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Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

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Song Xin is the president of the Shaanxi Mental Health Education Research Association, the forerunner, explorer and practitioner of psychological public welfare activities in China and Shaanxi, and over the past 20 years, President Song Xin has led her team to go deep into nursing homes and children's villages, doing countless good deeds and giving countless loves. Committed to the development of mental health, he has built eight mental health love bases in Shaanxi, led a solid team of love, erected a monument to mental health on the land of Sanqin, and successively written and published 4 books, including "Sowing the Seeds of Love - A Hundred Letters to Children in Children's Villages" and "Walking the Hearts of Children's Hearts", "Children's Mental Education Textbooks for Children in Children's Villages".

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

In the past 20 years, Song Xin and her team have created the "Song Xin-style Mass Practical Psychology Education Model", established the "National Song Xin Psychological Public Welfare Love Joint Association", and strived to promote the teaching of adolescent sunshine psychology to Jiangxi, Yunnan, Hunan, Hubei, Hebei, Henan and other places, and radiated the "Song Xin Psychological Public Welfare Teaching Model" to the whole country, benefiting more children in urgent need of assistance and care, winning the attention of all sectors of society and casting a bright brand of national mental health education. She has won the Silver Award of China Charity Project, "Excellent Social Organization Worker" of the All-China Federation of Social Sciences, "Chinese Public Welfare Figure", "Shaanxi Charity Ambassador", "Shaanxi Most Beautiful Volunteer" and other titles.

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

President Song Xin's "Youth Life Motto" integrates inspirational education, self-confidence education, gratitude education, truth, goodness and beauty education, and is the spiritual food soul mate of teenagers! President Song Xin's "Youth Life Motto" is precisely positioned to meet the needs:

1. Pay attention to research, derived from practice.

President Song Xin pays attention to investigation and research, everything starts from reality, and the connection between theory and practice is inseparably linked.

2. Grasp the pain points and accurately locate them

President Song Xin put himself in the shoes of the cared for object of thinking mode, found their real pain points, and then take this as the starting point to work hard to solve the problem, which requires a strong analytical ability, the use of a large number of data analysis, according to these to find a lot of real needs of the cared for the object of pain points.

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

3. Use skills skillfully to meet the needs

Grasp the psychological status and causes of left-behind children, and find effective educational countermeasures and psychological counseling countermeasures for the psychology of left-behind children.

The teaching model makes clever use of psychological laws and cleverly uses the Rosenthal effect.

President Song Xin is full of praise, trust and expectation for the educational objects, and maintains the self-esteem and self-confidence of students in the education work, and uses more encouragement and praise.

The idea of permeating the Hawthorne effect.

President Song Xin made the helpers feel that they were always cared for, and this feeling of being noticed made them redouble their efforts to study to prove that they were excellent and worthy of attention.

Incorporates the essence of the butterfly effect

Doped with the core of the labeling effect

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

President Song Xin let the cared for objects label themselves, taking the educational achievements "Youth Life Motto" that President Song has been studying for more than 20 years as an example, "No one can stop the growth of my healthy life, I must be the master of my life, I love myself the most", which highlights the sunshine, self-confidence and health, gives children positive energy, and educates children to establish a correct outlook on life, aesthetics and values from an early age.

On November 25, 2021, I received a phone call from Teacher Song, and a kind and gentle voice came from the other end of the phone, a few simple exchanges, probably meaning, I understand, is to establish a mental health education base for students in our school! It's really great! But at that time, I was also a little afraid, worried that I would not be able to do this very important thing, but Teacher Song encouraged me and said: It's okay, I will teach you! It gave me great encouragement and confidence! At that time, our school's winter "three jumps" sports meeting was in full swing! Since I was the chief referee, I was so busy that I was hoarse! A phone call from Teacher Song gave me great encouragement for the work of the referee at that time! The wonderful moments of the teaching work of "Song Mama's Sunshine Mental Health" in less than two months are summarized as follows:

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

On November 26, 2021, at the first time I received the "Youth Life Motto" mailed by Song's mother, I found a colleague to help me record a video of me reading aloud with the children and sent it to Teacher Song! And a postscript like this:

Dear Mother Song, Hello!

