Couples (pictures have nothing to do with the text)
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Recently, I saw an aunt sighing that it was useless to "raise a son".
Why does the aunt have such feelings?
The reason is that the aunt's son work internship, got the first month of internship salary, bought a girlfriend more than 5,000 Apple mobile phones.
The aunt feels that it is difficult to cultivate her son into a talent, save money for her son to study, and use a mobile phone that her son or husband does not use.
The aunt feels that her son is not intimate at all, and she does not realize the difficulty of being a parent, especially after her son has a girlfriend, he completely forgets himself.
It can be said that with the daughter-in-law forgetting the mother, the aunt is "cold" to the son.
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Why does the aunt care so much about the "son" spending money on his girlfriend and not on himself?
Because the aunt, for her son to pay too much, completely ignored their own needs, wait until the child grows up, can work to earn money, hope to get the corresponding return.
If the aunt does not get the corresponding return, the heart will be disappointed in the "son", and even cold.
What's more, when I haven't seen the first side of my son's "girlfriend", I have an opinion in my heart, and I think that my son did not spend his first salary on himself, which is the reason for the girl.
Years ago, my boyfriend, who is also my current partner, spent his first salary after work on me.
Later, after marrying him, the mother-in-law said in her mouth, do not ask her son to reciprocate, as long as you have a good life.
But once my husband went on a business trip or went out on a trip to bring me a gift, he did not bring a gift to his mother-in-law, and the mother-in-law's face was obviously lost and unhappy.
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Why do I say that looking for a husband is to find a harmonious husband and wife, a family that loves each other.
Because the mother-in-law was pampered by the father-in-law when she was young and got enough love, then when the mother-in-law is old and sees her son's pet daughter-in-law, she will not have the feeling that the "son" has been robbed by the "daughter-in-law".
I once heard a story that the girl's grandfather belonged to the kind of hand-throwing treasurer at home, and the grandmother suffered all her life.
When the girl's father and mother first got married, the girl's grandmother poured a glass of water for the girl's mother and lifted the table at home.
Since then, the girl's father has no longer been in front of the girl's grandmother and has been good to the girl's mother.
The girl's grandmother, who is not loved by her grandfather, cannot see it, and her son loves his daughter-in-law.
Therefore, looking for a husband, it depends on his original family, whether the future in-laws are harmonious and love each other, which to a certain extent, can avoid a lot of "mother-in-law and daughter-in-law contradictions".
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