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Batu put down the cherished photo frame in his hand and stared at the warm family photos of him, his lover and two children, and endless tears welled up in his heart. Originally, he should have been immersed in incomparable happiness, with a thriving career and a harmonious family.
However, whenever he recalls his father Yingda's ruthless and unrighteous abandonment, he still feels unspeakable pain in his heart.
Over the years, Batu has had a deep desire for his father. When he was young, he tried his best to follow in the footsteps of Yingda, and his heart was full of expectations for his father's love. However, when he finds his father's residence alone, Indah's reaction surprises him - he is extremely cold.
Instead of showing him the slightest concern, the father sternly warned him not to disturb his life in the future.
What is even more heartbreaking is that Yingda has repeatedly openly denied the father-son relationship with Batu in public, and even tried to deprive him of his Ying surname.
As a child, being so resolutely denied the family relationship by his biological father, how disappointed and painful Batu must have been in his heart at that time! Since then, his expectations and longings for Yingda have been completely shattered, and his impression of this father is only cold and ruthless.
Today, Batu has entered the palace of marriage, established his own family, and lived a happy life. He and his wife were like guests, and their two sons were smart and clever. Whether it is in terms of career or family, he can be called the best in life.
However, whenever he sees this family photo, Batu can't help but recall the bitter memories of his childhood, and the regret of losing his father's love comes back to his heart, making him burst into tears.
To tell the love story of Song Dandan and Yingda, we must start from the sweet time when they met and fell in love. At that time, Song Dandan was in his youth, beautiful and moving, and was an up-and-coming star in the entertainment industry; Yingda, on the other hand, is a talented young director in his prime.
They met by chance at a grand event, and since then they have fallen in love.
Song Dandan was overwhelmed by Yingda's talent, and Yingda was also impressed by Song Dandan's stunning beauty. The relationship between the two became deeper and deeper, and Song Dandan even took the initiative to invite Yingda to dinner.
On that beautiful and innocent day, Yingda romantically carefully designed a small note densely covered with affectionate confessions in advance, and then at the moment of handing it over to Song Dandan, he bravely shouted "I love you".
Song Dandan's heart was full of surprise and emotion, she did not hesitate to firmly believe that fate had arranged this man for her, and she entrusted her life's happiness to him without reservation.
So, the couple experienced two years of passionate love, and finally when Song Dandan was 29 years old, they held hands and entered the sacred marriage hall together. For Song Dandan, that day was undoubtedly the happiest moment in her life.
Not only was she nourished by true love, but her career also reached unprecedented heights, and her light illuminated the whole world.
However, the good times are always short-lived. Soon after marriage, Yingda's career suffered a Waterloo, while Song Dandan's acting career was booming and famous. As a traditional man, in the face of his wife's success, Yingda's heart was full of inferiority and shame.
In order to regain his self-confidence, he devotes himself to his work, and the time he spends with his family becomes increasingly scarce.
Although Song Dandan's career has made great achievements, she still feels lonely and lonely deep down. This sense of alienation between husband and wife eventually led to a tragic ending - she was hopelessly caught up in an extramarital affair.
When Yingda learned the news, the contradictions between them could no longer be reconciled, so they had to choose to break up and divorce In this way, their once sweet marriage came to an end.
Whenever he recalls his childhood longing for his father, Batu still has lingering palpitations. That painful memory was like a sharp knife piercing deep into his heart, and no matter how the years passed, it could not erase the deep pain.
It all started when Batu was about to graduate from primary school. At that time, the school asked for information about the home address of every student, but Batu did not know the whereabouts of his father, Indah.
So, this innocent child made up his mind to find his father's whereabouts no matter what.
After unremitting efforts and many investigations, Batu finally learned the exact address of Yingdah's residence. Filled with emotion, he decided to go alone to find his loved ones. Although the journey is full of difficulties and dangers, the child's heart is always full of anticipation and joy, because he believes that as long as he perseveres, there will always be a day when they will meet again.
However, when he finally found Indah's residence, a heavy blow awaited him. The father did not show any enthusiasm, but indifferently told Batu not to disturb his life in the future.
At that moment, he summoned a taxi in a fit of rage and forcefully forced the young Batu to get out of the place.
That picture is as deep as an imprint in the bone marrow, so that Batu, who is now an adult, can still clearly recall that scene back then. He watched his blood-related father look forward to him as a stranger, and the heartache and loss he couldn't express it.
The hopes and longings of his youth were all shattered in that moment, and the despair and pain in his heart cannot be described in words.
However, this is only the tip of the iceberg of the damage Batou has suffered. What is even more unacceptable is that Yingda has repeatedly and categorically denied the paternity between them in public, and even tried to strip him of his surname.
Just imagine, how painful and helpless a child should be in his heart when his biological father so ruthlessly denies the family relationship? Since then, all of Batu's expectations and longings for Yingda have come to naught, leaving only endless pain and disappointment.
