The most miserable thing in life is that the white-haired people send the black-haired people, children are the continuation of the life and hope of their parents, and most middle-aged people on the mainland are still relatively conservative in their thinking, they think that nothing is okay, but they cannot live without children.
In the 90s there were a large number of only children came to this world, they enjoyed all the love of their parents, but some unfortunate families unfortunately lost their only child, they became a couple who lost their independence, today we want to talk about an old couple in Guangdong, who lost their only son at the age of fifty, and then could not accept it, and gave birth to a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and finally could not support and jumped off the building to die.
Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu are an ordinary couple, they have a twenty-year-old son, and their life is ordinary and happy. The son is sensible and willing to suffer hardships, they open a computer repair shop, the income is not high, but still very healthy.
What was not long after was that an accident took away the life of their son, and Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu instantly felt that they had also lost half their lives. Overnight, they had white hair, and the pain of the white-haired people sending the black-haired people was a pain they could not accept.
The insomnia every night made their lives muddy, they could not get out of the shadow of losing their son, and finally one day, they heard that the couple in the neighbor's family had ivy, and they thought that if they also did IVF, then they could become parents again.
After having such an idea, they discussed every day, they believe that the future life without children is bleak, and only with children will their lives have hope. With this in mind, they planned to use the savings for childbearing.
At this time, they are already in their fifties, and many people are trying to dissuade them after learning about their plans, after all, when the children are twenty years old, they are almost eighty, and they cannot accompany the children's youth, nor can they give the children more ideological guidance.
However, they are stubborn and still think that it is impossible to have no children, and with children their lives can be complete, as for the future of children, children and grandchildren have their own children and grandchildren.
In this way, they spent all their savings on IVF, and they were still a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses, and then they began to look forward to the growth of these two small lives. After Aunt Wen was ten months pregnant, she finally gave birth to a son and a daughter.
The whole family began to celebrate the arrival of new life, and for a time Aunt Wen and Uncle Liu also became celebrities near the community, and everyone knew that this middle-aged and late-aged couple had a son and a pair of dragon and phoenix fetuses. For a moment, they forgot the pain of losing their children.
After having children, their living expenses are getting bigger and bigger, not only need to have the cost of milk powder every day, but also take time to take care of the children, but also have to work overtime. Sometimes, they are severely sleep-deprived and have no time to eat every day.
At first, they were immersed in a joyful atmosphere and did not know that they were tired, but after a long time, they could not resist exhaustion, after all, people are not machines, it is impossible to operate at high speed every day.
Children can finally eat and play by themselves, but at this time they are more naughty, they need to spend more energy to take care of children, sometimes children do not understand things, they want to hit children, but still can't get their hands on it.
Long-term resentment has accumulated in their hearts, and they have nowhere to vent. Every day, children will also dislike the food they cook is not delicious, and the child's hyperactivity and their slowness form a sharp contrast.
Later, when Uncle Liu went to the kindergarten to pick up the child, the child's classmates still thought that he was a grandfather, which made him see the reality in an instant, it turned out that he was really old, and he really could not accompany the child for several years.
Every night, the two children will scream, they have enough energy to release, but the two couples have already worked for a day, very tired, but can not sleep, they can only patiently coax the child to sleep.
Children are noisily asking them to tell stories, their eyes have been sleepy and can't be opened, and children see that their parents do not tell stories to themselves, and they are even more disgusted, thinking that they do not love themselves and do not tell stories to themselves.
The older son's obedience and the mischievous mischievousness of the two children formed a sharp contrast, they began to miss the eldest son, and at this moment the shadow of losing the son came back again, and every day they dragged their tired bodies and forced themselves to take care of the daily life of the two children.
After meeting the kindergarten teacher, Uncle Liu and the teacher said that they felt that they could not hold on. At that time, Aunt Wen was also very tired, and the whole person looked like a walking corpse.
The old couple was originally hard-working and able to resist the pressure of the character, but now they are tortured by two children to lose themselves. People noticed their changes, and their old age grew faster, as if they had experienced some suffering.
One morning, the two children were still sleeping in the warm bed, but the two of them jumped down the tall building in a daze, this jump seemed to be liberated, and it seemed that they had once again fallen into the abyss of error, and they had lost the hope of living at this moment, and ended their lives forever.
And these two children have become orphans, where should their future go, will they know that their parents have been tortured to the point of collapse, and how innocent they are when they are young?
Many people are sympathizing with the two children, but few sympathizing with the old couple, whose actions seem great, but are actually very selfish. The reproduction of the animal kingdom is the offspring of living things, and the biggest difference between humans and animals is that they know how to take responsibility for their children.
Many people think that Dink is not responsible, think that Dink is selfish, in fact, only let himself give birth to the most selfish, born as a human being, how many people are sad?
Life is not done according to the requirements prescribed by others, whether there are children or no children, it is a life. If you have the ability to raise, you can have more eugenics, if you do not have the ability to raise, or take care of yourself first is the most important.
Nowadays, many parents will urge their children to have children, in fact, they have not thought about the reason why children do not want children, if a person has the ability to get married and have children, then they will do it, after all, everyone wants sweet love and the joy of children and grandchildren. But before you do anything, think twice.
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