A few days ago, a child from a kindergarten in Nanchang, Jiangxi Province, was reluctant to go to kindergarten on the first day of school, and her mother said that she had to go to school after paying the money. The child cried and asked the head of the kindergarten to return the money, and said that he would rather pick up garbage than go to kindergarten.
According to insiders, the child was carrying a large school bag, holding a stone in his hand, and his face was still snotty and tearful, he angrily walked into the head of the kindergarten, shouted at the director to return the money, and also said that he did not want to go to kindergarten, the head of the kindergarten chatted with him for a while, but he said that he would rather pick up garbage than go to kindergarten.
It is often said that newborn calves are not afraid of tigers. This child's behavior is very innocent and cute, he already has his own ideas and ideas at this age, he feels that going to kindergarten is not happy, so he is reluctant to go. This is the same as our adults do not want to go to work on the first day of vacation, people will inevitably relax after a long holiday, and it is normal for children to have this emotion.
Children going to kindergarten is a relatively big test for parents and children, children have to leave their parents to adapt to campus life alone, which is indeed more difficult for them, and this step of the child going to kindergarten requires parents to go through with their children.
The mother did not give her child psychological counseling before going to kindergarten in advance, and she allowed her child to go to the head of the kindergarten to refund the money, which could not fundamentally solve the problem. Children are still young, the concept of going to school is not clear, parents can read some picture books about kindergarten to their children in advance to help children alleviate anxiety.
Netizen views
Netizens saw this scene and talked about it, and one netizen said: "I am laughing and crying!" This child is really a tiger, he is much stronger than me, he actually dared to take a stone to the head of the kindergarten to ask for money, and he will definitely be a talent when he grows up! ”
Some netizens also said: "Children are still young, picking up garbage is really hard, you still obediently go to school." There are classmates and teachers in the school, and you can learn a lot of knowledge, you don't have to go to school like me, you can't find a good job when you grow up. ”
Some netizens also think: "This child also knows to help his mother get the money back, but also a small money fan, but the money for school can not be saved, parents in this life is to let the child get a good education, live a good life, your parents have not given up on you, you can not give up on yourself." ”
Editor's opinion
When we are young, we often do things that adults can't understand, which is the innocence of children. This child's solution to the problem is simple and decisive, he has his own opinions and strong execution, if he can use these abilities in his work and life when he grows up, then he will be able to become a great instrument.
Children have their own ideas and opinions, they like to solve problems in their own way, parents should also give them this opportunity appropriately, and when the child grows up, his ability to deal with things and way of thinking will be very different from others.
Kindergarten is the child's second home, and the child spends most of his or her time studying and living in the kindergarten. Many children are anxious when they enter kindergarten for the first time, they are unfamiliar with kindergarten, and they are reluctant to be separated from their parents. At this time, parents should do a good job of guidance in time to help children establish a sense of security and smoothly pass the anxiety period of entering the kindergarten.
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