1. All the reasons are because of the choice at the beginning, and fate takes a sharp turn at this moment!
Zhang Bichen works hard every day, taking on the heavy responsibility of housework alone, and also shouldering the responsibility of taking care of his four-year-old daughter. Her thin body and tired face speak of the countless hardships and struggles that this great mother has experienced.
On the other hand, Hua Chenyu is now living a lonely life, seemingly indifferent to the existence of his daughter, without the slightest consciousness that a loving father should have.
However, back in time to 2017, they were close friends and friends who shared weal and woe. That year, Zhang Bichen and Hua Chenyu got acquainted because they participated in the variety show "Travel the World".
From the beginning of talking about everything, it gradually developed into an ambiguous "underground couple", although the two tried their best to hide, but the sweet expressions and ambiguous actions could not be concealed after all, they wore the same style of rings, used the same daily necessities and other details were captured by the outside world.
At that time, who would have predicted that this pair of lovers, who once depended on each other, would now embark on a completely different path of fate. One raises his children alone in a difficult situation, and the other swims in a sea of flowers, carefree; The worlds of different life trajectories were made by that decisive choice that completely changed their future destiny.
2. Background shapes character, and differences in values lead to the reversal of fate!
Perhaps, the great contrast in their fates today stems from the huge difference in their backgrounds and growth environments. Born into a wealthy and warm family, Zhang Bichen was endlessly pampered by her parents since she was a child, and grew up in a carefree environment, so she has a cheerful, optimistic and empathetic personality.
However, Hua Chenyu's family environment is far less perfect than Zhang Bichen's. He lost the love of his parents since he was a child, and grew up alone in the shadow of his parents' divorce and reorganized family, which made him become withdrawn and rebellious, and his feelings were picky and impermanent, which was difficult to last.
This difference in values originating from the family environment is undoubtedly doomed to the fact that they will not be able to come together in the end. Zhang Bichen is dedicated to pursuing career success and is eager to build a happy family; And Hua Chenyu is always hesitant about feelings, and he is also full of anxiety and confusion about his career.
On the long road of pursuing the dream of music, Zhang Bichen and Hua Chenyu, two musical talents, have embarked on different journeys. In order to realize the ideal in his heart, Zhang Bichen did not hesitate to cross the ocean to South Korea, and endured endless hardships as a trainee in that strange country; And Hua Chenyu became famous through an influential talent show, shining like a star, and his career quickly climbed to the peak.
However, the world at that time seemed to be moved, and they regarded these two as a natural pair, who would have thought that the ending of the story was full of unexpected twists! .
It is often said that people in the world often only see the glory behind the brilliant achievements of stars, but never think about the terrible price they have to pay for it. It is precisely because of the huge disparity in their growth environment that Zhang Bichen and Hua Chenyu have completely different pursuits in career and love concepts, which precisely constitutes the fundamental reason for the breakdown of their relationship today.
3. Unplanned pregnancy and the pain of breaking up
Just when Zhang Bichen and Hua Chenyu's careers were in full swing and Wings was blooming, a shocking news came like a thunderbolt in the clear sky - Zhang Bichen was pregnant! Faced with this sudden surprise, she is full of joy and eager to share this joy with her beloved.
However, Hua Chenyu took the lead in expressing her determination to break up, which undoubtedly brought a heavy blow to Zhang Bichen, like a hammer that shattered her hopes.
In the face of this sudden huge impact, Zhang Bichen fell into extreme pain and confusion for a while. She huddled alone in the corner of the room, tears pouring out like a burst flood, tears of grief in despair.
What else could she say? In the end, she could only go to the United States alone and gave birth to this little life after a lot of hardships.
At that time, Zhang Bichen was full of hesitation and helplessness, but at the same time, he also showed incomparable strength and courage. As a soon-to-be mother, her only wish is to give this child the most selfless maternal love.
Therefore, she gave everything she could, and finally gave birth to the child without any problems, although she was physically and mentally exhausted.
