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On that night full of memories in 2024, Yingda, who has reached the age of old, sat quietly in the study, staring at the precious old photo in front of him that had been many days away, and an indescribable guilt and regret suddenly emerged in his heart.
The photograph depicts his youthful years and intimate moments with his eldest son, Batu, when their smiles are still clearly visible, as if it had just happened yesterday.
Time flies, and now the son who once made him so proud, he doesn't know if he is willing to forgive him for all the mistakes he has made in the past.
Looking back on the unbearable years of divorce, Yingdah's coldness and ruthlessness towards Batu still make him feel deeply guilty. He clearly remembered that on that painful night when he decided to divorce, he listened to the sorrow of his ex-wife Song Dandan indifferently, without the slightest sympathy.
After the divorce, he openly denied that Batu was his parent, which not only deeply pierced Batu's immature heart, but also completely destroyed the family bond between father and son.
Thinking of this, Yingda couldn't help but let out a heavy sigh, and he looked up out the window, only to see that the people who used to surround him had now entered a happy old age.
Song Dandan rediscovered her career and happiness, while her eldest son Batu made remarkable achievements in his career with his unremitting efforts, and even formed his own family and lived a comfortable life.
In contrast, the second son, Ying Rudi, despite his achievements in the field of sports, failed to fully meet his expectations.
Yingda gently stroked the frame, and he felt the warmth from which he had not felt for a long time. Perhaps now is the time for him to take the initiative to extend the hand of friendship, as long as he can repair the father-son relationship with Batu, the hollowness and guilt in his heart may be able to find a little comfort.
Whenever she thinks about the harm she did to Batuu, Indah feels terrified and afraid of being rejected again. He sighed helplessly, slowly closed the frame, and silently prayed for the forgiveness of Batu and the whole family.
Looking back on the past, Yingda's heart is full of contradictions and struggles. His desire to rebuild his father-son relationship with Batu to make amends for his years of wrongdoing, but at the same time, he fears rejection again, which fills him with anxiety and helplessness.
Facing the friends who used to surround him and now have stepped into a happy and happy life journey, Yingda feels more lonely and lonely. He deeply understands that it will not be easy to win back the trust and forgiveness of his son Batu.
The wounds caused by the past years are difficult to erase easily, and he needs to show patience and sincerity.
At this moment, the only thing Yingda can do is to calm down, deeply reflect on his past, and be determined to make up for all his regrets. Only by sincerely repairing this shattered family can he find deep peace and solace in his heart.
Some of Yingda's bad behaviors in the entertainment industry have become a lingering shadow for him over the years. Among them, there is nothing more controversial than his extreme treatment of the original author Liang Zuo.
Late at night in May 2001, Liang Zuo, the screenwriter of the audience-loved sitcom "I Love My Home", unfortunately died of a heart attack. In the process of sorting out his brother's relics, Liang Tian was shocked to find that in order to promote the development of the crew's career, Liang Zuo was burdened with a huge debt of up to one million yuan.
Liang Zuo's most precious treasure is that his works and manuscripts are all treasured in his computer.
At this moment, Liang Tian, who was immersed in endless grief, did not foresee that at the same time, his brother's computer had been quietly stolen by Yingda. When Liang Tian's best friend Wang Shuo learned of this, he immediately rushed to Yingda's mansion to retrieve his brother's creative draft.
Yingda mercilessly rejected his request, declaring eloquently that these works were co-created by him and Liang Zuo, and that he must defend his copyright rights.
In the eyes of onlookers, Yingda's behavior is undoubtedly naked plunder and exploitation. As Liang Zuo's younger brother, when facing heavy debt pressure, Liang Tian tried to repay the debt by selling his brother's script, but was once again resolutely resisted by Yingda.
Yingda has admitted that the arrears stem from financial problems that he failed to properly manage during the filming of the sitcom, and although the script has been written, he plans to show it gradually in the future.
