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01. Preface
Love, when blooming, a glance into the heart. However, the depth of love, but do not know how to judge.
Whether it is a man or a woman, when he is deeply involved in a relationship, he always wants to spy whether the other party has moved his heart and whether he loves deeply or shallowly.
Lin Qingxuan said: "Romance is to waste time to eat slowly, waste time to drink tea slowly, waste time to walk slowly, waste time to slowly grow old. ”
In fact, to judge whether a person cares about you, whether they love you deeply or not, you only need to have a meal together to see clearly.
Because, in the process of eating, it can best reflect a person's living habits, the value of the three views, and the way he treats others.
With a person, there is no need to be tempted, from the details of eating, you can see whether two people are suitable for together.
02, order, see your position in each other's heart
Whether a person has you in his heart or not, you can see it when ordering.
In the TV series "Why Sheng Zhen Mo", He Yichen and Ying Hui, both of whom like Zhao Mosheng.
Once, when the three of them were eating together, they were fighting openly and secretly. Both of them took the trouble to order Zhao Mosheng's favorite dish.
Zhao Mosheng looked at the two men and put plate after plate of dishes in front of her, she was a little touched and overwhelmed.
If you really care about a person, you will pay attention to his bits and pieces. Even if it's just a simple meal together, you can find what the other person likes to eat.
The more you love someone, the more you think about what she likes to eat when ordering.
If you truly love someone, you will understand each other's preferences in every detail. Ordering food, although it is only a small act, can see whether a person loves deeply or shallowly.
People who love very shallowly, when ordering, often only care about what they like to eat, and do not consider each other's tastes.
Two people eat together, can't eat together, then the heart is often separated by distance.
03, when eating, look at the degree of harmony of feelings
Whether the two people are in tune with each other, whether the feelings are good or not, and the atmosphere during the meal can be displayed.
The shanshan and Fengteng in "Shanshan is coming" can be said to be related to rice.
Feng Teng liked the feeling of eating with her, and then slowly fell in love with her.
At dinner, Sugi always helps him pick out the things he doesn't like to eat, and jokes to make him happy.
Feng Teng ate with her and always felt very relaxed and happy. Eating with Sugi is the happiest thing of his day.
In a relationship, the deeper two people love each other, the better the atmosphere will be when eating.
In fact, it is not that the dishes are delicious, but that it is a very interesting thing to be with the people you like, have a happy mood, and eat.
Eating is something that is repeated every day. If two people have no feelings together, then the rice will become more and more tasteless.
People who can eat together, or have love in their hearts, eat together will eat every meal very comfortably and warmly.
Because of love, simple three meals for four seasons, in the ordinary life, becoming more and more exciting.
04, when paying, look at the degree of payment
Whether a person is willing to pay and is willing to think more about the other party can be seen from the time of paying the bill.
Tu Lei said: "Men are willing to spend money for women, he may not love her, but men are not willing to spend a penny for women, he must not love her." ”
Eat a meal and see how much a person pays for his feelings.
When eating, if the man does not take the initiative to pay the bill and propose the AA system, then he may care about who pays more and who pays less in a relationship.
If a person makes excuses and makes women pay, then he may regard money as important.
After eating, if the man takes the initiative to pay the bill, he is actually expressing his love.
When dating, if a man is not willing to pay for even a meal, then the sincerity and affection of the man will not be too deep.
In the same way, so are women.
In a two-way love, two people will often rush to pay the bill. Because, we understand each other, and want to better care for each other and understand each other.
People who have moved their hearts will give up measuring the pros and cons and do anything just for the joy of their sweethearts.
05. Summary
In a relationship, if you want to judge a person, you don't care about you in your heart, you don't need to be careful to test, and you can see clearly after having a meal together.
If you love someone, you will be willing to spend energy to understand his appetite. Hope he can eat comfortably and be happy.
If you don't love, having a meal together will send a signal of boredom and unhappiness.
Whether a person loves or does not love can be perceived.
If you are truly loved, you will definitely feel the care and care from the other party. At the same time, when getting along, you can also feel the feeling of being close to each other's hearts and minds on the same channel.
Love will make a meal and eat the taste of happiness. If you don't love, you will make a meal lonely and boring.
Accompanying her for the rest of her life, but just accompanying her to three meals a day and four seasons.
Whether you love someone or not, eat a meal, and you will have the answer in your heart.
On the road of life, love someone who can eat with you. That way, there will be more happiness and happiness for the rest of your life.
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Author: Xia Mo, a cutting-edge emotional tutor, a psychologist, a popular emotional writer with more than 1 billion people on the Internet, a happy woman manager, who has focused on emotions, gender, and mother-in-law and daughter-in-law for more than ten years.