy families have their own misfortunes. Now it is our turn to be our own parents, on the way to raising children, we understand the hardships of our families, and at the same time we can get salvation in our children.
Psychologist Adler said: Happy childhood heals a lifetime, and unhappy childhood needs a lifetime to heal.
Now that our childhood is far away from us, time is gone, and now all we can do is to let our children no longer repeat the path they walked as children.
Parenthood cannot influence the future of your child. But childhood, as a mother, I am willing to do my best to give children joy, nourish children with love, let them grow up healthily, let a happy childhood always heal children's future lives, so that many years later, she still feels that her childhood has no regrets!
Today, the Thunderbolt Fairy sorted out 25 small things that can enhance the happiness of the family and completed them with the children.
V01. Prepare a few good photo albums, take photos of couples in love and photos of children growing up, pick out some memorable and wash them out, and take them out every once in a while to share photos and related story experiences with children.
V02. Designate one day each month as a family dinner day, with the option of taking a tent out for a picnic, or a children's themed hotel. Promote the feelings of the family and let the family feel mutual love.
V03. Once a week, a family meeting that each member is expected to attend, can raise the needs of each family member, and where to improve, and speak out about the contribution to each person's contribution to the family, no matter how big or small things.
V04. At least once a week, you can put down your mobile phone and wholeheartedly accompany your child to the playground or participate in a sports, manual work, etc.
V05. Every week, the whole family organizes a cleaning, each member has a clear division of labor, the whole family participates, and does a good job of hygiene.
V06. Take time out of the year, even on holidays, at least three trips for the family to grow up with your children and increase their knowledge and interactions along the way. Long-distance travel, or short-distance travel, is fine.
V07. Tailor a positive energy slogan for the family, in life, in the face of unhappiness and setbacks, used to encourage everyone, as a motivation to shout out.
V08. Remember everyone's birthday in the family and prepare greeting cards and birthday parties with your children. Bring the bland life to the color through a small sense of ritual.
V09. From time to time, prepare a small gift for the child in her bag, under the pillow, or a small note, or chocolate.
V10. Don't set rules for children, allow children to jump in puddles, play with mud, and dirty clothes like Page is not enough compared to children's happiness.
V11. According to personal circumstances, make a nutritious and delicious love breakfast for the family once a week.
V12. Try not to argue in front of the child, if there is an uncontrollable quarrel in front of the child, be sure to hug in front of the child.
V13. Prepare a small message board or guestbook at home, and everyone can leave a message or record the family activity arrangement. Or record what can't be said in person.
V14. Cultivate several common hobbies with lovers, not everyone lives in their own hobbies, each beautiful.
V15. When children have their own consciousness and want to choose their favorite clothes or personal style items, respect the child's ideas and hobbies, and give praise.
V16. Make sure your child makes video calls once a week with a loved one or friend around them.
V17. Pick up and drop off children to and from school on time, pay attention to the opening day and activity day of the child's school, and if parents need to participate, try to actively register.
V18. Every week, I can walk and chat with my children and chat freely in a relaxed form.
V19. Create inadvertent conditions for children to unconsciously hear praise for him, such as some good habits, good qualities and good behaviors.
V20. Bring your child to an exhibition, play or concert at least once a year. Through artistic expression, spiritual satisfaction is obtained and the formation of the perfect personality is promoted.
V21. Take your child to a children's welfare home or a nursing home once a year. Through the comparison of the environment, let the child understand gratitude and contentment.
V22. Whenever a child proactively helps us do things, we should not hesitate to praise her at the right time.
V23. Every week, I take time to go to the library with my children and read quietly with my children.
V24. During the autumn harvest season, take your children to see the country fields and feel the atmosphere of the harvest of the crops.
V25. You can write a letter to your child every month and tell some small secrets that can bring you closer together.
The happiness of children is actually very simple, it can be hidden in every little thing in our lives.
In the case that the children did not please us, we got them with wishful thinking and got a lot of happiness from them. We are responsible for it.
Even if we only take 30% of our lives as parents, the other 70% are reserved for ourselves to become the best version of ourselves, as the best example for our children.
When he becomes an adult, his life restarts, and when he embarks on a new journey, I believe that he will also become a stronger, better, and better version of himself.
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