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Text: Mo Yun
Edited by Mo Yun
"Can you dictate to young people by relying on seniority? Song Dandan is too strong, right......?"
Since Song Dandan participated in a variety show in 2022, public opinion on the Internet about her "strong and domineering" has never stopped.
Many people even took pity on her son because of this: when she took her son to a variety show, she was also so strong to her son;
I really can't imagine that with such a mother-in-law, Batu's wife is living a hard life at home.
I don't blame netizens for gossiping, after all, looking back ten years ago;
When Song Dandan expressed his views on his son's feelings, he said to the camera: "If you want to get married, wait another ten years!"
Despite being so "slammed" by his mother, Batu still took his wife, who was seven years older than him, home without hesitation.
Many years have passed, and Song Dandan, who used to look at his daughter-in-law and was unpleasant, actually lied to his daughter-in-law in front of the camera.
What's even more shocking is that the intimacy of the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is even far greater than that of Batu.
From being publicly "understated" to getting along like a mother and daughter now, what magic does Wang Bogu have;
How can the mother-in-law, who has always been "strong", change her attitude towards her so much?
Alone in the entertainment industry
Wang Bogu was born in Beijing in 1983.
Wang Bogu has been very fond of acting since she was a child, and she is also an active member of the class at school and often participates in theatrical performances;
The young Wang Bogu secretly decided in his heart that he wanted to be an actor when he grew up.
At the time of the college entrance examination, she was ready to follow her heart and apply for the art college.
And her grades are good, often in the top hundred of the school.
Such grades were enough for her to get into a good university, but she wanted to study art instead.
As soon as she said this, she was opposed by the whole family, especially Wang Bogu's father.
He thinks that actors are actors, they sing on TV every day, and they are a ninth-rate industry, and it is impossible for him to let Wang Bogu do this.
But Wang Bogu's attitude was very resolute, saying that he must apply for the art academy, and the father and daughter had a stalemate for a long time on the issue of applying for the exam.
The deadline for applying for the exam is approaching, but Wang Bogu's volunteer has not yet been filled, and his father has no choice but to take a step back;
He said, "You can go to art college if you want to, but you can't be an actor, and I won't agree to go to college." ”
Wang Bogu was very excited when she heard it, and she said that she obeyed her father's arrangement to report to the broadcasting department;
But what I thought in my heart was, "When I get to school, it's not up to me to decide what to learn." ”
In this way, Wang Bogu was successfully admitted to the Broadcasting Department of Chongqing University.
When she arrived at university, at first, she only attended classes in the acting department in her spare time;
Then she skipped class to study acting, and she spent 4 years in college in the acting department.
After graduating from college, she naturally entered the entertainment industry.
But at this time, the competition pressure in the entertainment industry is very high, and Wang Bogu's appearance and acting skills are not outstanding enough, so he can only play the role.
And with her love for acting, although Wang Bogu plays a passerby who has no role, she is still unwilling to give up.
Finally, things have finally taken a turn for the better.
When she was 25 years old, she starred in the TV series "Landing, Please Turn On".
In this play, she got acquainted with Haiqing, the star of this play.
The two have similar personalities and love acting, and soon became good friends who talk about everything.
And Haiqing admires Wang Bogu's professionalism very much, and feels that such a pearl should not be blinded.
Haiqing began to introduce Wang Bogu to the directors he was familiar with.
And Wang Bogu happened to be one chance away, and with the help of nobles, she got more opportunities to participate.
Her acting skills have also been recognized by big directors, and she has participated in hit dramas such as "Li Spring's Spring" and "Kintaro's Happy Life".
However, when her career was booming, she chose to quit the entertainment industry and began to be a full-time housewife.
Meet love
In 2012, when she was filming "Li Spring's Spring", she met Song Dandan's son Batu.
At this time, Batu relied on the fame of his mother Song Dandan to find a dispensable supporting role in the crew, and he was a typical "second generation star".
Not only does Batou seem to have no strengths, but he also feels that he can't fit in here, and he is silent all day long.
Gradually, Batu became a small transparent part of the crew and did not communicate with anyone.
Even when the meal crew distributes the meal, he is always the last to receive it.
Some people in the crew couldn't get used to Batu's relation, so they began to deliberately target him.
On one occasion they deliberately prepared one less meal, and the last Batu naturally did not receive it.
But Wang Bogu has a bold personality and can't get used to the style of those people in the crew, so he gave his meal to Batu and relieved Batu.
After that, the two got in touch, and when Wang Bogu communicated with Batu, he found that both of them liked to play games;
They started to stay together and play games when they weren't playing.
Batu already had a good impression of her because of Wang Bogu's rescue.
In the subsequent relationship, the two fell in love and came together naturally.
The two have been in love for a while, and their relationship has become sweeter and sweeter.
Batu discussed with Wang Bogu whether to tell Song Dandan about it.
Because Batu is a well-known "mom treasure man", he thinks that falling in love is a major event in life, and he must ask for his mother's consent;
But at the same time, he also knew his mother's personality, so he told Wang Bogu that he would go to find out the wind first.