For Liang Tian and Liang's mother, Yingda's pretext is undoubtedly a kind of hypocritical cover-up! At this critical moment, Liang Zuo's close friends Wang Shuo and Ma Wei both showed their generosity, took the initiative and bravely reached a helping hand, actively coordinated with creditors from all walks of life, and finally reached a consensus between all parties.
Incredibly, Liang's mother did not hesitate to pour out her pension, and Liang Tian and his spouse also volunteered to resolutely use their family savings to pay off this huge debt.
Yingda's bad behavior not only deeply pierced the hearts of Liang Zuo's family, but also aroused widespread attention and strong condemnation in the entire entertainment industry. People accused Yingda of being ruthless, and thought that the way he treated his own flesh and blood was simply outrageous.
There is no doubt that this incident has caused Yingda's image in the minds of many people to suffer a heavy blow.
Looking back, Yingda's heart is filled with endless guilt and shame. He knew very well that what he did at that time not only deeply hurt Liang Zuo's family, but also seriously damaged his reputation in the entertainment industry.
It's natural for Yingda to feel guilty and bitter in the face of past mistakes, but at the same time, she also recognizes that it takes a lasting effort to repair these wounds.
Perhaps, deep down, Yingda also longs to regain the respect and trust of the public. However, to achieve this goal, he must first start by deeply reflecting on his past and sincerely confronting all the mistakes he has made.
Only in this way will he be able to truly get rid of these shadows and reinvent his image and status.
In his married life, Yingda also showed a selfish and aloof side. At the beginning, after he and Song Dandan entered the marriage hall, Song Dandan quickly rose to become a popular actress with her superb acting skills, while Yingda actively sought new development opportunities, created the popular sitcom "I Love My Home", and fully supported his wife as the heroine.
Although the two participated in the filming of this TV series together, Song Dandan had already had a bad premonition. Yingda's indifferent attitude towards her confirms that the rumors circulating about his affair are not nonsense.
Yingda spent less and less time at home, and even ignored his young son Batu, and even when Batu was sick and had a high fever, only Song Dandan was busy running around alone.
When Song Dandan was questioned by Yingda, Yingda did not choose to respond calmly, on the contrary, he angrily scolded the other party for nothing to do with it in a more passionate tone! Song Dandan, who was devastated, was both sad and disappointed, she quickly threw herself into the arms of another man, but just three days later, she resolutely submitted a divorce application to Yingda!
Yingda did not show any objection to this, but readily agreed to the divorce request. On the day of the divorce, Song Dandan unexpectedly found a message sent to him by Liang Huan on Yingda's pager: "Where are you now? Have the matter been properly resolved? When do you expect to go home?" At this moment, Song Dandan finally understood that the so-called "boyfriend" was just a replacement she was looking for when she was depressed, and this "boyfriend" left her without hesitation, causing her to fall into deep despair.
Only a few months after the divorce, Yingda and Liang Huan entered the marriage hall with lightning speed. Heartbroken, Song Dandan decided to keep his son Batu by his side and not let him lose his father's care.
Yingda's indifference is like the vast sea, and it has never left even the slightest warmth for Batu.
Since then, Indah has completely abandoned Batu, turning a blind eye to the existence of this eldest son. Batu had begged his father countless times to give him some attention and companionship, but Indah always refused indifferently.
It wasn't until Batu turned 11 that he mustered up the courage to try to get in touch with Indah, but what awaited him was another brutal rejection, which devastated Batuu's psyche and even when Indaw's father died, Batu still longed for his father's comfort, but eventually left with endless loss.
Compared with his indifference to Batu, Yingda's doting on his second son Ying Rudi can be said to be incomparable. He considers Ying Rudi to be his "work of art" and is even more proud of his achievements in ice hockey, frequently showing off in public.
This obvious partiality not only deeply stung Batu, but also indirectly affected Ying Rudi's own growth process.
