For my first two articles on the relationship between Yingda and Batu, it is also the content that everyone is talking about. Therefore, xiaobian decided to write a more detailed related analysis of the relationship between Yingda and Batuu again, and to dig deeper into the context of some things that happened.
In order to bring you a better reading experience, you can go to my homepage to see the content of the previous two chapters, so that you can better connect.
My first two chapters were released in chronological order as "Yingwendi, the daughter of Yingda, the father of Chinese sitcoms, looks like her father, and has a high talent in ice hockey", "Actor Batuu's encounter, Yingda: "Although you and I are father and son, but the fate is so long".
The full text is 3400 words, about 9 minutes to read, you can read according to your own reading needs.
First of all, in "Dream of the Red Chamber", Sister Lin saw that Sister Bao, who was beside her mother, had been lying coddled, and her tears were about to fall, "He is here like this, it is clear that he is a person who is angry with me and has no mother, and deliberately comes to stab me in the eye." ”
Sister Bao did not do anything wrong, but Sister Lin herself did not have a mother, nor did she have the love of her mother, Sister Bao enjoyed her mother's pampering in front of Sister Lin, even if there was no superficial mistake, it would gradually become a mistake.
Indah and Yingrudi were accused of showing father-son love on the Internet, and they were also in danger, and people defended Indah's own eldest son, Batuu: "You are poking me in the eye." ”
Indah has ignored Batuu for more than two decades, but has put a lot of effort into training Yingru dysprosium.
When Ying Rudi was 3 years old, he was very interested in playing the piano, so Yingda sent him to a famous piano school and spent more than 100,000 yuan to buy a valuable piano for his children. (Childhood Ying RuDi)
After that, Ying Rudi fell in love with ice skating, and Yingda found the best ice hockey team coach to help him become a professional ice hockey player.
Ice hockey is a very expensive sport, which requires a lot of venues, a lot of equipment and equipment, and a high training cost, which is something that some local tycoons will do.
In order to make his son's interest in ice hockey better cultivated, Yingda did not hesitate to spend a lot of money to buy hundreds of thousands of equipment, buy a class of tens of thousands, and sold a house in Beijing to his son, and also sent his wife and children to the United States to study.
In the United States, he borrowed a huge amount of money, and then he had a house and a car, because of tax evasion and tax evasion, he was accused of laundering money in the United States, and finally confessed leniently.
Even so, he still endured the huge burden of mortgages and car loans, and laid artificial skating ground for his children in his backyard, where Yingrudi could practice as much as he wanted.
Indah also brought in a nutrition expert so that he could eat the food prepared by a perfect recipe every day.
Yingrudi's efforts were not in vain, and with the help of his father, his hockey career flourished, and in 2016, he entered the professional ice hockey team and enjoyed the treatment of millions of annual salaries.
Yingda is proud of the great success of his children, he has repeatedly expressed his love for Yingrudi, and called himself the "driver nanny chef coach" Four-habitat dad, "I am now especially willing to be called Yingrudi's father, I feel very honorable."
This is probably the best compliment a dad can give to his children, and he would rather sacrifice his reputation in order to give his children a good name.
At the 2022 Beijing Winter Olympics, Yingrudi was selected by the Chinese ice hockey team. In the match against Germany, the Chinese team "broke the ice" and achieved the first ever winter Olympic goal.
Yingda looked at his child excitedly: "We must remember, on what day, what time, the first ball of the Chinese men's ice Winter Olympics, this goal will definitely go down in the annals of Chinese ice hockey, the value of this ball is not easy to calculate with money, but I believe that at least 2,000 children will play ice hockey because of this goal." ”
Without Batuu to compare, Indah is a good father who can be treated with respect like Gu Ailing's mother.
Although Batuu has lived for more than thirty years, the father's love he has received has only been six or seven years, and over time, his father Indah has gradually forgotten him.
According to Song Dandan, after the divorce, Batuu tried several times to come to his father Yingda, but Indah politely refused, but only begged his father to accompany her to play.
Song Dandan was afraid that Yingda would not be able to find his child, and had not dared to change his phone number for 14 years, so Yingda took his young son to the TV to show off his father in the show.
Hearing that even Yingda's father, Yingruocheng, died, Yingda would not let Batuu give him a funeral, and he wanted to drive Batuu out of his life journey.
Batuu had a difficult life with his mother. Song Dandan failed to shoot a scene, did not have the opportunity to make money, she had a mental breakdown, and she cried every day.
Batuu was naughty and mischievous when he was a child, and his grades were poor, Song Dandan was also shouted by the class teacher, which time was it all ended with a smile? Not really. It can be seen that the feelings between him and his son can be known without thinking.
Returning to China as an artist, he is also a part of the entertainment industry, and Yingda's connections and resources can easily help him, but Yingda does not say a word, and he is most proud of his young son.
