"Batu will marry in another ten years. "
This is the advice given by Ms. Song Dandan, whom we are familiar with, when she faced the media after hearing the news of her baby son Batu's love announcement. As a popular star who has worked hard in the entertainment industry for decades, Mrs. Song is well aware that many women approach their sons often for some ulterior motives. However, unexpectedly, soon after that, Batu tied the knot with his girlfriend Wang Bogu, who was by his side, and happily entered the marriage hall, and the two had a lovely baby. Talking about her daughter-in-law, Song Dandan changed her previous attitude and became more praising her.
This mysterious woman may be unfamiliar to the general audience, but in fact she is also an active member in the entertainment industry. She can be seen in well-known TV series such as "The Happy Life of the Golden Wolf" and "Please Turn on on the Ground", although she only plays a supporting role there. Although she has not made significant achievements in her career development, she has been ingenious and rewarding in handling family affairs. She successfully made Batu, who was once regarded as a "mom treasure man", obey her words, and changed Song Dandan's rejection and prejudice against her in a magical way.
So, in the past few years, what has this legendary woman done to win the respect and love of her family? What is the unique charm she has displayed? Beijing girl bravely challenges the entertainment industry! She was born in Beijing, and naturally has a strong Beijinger bold temperament, frank and straightforward, straightforward, straightforward, persistent in her own opinions, and not afraid of other people's comments. Therefore, since she was a child, she has been the best in the eyes of everyone, and almost never worries her parents.
However, at the critical moment of deciding the direction of her life, that is, the college entrance examination, she had a conceptual conflict with her parents. She loves performing arts and hopes to become a film and television actress, but her parents feel that the entertainment industry is too complicated for her to get involved too much. In the end, due to the persuasion of her parents, she had no choice but to enter the field of broadcasting and hosting, and reluctantly stepped into the passionate entertainment industry. Who would have thought that after entering the university, her love for acting was still the same, and she often went to the acting classroom next door to have "academic exchanges" with her classmates.
After graduating, she did not pursue a career in a related career according to the established plan, but took the initiative to submit cover letters to multiple crews. Because she was not a specially trained actor and had no background, her life during that period was quite difficult, but she knew that she could only see the rainbow after the storm. In this way, she started her own run-of-the-scenes life, and then finally got the opportunity to appear in "Landing, Please Turn On".
It was also this drama that made her get acquainted with the noble Haiqing spokesperson in her life, and through the guidance of the Haiqing spokesperson, she was able to meet the famous director Teng Huatao. At that time, the director was preparing to shoot "Wang Gui and Anna", and there was a role in which she had never been able to find an outstanding actress to play, and she was lucky enough to seize this once-in-a-lifetime opportunity. Although she has fewer scenes, she knows that this is the starting point for her dream to come true, so she goes all out and does not let up.
With her unremitting efforts, the director spoke highly of her performance, and then gradually increased the frequency of cooperation with her. They wrote such popular works as "Snail House" and "Look at This Family", but unfortunately, despite many years of acting with them, she has never been able to play the leading role in any of the dramas he directed.
As the blowout effect gradually emerged, she received more and more scripts, such as "Li Spring's Spring" and "The Happy Life of the Golden Wolf" and other popular films have her wonderful performances. Although she is not a starring role, with her excellent performance, she has gradually gained a place in the entertainment industry that is a household name. However, when her career was showing a steady upward trend, she suddenly announced that she was getting married and fading out of the screen, which was really surprising.
In 2013, when she accompanied her lover Batu to a friend's wedding, she never expected that suddenly her relationship would become the focus of attention.
Her boyfriend is Batu, the son of the famous actor Song Dandan, and in the face of public opinion pressure, it is inevitable that she will be a little troubled.
At that time, Batu's image and posture were not as perfect as people expected, and he was labeled as the second generation of stars. As a fourth-tier actress, she was able to attract attention by virtue of her relationship with Song Dandan.
Although this relationship was not optimistic at first, it was surprising that the two eventually entered the palace of marriage and lived happily after marriage. What a bold couple they are! It shows the fact that love cannot be defined by superficial labels.
This pair of couples who seem to be far apart, in fact, they have known each other during the filming of the TV series "Li Spring's Spring". Batu, who had just returned to China at that time, used his mother's connections to play an inconspicuous supporting role. And she is already a veteran in the entertainment industry, so in the crew, she takes a lot of care of him. Their encounter was like a play arranged by fate, everything was so natural.
I heard that the slightly wooden Batu at that time forgot to eat on time because she was too low-key in the crew, and she took the initiative to share the lunch she brought with her after seeing it. Since then, Batu has developed strange feelings for her.
Since the end of that cooperation, they have reunited in the crew of "The Happy Life of Golden Wolf", as if fate. With the previous "sharing lunch" incident, they re-established a deep friendship, and found that they had similar interests in the exchange, so they left each other's contact information. Then, they used the time they were waiting for the filming to play games together and gradually developed into a couple. The interaction between the two of them is so wonderful, it's like a touching love story playing out again in them.
