Recently, Yingda's youngest son Yingrudi mentioned his brother Batuu for the first time in an interview, saying that the two sides had no contact, and they wanted to contact each other, but they were afraid of disturbing each other's lives, and said that "the other party may not want me as a younger brother." Subsequently, the old affair between Yingda and Song Dandan was also re-mentioned by netizens again, which triggered a heated discussion.

On February 18, Yingrudi, the youngest son of Yingda, who has attracted much attention for participating in the Ice Hockey Program of the Winter Olympics, was interviewed by the media through live broadcast. In the interview, he explained the origin of his name, talked about the ice hockey project, and also responded to the relationship with his brother Batu for the first time under the questioning of netizens.
He acknowledged the brotherhood between the two men and was very candid in saying that there was no contact between the two parties.
He said that he actually hoped that his brother would contact him, but the other party never contacted him.
Speaking of which, some people may want to ask, since you want to contact, why can't you take the initiative to contact your brother as a younger brother?
In this regard, Ying Rudi also explained, he said that his family has always welcomed Batuu back, but the other party already has his own family, can not disturb the lives of others for selfish desires, not to mention that everyone may ignore a problem, Batuu may not want him as a brother.
Although the words are pitiful, netizens do not buy it much.
In particular, this "he does not look for Batuu is polite and does not bother, Batuu does not look for him is not want him" of the double standard logic + throwing pot ability has been complained by many netizens, as if drinking a large cup of green tea.
However, there are also netizens who speak for Ying rudi, thinking that Ying Ru Di is 23 years old this year, and most of the time he is in training, and he does not understand people's feelings so much. These words may only be out of his own true thoughts, no need to distort to understand him, what is the problem or unjust debt has a master, identify his father Yingda.
Well, this is true - for Ying Rudi's words everyone is doing reading comprehension, what it means is only Ying RuDi himself knows, but the people who cause the brothers to face this kind of "connection or not" problem are nailed down.
In 1987, Song Dandan met Yingda in the ren art rehearsal of a new drama "Arsonist", similar hobbies and frequent contact made the two people quickly close, from ordinary friends to romantic couples, and registered marriage two years later.
In 1990, the couple's son Batuu was born.
After this, the marriage lasted for several more years, but eventually went to a broken end. As for what is the reason, Song Dandan has explained in his own book, and a simple summary is probably their own derailment.
Although the love affair with Indah looks bright and beautiful, it is privately filled with wordless pain. The man is very talented, but he is useless in life, according to the current words, Song Dandan almost got married, and in the long run she could not continue to insist, and finally chose to cheat.
Three days after falling in love with her new partner, she found Indah to confess, and Indah quickly agreed to divorce her. It wasn't until the two parties finished receiving the divorce papers that Song Dandan discovered that Yingda had actually been ambiguous with Liang Huan for several days. The development of subsequent events also confirmed all this, and in the same year of divorce from Song Dandan, Yingda married Liang Huan and soon had a son and a daughter.
Because both parties were top-level figures in the entertainment industry at that time, after the divorce, these two people did not have less snipers, and every three to five years they had to tear up and beat up because of various small things, and the biggest of them was because of children.
In August 2011, Song Dandan took Batu on the show to promote his new work, and soon after, Indah also took his son to the show.
On the show, he showed off his feelings with Yingrudi, saying that he was a "four-habitat loving father" who was also a driver, nanny, cook, and coach, saying that he threw money to repair the ice rink for Yingrudi, and was proud of him, and said that if he could only bring three things to space, he would bring Mozart's CD, a book and a photo of Yingrudi.
It doesn't matter if Xiu Xiu wants to say it, after all, it is normal for a father to love his children, but because Yingda's remarks indirectly affected another child, Batu, who has been ignored by him, he was ridiculed by his classmates: Why doesn't your father bring your photos, does he not love you?
In fact, not only is it not love, after the divorce, Indah is almost indifferent to Batu, even Batu's grandfather died, he only knew through the news, and he wanted to go to worship in the follow-up, but also rejected by Indah.
Such a father, now preaching that he is a good father, angry that Song Dandan directly scolded the other party for hypocrisy, and incidentally also broke out many cold-blooded facts about Indah to Batu, such as Batuu begged Indah to take him out to play when he was 7 years old, and Indah ignored him; when he was 11 years old, Batuu managed Indah to call, and Indah did not give... Various.
After such details are exposed, public opinion naturally follows. Indah was forced to respond, but... His response can be said to be cold-blooded to the end: divorce is to start a new life, that is, to completely turn over everything that was original, including not seeing children.
That said, I really want to give him a round of applause... However, don't worry, let's first listen to what Indah says today and then applaud.
Just two days before Ying Rudi responded to her relationship with her brother, Yingda also participated in a show as a guest, and he was asked again about being a father and mentioned Batuu in the show. Yingda responded that he had the conditions to treat all children equally, not biased or deliberate, and at the end of the sentence, he said with deep meaning: "If you don't let me pay attention, people hate, don't want you to bother us, then how do you pay attention?" ”
The yin and yang strange qi in this word, I believe you can understand Ha, but... Ten years ago, you said that you were going to turn the page, and now how come the other party does not let you pay attention? Does the face really not hurt when you talk like this?
Then again, the failure of a marriage must be caused by many aspects, and so many years have passed, and then to struggle with who is right and who is wrong, we have no position, no details, and there is no need, but after the divorce, Indah's questioning and ignoring Batu is obviously an indisputable fact for everyone to see.
The son who has been cultivated for many years finally has a job, Yingda as a father wants to show his efforts over the years, and it is understandable to want to get some praise about the identity of the father, but as Song Dandan said at that time, you can play any role you want to play, but please don't hurt the people who have been abandoned by you once, please don't look good for the sake of face, say some lies that you don't believe, you know that the Internet is not really memory.