His mother presided over justice for Batuu, and netizens complained for him, but there were several people who could understand the grief in Batuu's heart, and every time this contradiction occurred, it would tear his scars and let the world know that he was a son abandoned by his father.
How many nights did he ask himself, how did Dad abandon me?
A long-established father will make his life full of huge burdens, his life's task is to break free from the name of the father and create his own glory, and Batu's current dilemma is that his father ignores him and ignores him, so that he has no motivation to surpass.
What is even more intolerable is that Indah makes no secret of ignoring Batuu and making different defenses under different circumstances.
For example, his first love is very young, he is still a small child, and it is impossible to be a good father.
Batuu was born in 1990, Indah was born in 1960, Batuu was born when Indah was 30 years old, studying abroad, knowledgeable, how can it be a child?
There is also a saying that his and Batuu's life experiences are limited, and once divorced, he will end, so he can only pin his fate on Batuu's body, "When Bayan (YingRudi's nickname) comes, I think I can't waste it anymore." ”
What is even more outrageous is that his marriage and Song Dandan's relationship broke down, but it was not the emotional rupture between father and son, and the blood relationship could not be separated.
In a recent statement, he treated his children equally and went to Batuu when he had the opportunity, hinting at the reason why Batuu did not want him to pay attention, so the relationship between father and son has been deadlocked.
In any case, Indah did not tell the truth, and even in an interview with reporters, he also said that this is what he wants to restart his life and come out of the life at that time.
"I also suggest that the same thing, if you break up, it is a breakup, otherwise it will not benefit both parties, but will bring greater damage to this new family." I knew that to start over, I had to start over, and I couldn't see him again. ”
"I also advise people who have the same experience to be separated, otherwise it will not benefit anyone and it will hurt the new family." I know that to start a new life, you have to turn the page completely, including not seeing the children."
That was his answer
Because of his relationship with Batuu, it is likely that he will be connected with his ex-wife, which will have a great impact on his later life and the new family he has formed. He made up his mind to abandon his children, to abandon his ex-wife, and then he could be like an unmarried person, to manage and develop his new family, to take care of his children
Indah is very clear that the fatherly love that a child should have depends on which child is cost-effective for him, Batuu is the ex's, so it will bring a burden, and the children after him are like babies.
Yingda is a selfish person, after the death of his brother-in-law Liang Zuo, he took away the computer and USB stick containing Liang Zuo's legacy, leaving a multi-million IOU to Liang Zuo's child who was less than 10 years old, and Wang Shuo turned his face with Yingda for this reason, accusing Yingda of having a very bad attitude toward Liang Zuo, and also said that Yingda had surpassed Huang Shiren's cruelty. (Liang Zuo died of illness 19 years ago, and his friend Wang Shuo scolded Yingda: Huang Shiren is not enough)
Indah reminds me of Luo Shibin in "The World of Man.".
The reason why Luo Shibin wanted to find his son Zhou Nan was because he had lost his fertility and he would not have children of his own. So go and look for the child born because of qj at that time (Luo Shibin and Zheng Juan robbed the child #Human World#)
He seems to want to make Zhou Nan's life better, but in fact, he uses the wealth in his hand to tempt him and make him grateful and dependent on himself.
He did not spend much time to cultivate him, but after Zhou Nan grew up, he seized his hope of changing his life and gave up zhou Bingkun, who raised him.
Zhou Nan died, and Luo Shibin was kind enough to rebuke Zhou Bingkun, saying that Zhou Bingkun was a selfish person, and if Nan Nan could give it to him earlier, this kind of thing would not have happened.
In fact, he was the selfish person, if he had his own son, would he show off his fatherly feelings in front of Zhou Nanru?
Unlikely
In this world, ruthless people are never the worst in life, they know how to think for themselves.
Indah is a man of half conscience who has given half of his conscience to Batuu to a dead dog, and the child he loves most is the best example.
The same is true of many divorced men, who are "rational" and more attentive to their new families and ignore their children who were married last time.
They really don't have love, but their love is selfish, just to make their lives better, even if they are their own children, they will never do anything to give charcoal.
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At this time, Indah had begun to show soft words to Batu in order to maintain the image of Yingrudi, who treated his two children equally. In Batuu's view, it is no longer necessary to be unable to come out and accompany his father at a critical time.
Batuu has a second child, a wife, a mother, a stepfather and a sister, his life is not bad, in the live broadcast with goods, the future will inevitably develop in a good direction.
Batuu uploaded a video of his selfie on Feb. 22, jokingly saying, "The secret to being happy is: no! Doesn't matter! Not necessarily! ”
This sentence is most appropriate for Yingda.
No, it doesn't matter, it doesn't matter, if you forget your son, forget him, never pretend to be a loving father, this is probably just your own desire to get affection.
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