There is a kind of embarrassment called "poor generations", and it is easy to make embarrassment without looking at age. When I brushed the video, I saw a beautiful woman saying to the screen: "Every time I go to this New Year's Greeting, there will be a problem that bothers me very much, and I have to meet a very young uncle on the first day of the New Year." How young is he? It's that I try to give birth to him. ”
The comments section was in an uproar, and everyone thought it was funny. A big beauty wants to give a "little no" New Year's greeting, but also to call the uncle, to say hello to the uncle. If you think about it, this face must be very funny.
More netizens said: "I also have a grandfather who went to kindergarten", "My uncle was born yesterday, and I really took it", "My aunt is urinating", "I have an uncle who is only five months old, I am his niece, and I have to change my uncle's diapers." ”
The "generational difference" is too big, and it is inevitable that there will be various inconveniences. In addition to the fact that greetings during the New Year's Festival can be uncomfortable, even daily life may make jokes.
The niece went to the kindergarten to pick up her uncle, but was treated as a child's mother by the security guard. This is true, when our colleagues had dinner, Xiao Liu talked about it, saying that she went to help pick up the baby, but the baby's generation is old, and she has to call the baby "uncle". As a result, because it was the first time to pick up the baby in the kindergarten, the kindergarten security guard did not know and did not let in.
Later, the children all came out to stand in line, and the little one was far away and shouted: "Niece! This scream was very embarrassing, and even the security guard laughed and said happily: "According to the age, I thought you were the mother of the child!" Just wait for the child to come out and recognize it! It turns out you're her niece, and you're too young. ”
Adults are small, but children are older, which is really embarrassing. So, why is there a phenomenon of "poor generations", and what is going on?
The difference in generations mainly refers to the unequal order of lineage between families and relatives. In other words, people with high generations are not necessarily old, and may still be just a small child. "Generational difference" is particularly large, which means that the name of the generation gap is large, not referring to the age difference between the two people. Some people with large generational differences, the age difference is only a few years, and some are a lot worse, different.
However, in any case, it is not a good thing that the "generation gap" is too large, which has a great impact on children.
The child is embarrassed and confused
Children always look forward to growing up quickly, but if they really give their children a level of promotion, their children may not be able to live very comfortably! An adult who is much older than the child, in turn, respectfully greets the child, and the child will also have a sense of confusion and embarrassment.
The child is proud and arrogant to show off
Of course, there are also some individual children who regard the adult's name for his generation as a manifestation of their own "very powerful", think that they are particularly powerful, and are proud and complacent about it. In this way, children are prone to become disrespectful, disorganized, and easy to be rude when interacting with other adults.
Of course, there are also some children who are older and more passive. In terms of etiquette and generation, there may be a little ignorance. The child probably does not know why other adults should respect him and call him a senior. Even, some children do not know how to deal with such a scene, completely dizzy, the performance is very helpless.
So, what should be done if the child is "older"?
Tell your child to behave generously
The scene of a child being greeted by an older person called "uncle", "uncle", "aunt", this scene may be particularly embarrassing. Some children feel like sitting on a needle felt, and it is difficult to control the field. At this time, parents can tell their children that the generation is just a title, there is no need to pay too much attention to it, and the normal performance of generosity can be.
After all, they are all people in a big family, and the generations are only within the family. When the child relaxes, he can naturally behave naturally and the atmosphere can be better.
Tell your child clearly and be polite to people and things
Some children are usually juniors, accustomed to being disciplined, once they become "elders" and rise to the ranks, children may become small and small, flaunting their might. At this time, parents should tell their children in time that they must be sensible and polite to others.
For example, when someone says hello or pays homage to the New Year, they should quickly treat others with courtesy. When the child understands, the parents care about this matter very much, and the rules of interpersonal communication are clear, the child naturally does not dare to cross the line.
Nowadays, some large families have long diluted this "generation difference", so that adults with small but older generations will directly call the names of children with different generations, and they do not have to perform big gifts to children with low generations. After all, in modern society, thousands of years of old customs and customs have long been less rigorous, completely according to local conditions, and can not be generalized.
Interactive Topic: In life, do you have any elders who are older but younger? How do you get along with each other and don't you feel very embarrassed?