Looking back on the years after the divorce, Yingda's heart was full of guilt and self-blame. He clearly remembered that at that time, Song Dandan begged him in pain, but he ruthlessly ignored it.
The act of quickly remarrying after the divorce undoubtedly brought heavy psychological trauma to Song Dandan, although time flies, Yingda still can't forgive himself for being selfish and ruthless.
For Batu, Yingdah's bad behavior undoubtedly dealt a heavy blow to him. As his biological father, Yingda was able to do such an indifferent and ruthless thing, which deeply damaged Batu's heart, and this shadow will be with him for the rest of his life.
Although Yingda deeply remorseful, if she wants to save all this, I am afraid that she will need to go through a long road and make greater sacrifices and efforts.
Yingda's completely different attitude towards the two sons undoubtedly deeply pierced the heart of the eldest son, Batu. Since he was a child, Batu has been neglected and neglected by his father, and even his right to a name has been questioned.
Yingda once openly denied that Batu was his son, and such words were like sharp blades, leaving an indelible scar on Batu's heart. Even when Yingdah's father died, Batu still had hope, hoping that his father would accompany him and soothe the pain in his heart, but in the end, he got endless disappointment.
Despite his father's indifference, Batu did not give up on his career and ideals. With the firm support and encouragement of his mother Song Dandan, he starred in the first TV series in his life, and frequently participated in various variety shows, winning the love of the audience.
With the vigorous development of the short video and live broadcast industry, Batu has also kept up with the pace of the times, devoted himself to the live broadcast industry, and carried out sales activities. With his talent and loyal fan base, he has generated a lot of money.
It is this spirit of courage to meet challenges and dare to take responsibility that makes Batu still live a happy, harmonious and joyful life after marrying and having two children. This undoubtedly made people look up to him with admiration and applauded his achievements.
However, in the process of Batu's gradual success, Yingda's second son Ying Rudi failed to achieve impressive results in his career as his father expected. Although Ying Rudi has made some achievements in the field of sports, the overall development can only be described as unremarkable.
Yingda has publicly stated that "personal success alone is far from enough, only if your children are equally outstanding can it be called real success".
In the face of the many achievements of Inbatu, does Mr. Yingda feel a sense of shame and bitterness in his heart? In the past, he abandoned Batu so ruthlessly, and now looking at this son with his unremitting efforts to achieve such remarkable achievements, how can Mr. Yingda not feel remorse and guilt for this!
Although Mr. Yingda tries to reconcile with Batu, it will not be easy for Batu and Song Dandan, who have been hurt so much. The wounds of the years cannot be easily healed, and they urgently need to see Mr. Yingda's sincerity and transformation in order to forgive his past.
Mr. Yingda knows that if he wants to win Batu's trust and understanding again, he will have to make long-term and sustained efforts. He must sincerely make amends for his mistakes and prove his change with concrete actions.
Only in this way will he be able to reunite this once broken family and allow Batu's psychological wounds to truly heal.
Compared with the indifference to the eldest son Batu, Mr. Yingda's love for the second son Ying Rudi can be said to be incomparable. He has repeatedly praised Ying Rudi as his most outstanding "work of art" in public, and frequently brought Ying Rudi to various programs to show their deep father-son affection.
However, this partiality towards Ying Rudi undoubtedly brought deep damage to Batu. Batu pleaded with his father many times to give him attention and love, but he was always met with a cold response.
Even when Mr. Yingdah's father died, Batu was full of hope that his father would come to comfort him, but he still left disappointed.
Mr. Yingda's partiality also indirectly affected Yingrudi's own growth process. Although Ying Rudi has achieved some success in ice hockey and is fortunate to be among the national team, his actual contribution is insignificant compared to the overall brilliant performance of the Chinese sports world.