It happened that Song Dandan urged Batu to quickly find a partner to let him hug his grandson.
Batu also took the opportunity to ask Song Dandan what he thought of Wang Bogu.
But his mother's attitude made him feel cold.
Song Dandan actually said, "That girl doesn't look simple, smoking, drinking, clubbing, she doesn't look like a good woman." ”
However, Batu really likes Wang Bogu and is unwilling to break up.
For the first time in his life, he had the idea of rebelling against his mother, and he and Wang Bogu also started an underground relationship.
Uniform strong mother-in-law
The two hid from Song Dandan and talked about underground love for a while, and their relationship became sweeter and sweeter;
At this time, Song Dandan, like the mother of an ordinary family, began to urge her son to find a partner.
Later, Song Dandan's idea of holding her grandson intensified, and she directly began to arrange a blind date for Batu.
This Batu couldn't bear it, and he said confidently in front of his mother that he was talking about a girlfriend now.
Song Dandan was very excited when she heard it, "What's that girl's name, who is it, what is the family doing?"
She began a series of soul tortures on Batu, and then shouted directly, asking Batu to ask the girl to come out and see for herself.
These words directly confused Batu, and he reacted for a while before stammering, "You know this girl." ”
Song Dandan was also stunned after hearing this, and began to ask who it was, and when he heard Batu say that it was Wang Bogu, he was even more angry;
Just say out loud "No, I don't agree." For Wang Bogu, Song Dandan did not have a good impression.
The girl was seven years older than her son, and she loved to smoke and drink, which was not something her son could handle;
"Does she really like Batu? ”
But in the face of his mother's strong opposition, Batu was uncharacteristically unwilling to break up.
Song Dandan saw his son who was obedient in the past, and began to disobey himself when he fell in love;
Her heart was even more angry, and she was determined to go and see Wang Bogu.
After the three of them met, between the three words, they did not change Song Dandan's opinion.
Then she said directly to the reporter during the interview, "Batu will get married in another ten years." ”
But not long after, Batu and Wang Bogu officially announced their marriage, and then Song Dandan was also full of praise when he mentioned Wang Bogu.
Netizens began to be confused, what is the operation of this family, and what means does this Wang Bogu have?
And the reason why Wang Bogu was able to "subdue" Song Dandan was not only by his own ability;
At the same time, it is also because Song Dandan himself is not a control freak.
In order to successfully get married, Wang Bogu also made a vow to Song Dandan to "hold the two in five years".
Song Dandan hugged Sun with a heartfelt heart, not to mention that her son's attitude was extremely resolute, she had no choice but to agree to this marriage.
And getting along after marriage made Song Dandan change his opinion of Wang Bogu and began to praise his daughter-in-law.
When she and her daughter-in-law Wang Bogu participated in the variety show "The Man Who Does Housework 4", she mentioned that netizens said that she was strong.
Song Dandan said that she was very aggrieved, she didn't understand why she would be scolded if she worked hard;
My generation is not like today's young people, they don't know how to do variety show effects.
But Wang Bogu said on the side, "Being strong is not a shortcoming, if you are not strong, how can this family operate." ”
This remark successfully amused Song Dandan, and said that his generation was too serious about what he did.
Wang Bogu said again, "This shows that you have a sense of responsibility, you don't have to take it to heart." ”
And Song Dandan was also praised by Wang Bogu with a smile, and said bluntly, "If you are looking for a daughter-in-law, you should look for this, and say that I am good every day." ”
Wang Bogu's high emotional intelligence is not limited to this, she often says good things about Batu to Song Dandan, praising her for raising her son well.
These words were praised directly to Song Dandan's heart.
Although Song Dandan always complains that Batu is useless, in fact, which mother doesn't want her child to be praised?
It can be seen that Song Dandan is not incomprehensible to Wang Bogu's change.
In addition to his high emotional intelligence, Wang Bogu is also quite business-minded.
When the live broadcast was just emerging, she began to bring goods with Batu live broadcast;
It only took half a year for the two to earn 36 million and successfully proved themselves to Song Dandan.
Now, Wang Bogu and Song Dandan are as close as mother and daughter, and the two often make Batu jealous, who is their biological child.
On April 2, 2022, Wang Bogu gave birth to a daughter, fulfilling his promise to have a second child.
Under Wang Bogu's careful management, the family has a good life.
epilogue
The relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law has been a major problem since ancient times;
Wang Bogu exchanged sincerity for sincerity and successfully won the approval of his mother-in-law.
And with such a daughter-in-law with high emotional intelligence and ability, which mother-in-law can find fault?
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Information sources:
[1] "Wang Bogu and Li Xiaolu Perform Alternative Sisters Tao, "Kintaro" is a hit"
[2] "Song Dandan will be a grandmother again! Batusha's family of three officially announced the safe birth of their second child"
[3] "The Man Who Does Housework" Season 4 Broadcasts