In the "Biography of Zhen Huan", there is a character that everyone dislikes her, this person is neither a sinister and cunning empress, nor a vicious and domineering Concubine Hua, but an Enlingrong, the cowering daughter of the small county order.
There are many reasons why everyone hates An Lingrong: some readers don't like her personality; some readers don't like her later betrayal and harm with Zhen Huan and Shen Meizhuang, thinking that this person can't be deeply related; some readers think that she often complains about herself, Gu Ying, and self-pity, crying and crying when things happen; some readers don't like her origins, and hate her personality even more.
An Lingrong's final ending was extremely tragic, and she finally suffered almonds and committed suicide, that is, she did not have a good sister by her side to accompany her. The once good sister Zhen Huan watched her die, but she was indifferent, and only hatred and disgust were left for her.
Is the tragedy of An Lingrong a tragedy of birth or a tragedy of personality?
The harem is a very special living environment, but also a very harsh living environment. If ordinary people do not have a little skill or backstage, posture, etc., I am afraid it is difficult to gain a safe foothold in the harem.
When it comes to posture, An Lingrong has no advantage. Speaking of family lineage or the day after tomorrow, her father was just a small county clerk, and he still relied on the official position he bought. If you talk about skills, An Lingrong is not bad, she can make incense, embroidery kung fu is also very good, but also sing songs, and later in order to compete for favors, but also learned to dance ice hip hop, can be described as versatile. And these are also the reasons why An Lingrong can occupy a certain position in the harem.
But in the harem, it can be seen that the influence of birth on a woman's status, cultivation, temperament, personality, etc. is everywhere. Take the friendship between Zhen Huan and Shen Meizhuang, the two can be described as evenly matched. Their family lineage is not much different, and their natural vision and temperament, cultivation and tutoring are also similar, so the two are extremely compatible.
The empress has repeatedly provoked the relationship between Shen Meizhuang and Zhen Huan, but they have not been able to achieve their wishes, which is also because the two have grown up together since childhood and have sincere feelings. But Zhen Huan and An Lingrong were not.
The empress had made a plan in front of the emperor, causing the emperor to change his mind and let Zhen Huan sleep, and An Lingrong was snubbed, thinking that Zhen Huan had robbed her of the opportunity to sleep, and since then she has a little more jealousy of Zhen Huan.
Therefore, birth determines a person's temperament and mind, but a person's character determines a person's fate.
In the palace, many concubines with good births had their own confidence and self-confidence, such as Concubine Hua, Concubine Jing, Concubine Duan, Shen Meizhuang and even Zhen Huan, etc. Most of these women's fathers and brothers were officials in the dynasty, and the official positions were not small. In the palace, to live well, the confidence and confidence brought by birth are particularly important.
Born well, that kind of confidence is innate, and it cannot be grabbed by others. Many people do not have a good origin, that kind of inferiority and humility brought about by the bones, once they encounter some unsatisfactory things, this humility will be manifested in an unbalanced mentality. An Lingrong is like this.
By nature, An Lingrong is not a kind person, after entering the palace, she was snubbed many times, and many people sneered at her on weekdays. In the long run, it is inevitable that the mentality will be unbalanced.
But from another point of view, in the palace, not to mention the young concubines, even Concubine Qi, Concubine Duan, and even Concubine Yu Xin, who has not been trampled on their dignity? Who hasn't suffered from cold eyes? But the difference is that these three people, the nature of the change is not much.
Princess Duan was a woman who could not bear children, but she always maintained a kind of maternal love for her children and was very concerned about Princess Wenyi. Concubine Qi had been in the deep palace for many years, and had endured humiliation and burden for a long time, and was wantonly humiliated by Concubine Hua, but she also took care of Shen Meizhuang and others.
Besides, Concubine Xin, she was born slightly lower, and she also had a small birth, but she was still alive in the palace, and she did not want to harm others.
On the other hand, An Lingrong has several major characteristics: inferiority and suspiciousness, sensitive vengeance, narrow-mindedness, glass heart, more negative energy, and no gratitude.
Zhen Huan and Shen Meizhuang had both helped her, and although she had thanked her verbally, she had never put it into action, but once Shen Meizhuang and Zhen Huan had done something that was not in place or thoughtful, she was prone to suspicion. In addition, although she has been favored a lot, she has rarely seen her help others. This shows that An Lingrong not only has a bad mentality, but his nature is not pure enough. Such a person does have a dark disease in his psychology.
For example, When An Lingrong's father was in trouble, An Lingrong cried and begged Shen Meizhuang and Zhen Huan for help, hoping that Shen Meizhuang could solve the urgent need, but he never thought that this kind of big thing, opening his mouth to ask for help, would have made the other party embarrassed.
There is a saying that it is the duty to help you, and it is the duty not to help you. In An Lingrong's heart, it is the duty to help her, and it is excessive not to help her.
However, she never thought that helping others in this kind of big thing was originally to make others embarrassed and need to pay a price, which was a great human feeling, and this human feeling, could she afford it?
For another example, Chun Chang was young and simple-minded, and she only inadvertently compared the nightgown made by An Lingrong with the nightgown made by Zhen Huan between jokes, and said a few unpleasant words, but here in An Lingrong, it became an ugly ridicule, and she would have a lot of negative and negative thoughts.
This kind of glass heart makes others feel tired when they look at it. If others encounter this situation, they will smile and smile, and they may not go to their hearts, nor may they think of other people's words to the worst.
But An LingRong was different. Many things often depend on how a person thinks and how to deal with it, which is also the time to test whether a person can carry it clearly.
Because of the reasons of mentality and the problem of thinking, An Lingrong always understands the kindness and unintentionality of others as malice and intention. Originally, it was only mentioned between small talks that everyone was compatible or lively, but only An Lingrong would understand it as the same as his birth, so he could get along. This idea of paying special attention to origin and door not only makes others feel confused, but also makes her fall into a situation of inferiority and self-inhibition.
Coming from a humble origin, An Lingrong formed such a character, but being humble was not a reason for arrogance.
There are many people in the palace, not all of them have a good origin like Concubine Hua, Shen Meizhuang, and Zhen Huan, and have a strong mother's family, like Cao Qinmo, Xin Concubine, and others, and their family lineages are also general. But they are not as small and narrow-minded as An Lingrong.
Speaking of Cao Qinmo, although she did not read much, she was not smart enough to lose Zhen Huan, although she was vicious in her heart, but she did not have a small family spirit like An Lingrong, nor did she take revenge like An Lingrong, she followed Huafei for a long time, and she also tried her best to be loyal to Huafei, because of this, even if Cao Qinmo was poisonous, An Lingrong still became a more hated person than her.