One morning at 6 o'clock in 2012, in an old-fashioned neighborhood in Guangzhou's Yuexiu District, a sixty-year-old couple jumped from the top of the 9th floor and jumped down.
Later, after the surrounding neighbors confirmed that the couple who had died was Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu, who lived in this community.
Subsequently, the reporter entered the visit to this incident, and did not think about it, and the neighbors shook their heads sadly: "Sooner or later, Aunt Wen will have an accident." ”
It turned out that Aunt Wen had already had the idea of taking her own life before, and had tried to stand on the edge of the building alone, but was later discovered by neighbors, and they painstakingly persuaded Aunt Wen to come down.
But who could have predicted that Aunt Wen would run up and disappear on the roof when no one noticed.
Today, the two old people have left one after the other, leaving behind a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses under the age of 10.
And this pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses is not their grandson or granddaughter, but their own children.
After the two children learned the news of their parents, the son cried loudly after hearing it, and the daughter sat silently.
This pair of young "dragon and phoenix fetuses", many people are worried, where will their future life go? What happened to Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu, how could they bear to abandon them?
It all started ten years ago...
Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu once had a son, but unfortunately died unexpectedly at the age of 20.
After her son left, Aunt Wen did not come out of the house behind closed doors, crying at home for a long time, and when she went out again, the neighbors found that her black hair was completely white overnight, and her mental state was also very poor.
Every time I go out and see someone shouting "Daddy, Mommy", Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu are heartbroken.
In order to let themselves hear this happy voice again, the 50-year-old decided to have another child through a test tube.
They went to the neighborhood committee to apply for a birth permit, and the staff hesitantly asked Aunt Wen: "Can you stand it at such an old age?" ”
At that time, Aunt Wen said firmly: "I myself have the ability to slowly survive, survive until I can't bear it, and raise until I have no ability." ”
In order to do the test tubes, the couple used up almost all their savings.
In order to earn enough money for milk powder in advance, they do not seek social help, rely on their own actions to insist on transporting coal, carry gas cans upstairs for people, and charge an additional 5 cents on one floor.
Fortunately, heaven still cared for them, and Aunt Wen successfully became pregnant.
During the pregnancy period, Uncle Liu had a long-lost smile on his face, Aunt Wen's snow-white hair gradually turned gray, and the mental state of the two was getting better and better.
In 2002, Aunt Wen successfully gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and the sisters and brothers were in good health and beautiful in appearance.
This pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses has also found the happiness that has been lost for this family.
"The hardest times have passed, and now life is just getting started." Aunt Wen hugged the toddler and said happily.
At the time, everyone around them thought so, but the beauty lasted only a few years.
Young people already feel very difficult to raise a child, and Aunt Wen is even more difficult to raise a dragon and phoenix fetus.
In addition to taking children, Aunt Wen also has to work for short-term work and pick up waste, and can only sleep 5 hours a day, and when she is awake, she always feels that there is no end to the work.
"It's harder to bring up children than to sell coal." This was the first time that Aunt Wen had complained to the people around her.
In 2008, the dragon and phoenix fetus finally went to kindergarten.
Every morning, Uncle Liu carries two school bags and leads a child to school in one hand.
The old couple especially loved the children, especially Aunt Wen, in order to take better care of the children, simply found a cleaning job in the kindergarten.
When she saw the child playing sweaty, Aunt Wen would put down the work on her hands and run over to carefully wipe the sweat for the child.
Like many people, they also have times when they are unable to do so, for example, the dragon and phoenix fetus will often get sick and cannot afford to pay the kindergarten cram school.
Although it is very hard, Aunt Wen still does not regret her choice, she: "The family without children is incomplete, we have never regretted the original choice, we are getting older, and the children are getting older." ”
However, when Long Feng was in elementary school, everything changed, making Aunt Wen often feel anxious.
In 2009, Longfeng Tire officially entered primary school.
It would have been a good thing for the children to grow up, but Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu still took good care of them.