Although they did not announce it publicly, during the filming, Song Dandan began to frequently urge them to get married. He had to reveal to his mother the fact that he already had a girlfriend, but was unexpectedly met with strong opposition.
First of all, Song Dandan couldn't accept that she was 7 years older than her son, and secondly, she felt that her son was not worthy of her. In order to avoid his mother's repeated urgings, he could only make his relationship public. I thought that this would make a difference, but it was met with even stronger opposition. As a result, there was a promise of "a wedding in ten years", but the reality was that they quickly entered the palace of marriage.
In the face of Song Dandan's dissatisfaction, she adhered to her own principles and used practical actions to maintain this relationship. At that time, Song Dandan was busy everywhere, and when it was difficult to have three meals, she prepared nourishing soup for her and delivered it to every staff member in the crew. At the same time, she also expressed her deep dedication and determination to Song Dandan many times, no matter how difficult and tortuous the road ahead is, she will never give up easily.
Seeing the girl in front of her paying so hard and believing in her son's true feelings for her, Song Dandan finally opened her heart and gave her blessings. In 2017, accompanied by relatives and friends, they walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand. After getting married, she chose to put down her career and regard having children as a new stage of her life.
As for her, who had been photographed smoking on the street before, this is exactly what makes Song Dandan unacceptable. However, love cannot be judged by superficial behavior, the feelings between them are real and deep, and Song Dandan finally realized this.
For the sake of the baby's health, she immediately wanted to quit the bad Xi of smoking, and sure enough, the effort paid off, and she successfully ushered in a new life for their family in the second year!
All of this is the crystallization of her hard work, mother-in-law Song Dandan can see that it is a happy blossom in her heart, and her love for her has also added a few more! Speaking of Batu, under her careful care, it is completely like a different person, not only is she no longer obsessed with playing games, but she is also very good at doing housework!
Whenever she took out Batu's excellent report card, she couldn't help but praise: "Look how wonderful your son has become now!" This sentence not only praised them, but also made her mother-in-law smile! Think about the past, although Batu was a baby in her eyes, but it was really unnoticed, and even his own father did not want to see him.
Now that she sees that her son has finally been appreciated by everyone, the joy in her heart is really indescribable, and this daughter-in-law is so conscientious to her children and mother-in-law, it is simply impeccable! Every time she comes home from work, she can always eat fragrant meals and warm smiles to greet her, and even the clothes for the change of seasons are also arranged for her.
When the couple was too busy, she also took the initiative to help take care of the children. Don't look at her usual grinning appearance, in fact, her EQ is very high~ I remember that Song Dandan participated in a variety show at that time, because she was a little arrogant and domineering, which caused a lot of doubts, saying that she seemed to be too domineering!
She didn't take it to heart, but asked her daughter-in-law for experience, and she directly retorted: "If you are not generous, how can you take the baby by yourself?" and then continued: "Is being strong a bad thing?"
On weekends, she reminds everyone not to forget to celebrate the holidays for her mother-in-law. Who doesn't love such a considerate daughter-in-law! Celebrity Fu Seoul expressed envy: "It's really jealous to have such a harmonious relationship between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law!" She is as close to Song Dandan as she is to her own sister. The second child came, and she held her belly to add Ding to the family, due to long-term overwork, her physical condition declined, so she told Batu to take good care of his wife.
When she had just given birth, she had no breast milk due to her physical illness, and her own mother saw this scene and said in a hurry: "It's good to drink milk powder." Without waiting for her mother to finish speaking, her mother-in-law Song Dandan immediately interjected: "Oh, it's okay to grow up with milk powder." Later, he also took the initiative to help her book the most luxurious confinement center, so that she could have confinement with peace of mind. It is a great blessing to have such a caring mother-in-law! This debt of affection is engraved in her heart and never forgotten.
Now they get along with each other as closely as their own sisters. In the past, when they first started to engage in online live broadcasting, their mother-in-law gave them selfless support. Now, Song Dandan, who has retired from work, is living a happy life like an old age, and is often photographed going out with his grandson on his back. With love for her mother-in-law, she tried not to let her mother-in-law be idle, pulling her in and out of various stores, buying brand-name fashion to satisfy her shopping desire.
Under her careful management, the whole family life is harmonious and happy, and even Fu Seoul can't help but sigh: "This pair of mother-in-law and daughter-in-law is simply a model for us to learn Xi!" Now, they have become a model mother-in-law and daughter-in-law in the hearts of everyone, among them, the mother-in-law and daughter-in-law are indispensable to work together. See here at the end: Since ancient times, the "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law relationship" has always been a headache, but I believe in the truth of "do not do to others what you do not want to be done to yourself".
In order to live in harmony with her mother-in-law, she exchanged her sincerity for sincerity, and her mother-in-law was willing to open her heart to accept her daughter-in-law in order to love her son. Come to think of it, everything these two ladies did was for the sake of this family, and it was so admirable!Ah, Batuu, how blessed are you to have these two ladies who are willing to do for you!