The sixth class of the third grade of Cai Jiapo No. 2 Primary School in Qishan County, Baoji City, is reciting Song Xin's mother's "Youth Life Motto"

May our children, confidence and optimism coexist! Brave and ideal walking! Plug in your wings for your dreams! Goofy, kids.........

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

Dear President Song,

Recently, the pace of work is really relatively tight, and now I can finally calm down and seriously take the children to recite Song Mom's "Teenage Life Motto" together, since contacting "Life Motto", whenever I recite it with children, I feel that I am one of the children, this sunny psychological education model not only warms my children, but also inspires me as a big child! It has brought unlimited motivation and positive energy to my work and life, and I am also the mother of two babies, which has pointed out the direction for me to educate my children!!! Thank you!

Yesterday, between work, I listened to your evaluation of my new and fledgling mental health education work in the Shaanxi Psychological Research Publicity Group, and what I want to say here is thanks: Thank you dear Teacher Song, your trust! Thank you to all the seniors in the lovely working group for encouraging me! Thank you dear Principal Gao Xiaoxia for your trust and encouragement!

Thank you...

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

Yesterday, our principal promoted your "Youth Life Motto" to the whole school 1830 students, and this morning listening to the whole school children confidently and loudly reciting your motto, I immediately felt your and our principal's great love for the children, and praised your big pattern and love!

I hope more children will find courage in "Teen Life Motto"! Find self-confidence.

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

Hello Mother Song:

Through the recitation of this time, I found that before the timid little girl took the initiative to help other students in the class, I felt that the children had made great progress, thanks to the "Youth Life Motto" written by Mother Song, it was you who brought the children a more confident and sunny self! Thank you to Mother Song for giving me appreciation and encouragement every day, and for praising my children. Thank you to our Principal Gao Xiaoxia for attaching importance to the children's sunshine psychological education!

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

Through this time, I led the children to recite Song Mother's "Youth Life Motto", I feel that the children have made great progress, and more students have memorized the "Youth Life Motto" Due to the recent epidemic tension, children wear masks to recite, the momentum has weakened, I hope That Teacher Song will understand!

Thank you for the "Teenage Life Motto" written by Mother Song, you have brought more confidence and sunshine to the children!!

Recently, the epidemic situation in Xi'an is tense, Mother Song, you and your family should pay attention to prevention...

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

Dear Teacher Song,

Hello.

First of all, I will review it with you first, and in order to grasp the children's learning, I will relax a little in the collective recitation of the class! We also hope you understand...

Yesterday, after the school held a summary meeting, I did a simple mental health report to our principal, and I said to her: The children in our class are full of mental state in the later stages, the children are full of confidence, and this time our class test results are also among the best, which is inseparable from the children's daily insistence on reciting Mother Song's "Teenage Life Motto"! "Teen Life Motto" has brought great confidence to me and the children, subtly inspired me and the children to move forward, and gave me and the children the strength to go up!!!

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

The teenage life motto written by Song Xin's mother lifts the fog of children's hearts, sows the seeds of health, sunshine and self-confidence into the hearts of each child, lays the foundation for the children's happy life, and lifts the children's happy life! Thanks to Song Xin's mother's teenage life motto, it is motivating education and inspirational education, self-confidence education, gratitude education, truth, goodness and beauty education as one, to shape children, healthy, sunny, confident mind as the core, to guide children to face reality more optimistically, happy learning, healthy growth. As we all know, self-confidence is an important psychological quality, which is very important for the happiness of a person's life. Self-confidence inspires our life force! Self-confidence makes us optimistic, open-minded and wise! Self-confidence will make us have a happy life, academic success, and a smooth career! Self-confidence is the brightest undertone of our happy life.

Baoji Cai Dan: The "Aphorisms of Adolescent Life" written by Song Xin's mother to break through the fog of children's hearts

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