Uncle Liu is worried that the child is too young to control the water temperature, and he has to bathe the child himself every day, and he is too tired to stand up straight after each wash.
This is not the hardest, the hardest is to help the child do homework.
In the face of two children's textbooks, especially English books, Uncle Liu said that it was like a heavenly book and could not be understood at all.
Every time, the child brought the book to Uncle Liu, he could only stare at the textbook, and then silently returned the book to the child after reading it for half a moment.
Uncle Liu was sad, and the child was lost.
In addition to the difficulty of tutoring homework, children's meals are also a big problem.
Aunt Wen's cooking pursuit is simple, the taste is also very general, the two children do not like, each meal eats very little, very slow, and sometimes complains about the meal.
It is not easy to get old, aunt Wen and Uncle Liu also want to give the best to the child, but the reality is always so cruel.
They want to change, but they find that they not only can't keep up, they can't keep up.
Especially when they compare with their peers around them, this obvious gap makes Aunt Wen more and more discouraged about life.
Aunt Wen said to Uncle Liu's brother, "You all have grandchildren, I am so old, but the children are still so young." ”
Gradually, Aunt Wen's state began to show bad phenomena, and when she was depressed, she would hit her head against the wall, not only that, she often mentioned that she did not want to live.
Once, Uncle Liu also said to the child's teacher: "Teacher, I can't stand it." ”
At this time, the people around them began to realize that Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu should both have mental illness.
They often speak incoherently, saying that someone wants to harm their family, saying that the family's water bill for a month is nearly 1,000 yuan, or that they can't cook for their children, and so on.
When she was discouraged, Aunt Wen also expressed regret giving birth to the two children, in fact, she was harming them.
After the accident, Aunt Wen's attending doctor said: "Uncle Liu once consulted the neighborhood committee whether it could find someone to adopt the dragon and phoenix fetus. "That feeling, like explaining what happened, was poignant.
On February 7, 2012, Aunt Wen tried to jump. Lou, fortunately found by the neighbors, they stopped Aunt Wen in time.
At 5:00 a.m. on February 10, Uncle Liu suddenly heard the rapid footsteps at home, and as soon as he walked out the door, he heard a neighbor say that Aunt Wen had gone up to the roof, and finally, Uncle Liu and the neighbor ran up and persuaded Aunt Wen to come down.
Two hours later, Aunt Wen took advantage of Uncle Liu's lack of preparation and ran up to the sky tower again and jumped down, and after Aunt Wen jumped down for 2 minutes, Uncle Liu also left the roof.
After Long Fengtian knew about his parents, his brother cried from sadness to silent tears, but his sister did not shed a single tear, and refused to come to the door for counseling by psychological experts.
Since most of Uncle Liu's relatives are old, and their children are married and have their own children, if they accept these two children again, it will be a pressure for both parties.
Eventually, the two children were adopted by the director of the Western Zhou Education Research Institute.
After the deeds of Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu were reported, many people expressed their sadness.
There are also many people who do not understand, so old, why do you insist on having children?
Here, I just want to say that without the suffering of others, do not persuade others to be good.
For Aunt Wen, after experiencing the white-haired people sending the black-haired people, the worlds of Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu collapsed.
The arrival of a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses is to pull them out of the abyss, if there are no two children, Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu will probably live in pain for a long time.
Therefore, from the side, the dragon and phoenix fetus also saved the lives of Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu.
However, they ignore that after more than twenty years, the upbringing of children has changed dramatically from when they were young.
They can't adapt and they have a hard time changing.
If Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu try to ask the outside world for help when they are in trouble, or things will take another turn for the better, or tragedy will not happen.
It's a pity it's too late.
Life is easy, life is easy, life is not easy.
From this incident, we deeply understand the difficulties and responsibilities of parenting.
Especially for children born at an advanced age, before giving birth, we must first understand the difficulties that will be encountered in the future, and then see if we can bear it.
After all, after the birth of a child, it is about the happiness of two generations of adults and children.