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In early April, Song Dandan's son Batuu and his wife Bogu officially announced the birth of their second child with a funny video.
The thick boy who was once spat out by his mother, "I gave birth to a waste", but did not refute or turn his face, standing next to him and laughing, was already the father of two children.
To tell the truth, because he is relatively low-key, even if the live broadcast brings goods, it is also down-to-earth and unpretentious, and he does not pull his mother to earn traffic to cut leeks. So, almost disappeared from the public eye.
But this year, he was forced to be hotly searched by his father Yingda and his half-brother Yingru Dysprosium, and even with nine words - it doesn't matter, it is not necessary, it will not be, it will be out of the circle.
The reason for the incident is this: this year's Winter Olympics, after the ice hockey game, there was a program team interview with Yingda.
When the reporter said bluntly, "You are really (not doing your duty) when you are a father..."
Indah unnaturally twisted her head to the side and retorted, "Not deliberately."
Subsequently, he also found an excuse for his eccentricity: "As long as I am given the opportunity, I will treat all children equally, and the love for Batuu can only be more impossible and less." But if you don't let me pay attention, people hate it, then how do you pay attention? ”
Sigh, this yin and yang weird, disgusting answer, doesn't it mean that he is too cold, all rely on Song Dandan? Truly worthy of Indah! I don't know, I thought he was a big wronged species?!
And the little son who was petted in the palm of his hand actually learned this essence at home.
In the live broadcast room, it was said that Batuu did not contact him, perhaps he did not want his younger brother at all, and he did not contact Batuu himself, for fear of disturbing Batuu's family life.
The words of these two people directly sent Batuu to the hot search. In an instant, the contrast between Batuu and Ying Rudi once again became the focus of public opinion.
However, unlike in the past, this time many people began to pay attention to the achievements of the two people. Some people even bluntly said that Ying Rudi was completely victorious over Batu in all aspects.
Frankly speaking, compared with Batuu, Yingrudi, who was carefully cultivated by Indah since childhood, is a proper genius.
He has attended first-class piano training classes since the age of 3, participated in various top piano competitions, and won many championships. When he discovered his talent for ice hockey, Indah spent a lot of money to support his interests and hobbies. He even built an ice rink for him.
He was also angry enough to go through five levels and slash six generals, and shine on the world stage. This year, as the core player of the Chinese ice hockey team, he went out for the country.
Love and companionship, flowers and applause, all of this is not lacking.
And Batuu was not only beaten in terms of fatherly love, but also had somewhat ordinary achievements.
When Batuu was a child with ADHD, in the words of his own mother, he was a black sheep in the class and was frequently invited to parents. After growing up, he embarked on the road of an actor, but the star road was bleak, and later he simply became an Internet celebrity live streamer with goods.
Such a completely different life makes netizens call out "the same father has no life".
Some people say, "Every good child is not a miracle that has turned out to be born, but a cause and effect that can be followed." Its cause, in the family, its roots, in the parents. ”
Deeply.
After the divorce of the husband and wife, the responsibilities and obligations of a father to the son still exist. Especially when children are young, any statement is a borrowing.
Like "It's better not to contact when divorced, because I don't know if the younger son is willing to share the paternal love with another child." This kind of nonsense, just like Yingda, will be uttered by a man who is absolutely indifferent.
But unfortunately, there are still many such scumbags in reality. They sprinkle the disputes between adults and resentment against their ex-wives directly on the children.
After the divorce they completely withdrew from the lives of their children and completely severed the relationship. Even if they know that young children need their father's love, they still ignore it.
For example, Indah, who has never seen Batu in more than ten years, does not even let his son mourn the death of his father.
In the face of questioning, he said frankly, "Although the two of us are father and son, the fate in life is so long." I am especially willing now, to be called Yingrudi's father, I think I am very honorable. ”
Alas, not only did he not even give his son decent, but he also embarrassed Batuu in public scenes everywhere, and the character pattern was evident.
His indifference made the sensitive Batuu a problem teenager for a while, but fortunately there was also his mother's love. Maybe he is not very good, but he is warm and kind, filial and considerate, sincere and simple.
Finally, I would like to say that being loved as a child is the armor of a person's life. Regardless of the relationship between husband and wife, please give your children enough companionship and love, that will be the driving force for them to ride the wind and waves.
Senior Nursery Teacher, Psychological Counselor, Author of Original Parenting Comics Articles,
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