It is said that children are the heart meat of their parents, but some children are the heart meat, carefully cared for by their parents and raised; some are abandoned by their fathers and rejected by their mothers. In The process of Batuu's upbringing, his family life belongs to the latter state, although there is a father and a mother, but he has never received the love from his father.
Batuu is the eldest son of Indah, and after divorcing Song Dandan, Indah married twice and had a new family. His third wife, Liang Huan, gave birth to a lovely son named YingRudi. Since then, Yingrudi has become the key object of Indah's love, and Indah seems to have forgotten that she also has a son, Batu.
For this young son, Indah is full of love and pride, and has revealed his love for Yingrudi many times in interviews, and has also said that he especially hopes that when others call him, he uses the way of "this is Yingrudi's father", because it will make him feel honored.
In the early interviews, Indah was also like an ordinary person, proud of the achievements of Yingrudi, and showed off everywhere. He also specifically mentioned Yingrudi's annual salary, which is an extraordinary pride inside and out.
Yingda loves his second son, rarely mentions Batuu in public, and only talks about one or two sentences when others take the initiative to ask, which shows that the father and son usually communicate very little in private. And what is Song Dandan's attitude toward Batuu? In "Longing for Life", Song Dandan is very disgusted with Batu na.
As soon as Song Dandan arrived at the mushroom house, he began to complain about his son, first calling himself a "waste" and hating Batuu for being useless. Then he said in public about Batuu's childhood, saying that when he attended Batu's parent-teacher conference, he didn't smile very happily. So many complaints, even He Jiong and Huang Lei laughed helplessly after listening to it.
Of course, Xiao 8 believes that Song Dandan's anger against his son will never be because of the real heartfelt disgust, although her words are very unpleasant, but the audience also knows that the depth of love will be responsible. Song Dandan knows his son very well, so he will have so many words to complain about. But think about it carefully, if a child grows up and gets so much dissatisfaction from his mother, even if he doesn't show it on his face, will he feel sad in his heart?
The same child, Yingda held Yingru di into a baby, and was afraid to melt in his mouth; on the other hand, Batuu, who was not valued by his biological father since childhood, was also disliked by his mother all day long. It can only be said that the same father has no life, and the growth environment of the two children is too different! In fact, Indah's attitude towards the two sons is still traceable.
As we all know, Batu's father is the famous director Yingda, the full name is Herschel Indah, a small partner who has accumulated good literary knowledge, and when he hears this surname, he knows that it is not ordinary, that is, a famous Manchu Nobleman. When Batuu and the famous actor Song Dandan got married, they also had a sensation, a famous family, a good and beautiful person, completely talented and beautiful.
But the good times are not long, how sweet it used to be, how undignified the subsequent pulling, Yingda and Song Dandan divorced after only 8 years of marriage, the reason is still because Song Dandan personally admitted that he had an affair. It can be imagined that this will be a big blow to a man, there are love houses and Wu, presumably there are also hate houses and Wu, for the children born to Song Dandan, Yingda will inevitably feel less amiable.
Before that, Song Dandan personally admitted to the affair. Later, there was a scandal between Yingda and Liang Huan, who was working together at the same time, and it was reported that Yingda was deeply attracted by the talented Liang Huan, and finally Song Dandan tried his best to divorce, and Yingda also entered the marriage hall with Liang Huan.
For the different attitudes of his two biological sons, No matter how much Yingda did not admit it, the eyes of the masses were also shining. Indah once said on the show that when Batuu was born, he had not yet changed his thinking, and suddenly became a father to catch him off guard, so he did not give Batuu the love he deserved. After the birth of her second son, Indah said, "I'm going to make it all up."
Speaking of doing it, Yingda has since gone farther and farther on the eccentric road. Indah ignored Batuu and ignored them. And for Yingrudi, Yingda is proud of him, personally cultivated, took him to the interest class, cultivated his interest in playing the piano and playing ice hockey, and also took him to the show to show father-son love.
Such a wave of differential treatment of the operation, song Dandan directly hung out on the social platform, Song Dandan angrily scolded Yingda "you are not human". If it weren't for Song Dandan, where would everyone know that such a father who took good care of Ying Rudi was so desperate in the face of his eldest son. Batuu begged Indah to take him out once and ignored it, and when he wanted to call, he was ruthless to the extreme.
If a person drinks cold and warm water, he knows how Batuu feels when he faces his father, and only he knows it. For a long time, Batuu has been compared with his younger brother YingruDi, whether it is the appearance or ability of the two, it is a topic of discussion. Batuu looks very similar to Yingda, the face shape and body shape are particularly similar, it is not an exaggeration to say that it is carved out of a mold, a thick look, and does not receive the beauty of Song Dandan when he was young.
Looking at Yingru Dysprosium again, she is handsome a lot, and her facial features are small and exquisite, which is not very similar to the roughness of her father Yingda. If Batuu's appearance is "desert smoke", then yingrudi's appearance is more "small bridge flowing water", which should be inherited from the mother's good appearance.
And Yingru Dysprosium as an athlete, often fitness he also maintains a very good figure, muscle bursting, posture is straight and stylish, very powerful, whether wearing formal wear or sportswear, very handsome. Strength plus appearance, Xiao 8 feels that many netizens have been powdered by the Dysprosium Circle now.
The father's grace and resentment, living in an unhappy original family, although it has a certain impact on Batu's growth, fortunately, Song Dandan's love for him is not less than half a point. Batuu, who is now 31 years old, although he is mixed in the film and television circle, he has a happy little family that really belongs to him, accompanied by a virtuous and gentle wife, and his life is also very comfortable.
Batu's wife, Wang Bogu, recently shared her daily life on social media, and Batuu accompanied her to go to the maternity examination. Everyone knows that Batu, who has been low-key for a long time over the years and has not appeared in the public's vision, originally wanted to usher in his second child, which is really very happy!
On the other hand, Ying Rudi is also working hard to realize his dream from childhood to adulthood, play in the Winter Olympics, and actively win glory for the country. Yingda has always been proud of Yingrudi, because of the young Yingrudi, has become a national ice hockey player and is also qualified as the captain of the ice hockey team. Now at the age of 24, he is proud to represent his country.
Not long ago, when Ying rudi live broadcast was interviewed by the media, she also generously answered the relationship with her brother Batuu. Yingrudi revealed that she usually has no contact with Batuu, and also hopes that her brother can take the initiative to contact her. Yingrudi is looking forward to the scene of brotherhood and brotherhood, and it is not known what choice Batuu will make.
Now that Ying Rudi has infinite scenery, in comparison, Batuu seems to be much darker than his brother. But no matter what, no matter what kind of lifestyle you choose, there is no good or bad. Little 8 also wishes Batuu and Yingrudi more and more happiness in their future lives!