1. Song Dandan is plagued by single parents and reveals the source of her prejudice
Song Dandan's encounter with Yingda originated from the filming site of the hit TV series "Arsonist" in the 80s of the last century. At that time, both parties were in the prime location of the social class, and the marriage was undoubtedly the mainstay and complemented each other! However, unexpectedly, the impermanence of love ruthlessly shattered their union.
Soon after marriage, Yingda's career was as decadent as the autumn wind and falling leaves, but Song Dandan's interpretation road was prosperous and thriving. Due to the lack of the traditional concept of "male protagonist outside, female protagonist inside", coupled with Yingda's outdated thinking, the contradictions and estrangement between the two intensified, and finally ended in divorce.
After the divorce, his son Batu was sentenced by the court to be raised by Song Dandan. Although the pain of separation cut Song Dandan's heart, her young son has become a source of hope and motivation for her survival.
However, after Yingda reorganized the family, it seems that Batu has left Batu behind, in order to fill Batu's missing father's love, Song Dandan gave all his love, but the overly strict education method made Batu suffer huge psychological trauma.
Nothing broke Batu's heart more than Yingdah's praise for his youngest son in public. This caused Batu's self-esteem to take a huge hit, and he became the object of ridicule from his classmates.
Batu begins to develop a deep fear of the family environment and a desire to escape from this nightmarish life.
As he reached puberty, Batu finally mustered up the courage to ask his mother to study abroad. Leaving this hurtful environment may allow him to think calmly and re-examine himself.
However, his mother Song Dandan's high-pressure education method is still with him, and Batu can't completely get rid of his mother's "control".
2. The encounter and love between the young Wang Bogu and Batu
has a similar fate to Batu, as well as Wang Bogu. She was born into a prominent family in Beijing, and her parents carefully forged her a stable job at the TV station. However, Wang Bogu has no interest in the job, and she longs to be free to pursue her dreams.
So, without his parents knowing, Wang Bogu resolutely quit his job and devoted himself to the acting career he loved.
The first years in the entertainment industry were undoubtedly challenging, Wang Bogu had to work as an unknown actor in the crew, and his life could not be maintained. However, she has never regretted her original choice, but with unwavering faith and diligent efforts, she looks forward to one day making a name for herself.
Finally, Wang Bogu's hard work was duly rewarded, and she was appreciated by the well-known director Teng Huatao, and gradually emerged and became famous.
Time flies, and in the blink of an eye, in 2014, Batu has spent six long years in a foreign country, but he has never achieved significant success in his career, and even on the road to finding a love partner.
Seeing that his only son was so decadent, Song Dandan was anxious and tried his best to arrange a blind date for him.
At this critical moment, Batu finally mustered up the courage and took the initiative to introduce his love object to his mother, Wang Bogu.
When she first met Wang Bogu, Song Dandan's heart was full of dissatisfaction - she was seven years older than her son, and she gave people a sense of pretentiousness of "being exquisite, seeing people and talking to people", Song Dandan was worried that her son would be deceived because of this.
In fact, Song Dandan is not completely unfamiliar with Wang Bogu, as early as during the crew, she noticed this diligent and studious but slightly pretentious woman, and was afraid that her simple son would be hurt in her hands, so she was opposed to this relationship.
However, as time passed, Song Dandan's opinion of Wang Bogu changed. After in-depth contact with Wang Bogu, she gradually found that this future daughter-in-law was not only reasonable, but also deeply understanding and sympathetic to her plight, and was empathetic.
What is still fresh in people's memories is that during the filming of the crew, when everyone was enjoying lunch in groups during the lunch break, Wang Bogu happened to pass by, and when she saw Batu sitting alone, she did not hesitate to come forward to talk to him.
It turned out that before this, Wang Bogu didn't know that Batu was Song Dandan's only son.
During the conversation, the two were surprised to find that their experiences were strikingly similar - in order to achieve their dreams, they had to strictly control their weight, and even resorted to extreme methods to make themselves hungry.
The reason why Batu always refuses to eat is precisely because he is afraid that his body shape will affect the photogenic effect.
And Wang Bogu also endured hunger in order to show the best image on the screen.
Listening to Wang Bogu's frank and enthusiastic narration, Batu felt unprecedented relief and courage, and his heart was full of shock. Wang Bogu, who is also a dreamer, is full of deep respect for Song Dandan, a great single mother, who did her best for her son, fought bravely, led the team alone, and showed a fearless spirit.
After marriage, Wang Bogu took the initiative to build a love nest with Song Dandan in order to better take care of her daily life. Faced with such an empathetic daughter-in-law, Song Dandan's deep prejudice gradually dissipated, and she began to re-examine and respect her.