And Hua Chenyu's decision undoubtedly deeply hurt Zhang Bichen's self-esteem to some extent. For a woman who once loved him dearly, she must bear the burden of life alone and face the fate of becoming a single mother.
Afterwards, although Hua Chenyu expressed his willingness to raise the child together, his words and deeds seemed a little perfunctory, and he didn't seem to really care about his daughter's growth.
This unexpected break undoubtedly determines the future life path of the two protagonists, which is like an insurmountable gap. On one side, tears rippled, and resolutely shouldered the heavy responsibility of the family; The other party is too rash and decisive, and the two completely different mentalities are enough to indicate that their lives will move in two directions.
Fourth, the incident was revealed, and the crowd ridicule came like a tide
When this news was made public, it immediately ignited a huge wave of discussion on the Internet, and people's eyes focused on Zhang Bichen alone. Many netizens have raised thoughtful and terrifying questions about the motives of her actions, and some even maliciously speculated that she secretly gave birth to the child for financial interests, in an attempt to establish a deeper connection with Hua Chenyu, with sinister intentions.
What's more, he even spread rumors to question that this child is not Hua Chenyu's biological flesh and blood.
In the face of such overwhelming slander and insults, Zhang Bichen seemed isolated and at a loss. In order to calm down the turmoil and prove her innocence, she could only reluctantly publish a photo of herself after giving birth.
In the photo, Zhang Bichen is thin and pale, as if to show the world what a heavy price she has paid for this child, and the greatness and bitterness of a mother giving birth to a child are fully displayed.
However, the voice of the group of ridicule did not stop, and the skeptical eyes still followed. There are even fanatical fans of Hua Chenyu who directly attacked him, accusing Zhang Bichen of "calculating" his idol and having bad intentions.
They hate Zhang Bichen to the core, but no one can understand the difficulty of a mother making a choice in loneliness.
Fifth, the love history turmoil, the prodigal son's career
Behind all these complicated events, as the other half of the parties, Hua Chenyu failed to stand up for Zhang Bichen and the children and wash away their grievances.
On the contrary, his own love history turmoil is endless, which is quite a bit of a prodigal son's return.
Looking back on Hua Chenyu's emotional journey since his debut, it is not difficult to find that he has always been picky and ruthless in his treatment of feelings. Long before he became famous, he had an affair with Wan Fujia, the pianist in his band, and the relationship between the two can be described as close.
However, this sudden love affair did not last long after all.
Later, during the recording of the popular variety show "Flowers and Youth", Hua Chenyu and Xu Qing became very close, and the two were even hinted at as "soul mates" by the program team.
Despite the age difference, their intimate interactions and eye contact can still be seen on the show.
Even in those days of "secret romance" with Zhang Bichen, Hua Chenyu was also revealed to have an ambiguous relationship with Deng Ziqi. Looking back on this series of complex and changeable emotional journeys, it is not difficult to find that his way of dealing with feelings is too casual, and he cannot fully give sincere emotions to anyone.
In this special period, Zhang Bichen, who was far away, burst into tears and went to the United States alone with hard work, making unremitting efforts to give birth to a new life; However, Hua Chenyu didn't know anything about it, and was still immersed in the life of an idol, living a dissolute life, without the slightest sense of distress.
As the protagonist of the incident, his performance is really laughable.
When Zhang Bichen faced difficulties alone in a foreign country, Hua Chenyu's good times continued, and the circumstances of the two could be described as worlds apart, which shows the depth of the contradictions between them.
Looking back now, I can't help but feel the uncertainty of fate. All of this stems from the huge difference in the backgrounds of the two, which is destined to divide between them. Although Zhang Bichen suffered emotional setbacks, she received the most precious gift in her life - a lovely daughter; In contrast, although Hua Chenyu has achieved something in his career, he still lingers among the flowers and lives a free life, and does not seem to have learned anything from the loss of this beautiful relationship.
As time passes, the pain and doubts of the breakup gradually dissipate, and the truth will eventually surface. And the mother, who has gone through a lot of hardships, is undoubtedly the ultimate winner in this game.
With courage and perseverance, she won the supreme happiness.