1. Causes of conflict: The conflict intensified after the clouds and rain
For 26 years, Yingda has always maintained a ruthless attitude towards his ex-wife Song Dandan and son Batu, turning a blind eye to their lives. However, when he was more than half a hundred years old, he suddenly wanted to re-enter Batu's life, and used this as an excuse to ask to see his grandson.
At this moment, Song Dandan couldn't help but tremble, and her heart was full of complicated emotions.
She remembered the painful experience when Yingda left her many years ago, and tears instantly welled up in her heart. At one time, Indah was her beloved, and at the same time Batuu's father. But he personally tore this originally warm and happy family to pieces.
After the divorce, Indah showed extreme indifference to Batu, and even ignored her young son's call to seek affection. Even when Batu's grandfather died, he failed to give his children one last chance to see each other.
Now, time flies, and Yingda has made an unreasonable request to visit his grandson in a loving father's manner. Song Dandan was extremely angry about this, and still couldn't let go of Yingda's past hurt.
She resolutely refused: "As a father, you have never fulfilled your due responsibilities, so what qualifications do you have to visit your grandson now?" After saying that, he resolutely hung up the phone.
A ruthless father who turned a blind eye to his young son back then is now trying to interfere in his daughter-in-law's life as a father, which is simply a great mockery of human nature! Song Dandan is well aware of Yingda's dark side, so he will never allow him to hurt Batu's family again.
She is determined to cut off this painful memory and prevent the old wounds from being uncovered again.
2. Reminiscences of the past: love continues on the road to rupture
The story begins a long, long time ago. Sometime in 1987, drama actor Song Dandan met a trainee director named Yingda during the filming of a new drama.
When Yingda first met Song Dandan, she was deeply attracted by the unique charm she exuded. Song Dandan not only has outstanding acting talent, but also always maintains a firm belief in work, these excellent qualities make Yingda fall for it.
So, Yingda did not hesitate to launch a fierce love offensive against Song Dandan.
In the face of Yingda's fiery feelings like a storm, Song Dandan was also impressed by his focus and passion. Her cheerful and generous personality allows her to accept Yingda's love without scruples, and the two quickly fall into a fiery romance.
Soon, they walked hand in hand into the temple of marriage, and the newlyweds were shrouded in the glow of happiness. In 1990, Song Dandan gave birth to a lively and lovely baby boy for Yingda, and they gave this young life the name - Batu.
This should have been a happy family of three.
However, the good times are always short-lived. As her career flourished, Yingda gradually shifted her focus to work, and her concern for her wife and children became less and less. Song Dandan, on the other hand, not only needs to face heavy work pressure, but also needs to take on the responsibility of raising young children alone, and she is tired every day.
At this critical moment, Yingda ushered in the opportunity to direct and write his own script. originally thought that Song Dandan would not hesitate to give support, but she not only went all out, but even took the initiative to take on the heavy responsibility of housework.
However, during the filming of this TV series, Yingda fell into an immoral love affair with screenwriter Liang Huan.
When Song Dandan accidentally learned of this affair, she suffered the heaviest blow in her life. She resolutely chose to divorce and end this painful marriage. Indah agreed without hesitation, as this was exactly what he was hoping for.
In this way, a family that was once full of joy was shattered and disintegrated in an instant.
3. Two little guesses: mother and son go through difficult years together
Since then, Song Dandan took the young Batu and took on the responsibility of the whole family alone. The pressures of life forced her to put aside her career for a while and devote herself to taking care of her son.
Life during that time was extremely difficult. Getting up early every day and working hard to take care of housework, Song Dandan has never had a moment of rest. She has to prepare three meals on her own, do laundry and cook, and keep an eye on Batu's daily life.
Sometimes she is so tired that she can't help but cry in front of Batu, but every time Batu calls "Mom", she will hold back her tears, smile, and bury all the bitterness in her heart.
She understands that she is Batu's only support at this moment, and she must not let her son see her vulnerability. Therefore, she did her best to create a warm family environment for her son, taking care of Batu's daily life, even when she was exhausted.
However, compared to Chen Sicheng, Batu's fate is obviously much more bumpy. Since he was a child, he has been gradually estranged from his biological father, and the endless fear and loneliness in his heart have always tormented him. He would even call Yingda regularly, hoping to get a hint of attention from his father, but every time he was full of enthusiasm, he was met with endless disappointment.
Not only did Indah never respond to Batu's closeness, but what is even more embarrassing is that when Batu's grandfather died, he did not immediately inform Batu, who was his grandson. This callousness from his biological father is undoubtedly a fatal blow to a young child.
