Zhengzhou Traditional Chinese Medical Hall: There is a child psychologist who deals with children almost every day.
Adolescence, known in the West as adolescence, is a stage in which a child is partly a child, partly an adult, and partly somewhere in between, she said. His body has gradually matured, but his psychology is still green and yellow, and he has no ability to live independently.
"The parent-child conflict in adolescence is rooted in parents' attitudes towards their children's early education and daily life. In most families, the child does not receive the respect he deserves; many parents do not notice that as the child grows, his sense of independence grows stronger and more, and the ill-timed house rules do not keep pace. Don't think that a child's behavior that is different from the past is the rebellious behavior of adolescence. Fearing that he will give in means that the child will deviate. Don't just suppress it. "
Many parents who go to psychological counseling centers often think of consulting a psychologist only when their children's emotions affect academic performance. "In fact, the adolescent rebellion in their eyes is mostly a problem of parent-child relationship, a family relationship, including a manifestation of a bad relationship between husband and wife." Therefore, if parents think that their children are rebellious in adolescence, first of all, the whole family needs a psychological consultation. ”
To get through this period safely, parents need to grow up with their children. Usually, parents should communicate well with their children, imperceptibly pass on their own values to their children, and establish similar family values. In fact, this is family education, from an early age to pass on the behavior habits and values to children.