Mr. Yingda has publicly stated that "personal achievement alone is not enough to be truly successful, and children must be equally exceptional". Then, looking at Ying Rudi's performance by this standard, I am afraid it is difficult to be regarded as the so-called "getting ahead".
There is no doubt that Yingda's extraordinary preference for his second son, Ying Rudi, undoubtedly shows a serious mistake in his role as a father. In the face of his eldest son Batu's tireless search for his attention and love, he did not hesitate to pour all his attention and energy into Ying Rudi.
Like the two extremes, the contrast between the way Yingda treats her two sons is undoubtedly a deep wound for Batu's spiritual world.
Perhaps Yingda hopes to use his unparalleled affection for Ying Rudi to fill in the regrets he once had caused by his indifference and ruthlessness towards Batu. However, reality tells us that instead of salvaging past mistakes, such practices have exacerbated the sense of alienation between father and son.
Yingda's excessive doting on Ying Rudi not only made Batu feel the pain of being abandoned, but also had a negative impact on Ying Rudi's own healthy growth.
Surprisingly, Yingda seems to ignore this, and even trumpets Ying's excellence in the field of ice hockey in an attempt to prove her "success". At this moment, Yingda's heart is probably full of anxiety and helplessness.
He is well aware of how much damage his past actions have caused to his children, but how to mend this broken family and how to win the children's understanding and trust is undoubtedly a difficult challenge for him.
Compared with Yingda's ruthlessness towards his eldest son Batu, Ying Rudi showed great tolerance and understanding. Although he is well aware of his father's neglect and hurt of his brother over the years, he is still able to look at these pasts with a broad mind.
During the live broadcast, Ying Rudi was often asked by the audience about the situation of his long-missing brother Batu, however, in the face of these questions, Ying Rudi did not show the slightest impatience or struggle, on the contrary, he responded with a calm attitude.
He confessed that due to various reasons, he was never able to fulfill his wish to be reunited with his brother, but everyone in the family was looking forward to Batu's return soon. This kind of tolerance and understanding of her father's behavior undoubtedly demonstrates the maturity and stability of Ying Rudi's heart.
Perhaps it was precisely because of the deep understanding of how much damage his father's indifference had brought to Batu that Ying Rudi showed a stronger sense of compassion.
He knew that in order to reconstruct this already broken family, it was not enough to rely on his father's inner repentance, but also needed the tolerance and understanding of the whole family.
We can clearly perceive that although Ying Rudi does not fully agree with his father Yingda's behavior, he still chooses to face those past events with an open-minded and understanding attitude.
This kind of broad-mindedness has undoubtedly brought a ray of life to this family.
However, compared with Ying Rudi's tolerance, it is particularly difficult for Batu and Song Dandan to completely forgive Yingda's mistakes. The long-term damage cannot be easily erased, and if they are to be re-admitted to Yingdah, Yingda must put in sustained efforts and sincere sincerity.
Although Indah now has developed deep feelings of guilt and remorse, and is actively seeking to repair her relationship with Batuu, it is not an easy task for them who have experienced merciless hurt.
Song Dandan and Batu need to witness Yingda's real transformation before they can truly forgive him.
Perhaps it is precisely because of this realization that Yingda's attitude has changed significantly in recent times. Not only did he promise to treat every child equally, but he even came up with the idea of visiting his grandchildren.
These changes are undoubtedly pleasantly surprised, but for Batu and Song Dandan, it may take more time and effort to truly trust and accept Yingda.
Ying Rudi's tolerance and understanding have undoubtedly injected a warm current into the reconstruction of this family. His attitude shows his inner maturity and sense of responsibility, and at the same time provides a possible path to repair for his father, Yingda.
Only when everyone can uphold an understanding and tolerant mindset can this shattered family regain the warmth and harmony of its former past.
Even if the scars of the past are difficult to heal, as long as everyone tries with a sincere heart, we firmly believe that one day, the Yingda family will be able to get rid of the shadow and embark on their own path of happiness again.