Since then, Batu seems to have completely despaired, and no longer has the luxury of expecting a little bit of love from Indah.
Thankfully, Batu is not alone. Song Dandan is like a warm beam of sunshine, always soothing her son's wounded heart in the name of maternal love. She encouraged Batu to pursue his dreams and fully supported him to thrive in his passion.
Under the care of his mother, Batu gradually stepped out of the shadows and regained his confidence and courage in life. In this way, the mother and son support each other and face the challenges of life together.
Fourth, the other side of Yingda: darling and indifference
At the same time, Yingda's life has also undergone earth-shaking changes. Soon after he and Liang Huan got married, Liang Huan gave birth to the crystallization of their love - a lively and lovely baby boy, and they named him Ying Rudi.
From that moment on, Indah seemed to pour all her affection into the newborn baby. He did not hesitate to spend a lot of money and invest countless hours to carefully create a carefree growth environment, just to let Ying Rudi grow up healthy and happy.
No matter how trivial the hobby is, Yingda will not hesitate to fully support and invest. Once, Ying Rudi became interested in ice hockey, and Yingda immediately took action and hired the most senior coach for him to carefully guide his training.
Sure enough, under the careful cultivation of Yingda, Ying Rudi quickly emerged in ice hockey and won many good results in various competitions.
Whenever Ying Rudi stands on the podium, Yingda will always be full of pride and pride, as if his son's success is his own glory. Once, Ying Rudi needed to go overseas to receive high-intensity training, and Yingda personally accompanied her, showing meticulous care for her son.
However, on the contrary, Yingda treats his son Batu, who was born to his ex-wife Song Dandan, extremely indifferent and ruthless. Over the years, Batu has repeatedly tried to take the initiative to establish contact with his father, longing for even the slightest care and love, but without exception, he has been coldly rejected by Indah every time.
For a young child, such an experience of being completely ignored by his father, coupled with Yingda's silence when his grandfather died, was undoubtedly a heavy blow.
However, Yingda didn't care about this, and all his favor was poured into Ying Rudi alone, and he ignored Batu.
This stark double standard in the role of a father is laughable. On the one hand, it is excessive spoiling, and on the other hand, it is a ruthless snub to his own flesh and blood, how does Yingda understand and interpret the word "father"? His behavior undoubtedly exacerbated the shadow in Batu's heart.
Fifth, the dawn of life has come again
Just when Song Dandan and Batu felt the cruelty of fate and their future was bleak, a ray of hope illuminated their lives.
One day, a friend introduced a man to Song Dandan - Zhao Yuji. Zhao Yuji is not only handsome and chic, but more importantly, he is kind and gentle, considerate, which makes people feel warm.
Soon after, Zhao Yuji won the mutual affection of Song Dandan and Batu.
At first, Song Dandan still had some worries in her heart, worried that it would be difficult for Batu to accept a new father. However, to her surprise, instead of objecting, Batu actively supported Song Dandan to pursue his own happiness.
Seeing his son so mature and sensible, Song Dandan couldn't help but feel a sour feeling in his heart.
With Batu's full support, Song Dandan finally strengthened his confidence and walked into the palace of marriage hand in hand with Zhao Yuji. What makes Song Dandan very pleased is that Zhao Yuji's wholehearted love for her and his attitude towards Batu as his own make up for Batu's lack of fatherly love over the years.
Batu also quickly regarded Zhao Yuji as his biological father, and the relationship between the two was close. Zhao Yuji's love for Batu is as meticulous as his own son, and he heals the psychological wounds of this child who has been hurt with patience and love.
The great thing is that Mr. Batu himself has finally ushered in his new little family. His wife gave birth to two energetic and charming boys for him, and the family of five was filled with endless happiness.
While witnessing the happy life of her sons, Ms. Song Dandan felt deep comfort and relief in her heart. The family was finally able to leave the dark years behind and embrace a new and beautiful future.
However, just when Ms. Song Dandan's family of three was immersed in a long-lost happy time, Mr. Yingda's unreasonable and extremely selfish phone call ruthlessly broke this quiet harmony.
When she heard Mr. Yingda on the other end of the phone righteously asking to see her grandson, Ms. Song Dandan couldn't help but be angry.
The most precious thing for a person is his own dignity, and Mr. Yingda has long since abandoned it. As an adult, we should respect our actions and take responsibility for what we do, which is the greatest punishment of fate.
Now, regaining that deep fatherly love has become an extremely difficult struggle, and it is destined to be a futile endeavor.