On the occasion of Wang Bogu's birthday, Batu carefully selected a beautiful bouquet of flowers to give to her, and said to his mother affectionately: "Mom, look how considerate and kind she is!" We should all cherish and love her.
Song Dandan bowed slightly, obviously agreeing with him.
Part 4: Wang Bogu actively assumes family responsibilities
After entering the marriage hall, Wang Bogu resolutely gave up his budding acting career for the sake of family happiness. Some people speculate that she married Batu out of fame and fortune, but Wang Bogu didn't care about this, she chose to work quietly and fulfill her duties dutifully.
In order to dispel the concerns of his in-laws, Wang Bogu decisively asked Song Dandan to stop giving his son Batu's supplementary card. She hopes that Batu will be able to truly become independent and stop being overly dependent on her mother's financial support.
Song Dandan was surprised by this move, and at the same time expressed sincere admiration for her daughter-in-law's courage to take responsibility.
With the vigorous development of the live broadcast industry, Wang Bogu successfully grasped this rare opportunity with his keen insight. Together with her husband Batu, she has devoted herself to the field of live broadcasting, using her talents to create wealth on emerging platforms.
The success of his career has made Wang Bogu's position in the family more and more stable.
In 2022, when Wang Bogu ushered in the birth of his second child, Song Dandan did not hesitate to put down all the affairs in his hands and devote himself to the postpartum care of his daughter-in-law. She takes care of her like her own daughter and shares her valuable experience without reservation.
Looking back on the various prejudices against Wang Bogu in the past, Song Dandan is now full of emotion. At one point, she doubted whether her daughter-in-law was loyal and reliable, and whether she possessed enough virtuous virtues. However, now this excellent daughter-in-law, who took the initiative to pick up the burden and shoulder the family responsibilities, has completely eliminated all the doubts in her heart.
Fifth, Song Dandan regards Wang Bogu as his own affection - the brilliance of motherhood shines on the world
Song Dandan is always able to deliberately squeeze out the precious time of every day, and work tirelessly to cross long distances just to visit his daughter-in-law Wang Bogu. Her arrival is not just out of obligation, but more out of endless love and expectation for this "daughter" in her heart.
sometimes dutifully act as a filial "nanny", no matter what the request will do its best to meet; Sometimes like a patient and meticulous "mentor", he pours out his parenting experience accumulated over the years; Sometimes she is incarnated as a meticulous "mother", shushing the cold and asking for warmth, and caring for her.
Whenever he saw Wang Bogu's physical condition gradually recovering, Song Dandan seemed to see the shadow of his youth. Recalling the great pain her daughter-in-law endured when she gave birth, she couldn't help but burst into tears, deeply feeling that she had also experienced such hardships back then.
In the face of the occasional conflict between her son and daughter-in-law, Song Dandan rarely defends him from her son's point of view, on the contrary, she can always put herself in her position to understand and support her daughter-in-law's position.
Some people even joked that her attitude towards Wang Bogu was like treating her own daughter.
For such an evaluation, Song Dandan was not angry, but fell into deep thought.
Sixth, the family shares the joy of family, the current situation of happiness and good wishes
Time flies, and the marriage between Wang Bogu and Batu has gone through five spring and autumn. This enviable loving couple not only supports each other in life, but also goes hand in hand in their careers, which can be called winners in life.
In terms of career, Wang Bogu and her husband Batu have firmly grasped the development opportunities of the live broadcast industry, and have made remarkable achievements in emerging fields with their talents, and have gained a lot.
In family life, they have two lively and lovely children, and together they create a warm and harmonious little world.
Looking back on the past, Wang Bogu has experienced countless hardships and setbacks. From giving up a stable job arranged by her parents to struggling to survive in obscurity in the crew, she has survived the most difficult moments of her life with her indomitable will.
Today, she has not only succeeded in her career, but also gained sincere love and lived a happy life.
At the same time, mother-in-law Song Dandan's love for Wang Bogu has increased unabated. From the initial doubts and prejudices, to the current careful care of her as her own daughter, it can be seen that Wang Bogu's hard work and noble character have completely conquered the former "mother-in-law's heart".
We sincerely wish this wonderful home to be bathed in the radiance of love forever and to be with us until the end of our lives. May their emotions shine, their careers prosper, their families be harmonious and warm, and they will share the joy of family, full of joy and joy.
Pray that the lovers of the vast sentient beings in this world, like Wang Bogu and Batu, who have entered the marriage hall, can finally find their own sweet happiness and peaceful home.