This painful experience was like a sharp blade, cutting a wound in Batuu's upbringing that would never heal. And Yingda's abandonment and denial have undoubtedly become the main culprit of this trauma.
In stark contrast, Yingda takes great care of her youngest son Ying Ruyan and loves her very much.
Since the day Yingru fell to the ground, Yingda has surrounded this son with meticulous care. From daily life to academic development, he has never missed a single link.
Whether the school holds a sports day or a graduation ceremony, Yingda will always rush to the scene as soon as possible to cheer him on and provide full support.
Sometimes, Yingda will even praise Yingruyan's outstanding performance in public. Every time I heard this loving father's words of praise for his son, the people present would be moved to tears by this deep father-son relationship.
It can be said that Yingru is undoubtedly the center of Yingda's pride and favor.
This excessive doting behavior is in strong contrast to his indifference to his eldest son Batu. Looking back, in the face of Batu's countless desires for closeness, Yingda always turned a blind eye and turned a deaf ear.
Even a simple phone greeting would be answered with indifference and refusal. What's even more excessive is that he has repeatedly publicly denied his father-son relationship with Batu, intending to deprive Batu of his surname.
As a father, Yingda shows a very significant difference in his treatment of his two sons, and this favoritism and selfishness are exposed. It is precisely because of this "father's love" that Batu's tragic childhood was cast and brought him a psychological wound that is difficult to heal.
Compared with Batu's unfortunate situation, Yingruo Yan sits firmly on the solid foundation of Yingda's "loving father" image. However, excessive pampering stems from the love of the heart, but if it is too one-sided and lacks justice, it will degenerate into a selfish and self-willed behavior.
Yingda's behavior was undoubtedly unfair and deeply pierced the eldest son's heart.
The breakdown of the marriage meant that the young Batu had lost his father's strong backing. Fortunately, he has such a virtuous, virtuous, diligent and capable mother as Song Dandan by his side.
As a once smash hit acting superstar, Song Dandan could have entrusted Batu to others to take care of him. However, she has always held fast to her belief in raising her son herself, even if she has to take on the dual responsibilities of mother and father alone.
In the midst of doubts from the outside world, Song Dandan single-handedly supported the burden of the family and nourished Batu to thrive with selfless maternal love.
Despite the booming career, Song Dandan still resolutely does not let go of every moment in Batu's growth process. Whenever she returned home from work, she always asked her son about his schooling and living situation with concern.
As long as Batu makes a slight mistake, she will immediately correct it and guide it patiently.
In addition to teachings, Song Dandan poured endless love. She always motivates Batu to maintain a positive attitude and avoid letting him be troubled by the haze of his father's death.
Batu's biggest regret as a child was that he did not get his father's love. However, his mother's embrace gave him a new lease of support to help him through the most difficult stage of his life.
It is thanks to Song Dandan's careful care and love that Batu can get out of the haze and grow up healthy and happy. It is worth mentioning that Song Dandan also fully supports and inspires Batu to pursue his dream of performing arts.
Although he eventually gave up due to many factors, Song Dandan still firmly supported his son's career choice.
Today's Batu has achieved great things, has a happy family, and can be called a big winner in life! However, the source of all this happy life undoubtedly comes from the selfless and endless love and care of his great mother Song Dandan.
It was she who did everything she had to raise Batu alone to grow up, and it was only today that she created today's brilliant achievements As a single mother, Song Dandan's sacrifice and dedication are really moving and deeply admired! .
Time flies, and the once high-spirited Yingda has already gone through most of the journey of life and entered his old age. One day, he happened to catch a glimpse of a warm photo of Song Dandan and his grandson.
Although Song Dandan in the photo is over the age of six, he is still in good spirits, and the picture of intimate interaction with his grandson makes Yingda full of emotion and mixed feelings.
As a former derelict father, Yingda chose to leave at the moment when Batu needed his father's love the most, leaving behind endless pain. Young Batu searched for his father's traces, but in return for a cold response and a ruthless expulsion.
What's worse is that Yingda even openly denied the father-son relationship with Batu in public, which undoubtedly brought great harm to Batu.
Staring at the beautiful moment of the harmonious coexistence of the grandfather and grandson in the photo, Yingda couldn't help but feel deep envy in her heart. Years of loneliness and regret made him eager to regain the lost affection.
So, he began to plot secretly to try to get close to Batu's children as his grandfather.
However, Yingda's belated fatherly love was resolutely resisted by the parties. These frank and firm words, like a heavy punch, completely shattered Yingda's expectations.
As the most important woman in Batu's life, Song Dandan naturally has the right to express her anger, it was Yingda's wrong decision back then, which made Batu lose the warmth of his father's love.
Today, although Yingda began to crave the warmth of family affection, Song Dandan firmly believed that he was not ready to accept such an opportunity.
It was because of his decision that the whole family suffered irreparable scars, and now it is too late to regain family affection.
Therefore, in the face of Yingda's desire, Song Dandan refused without hesitation, in order to maintain the dignity of himself and his son.