A really powerful woman, very quiet

Although the TV series "The Biography of Zhen Huan" has been broadcast for several years, many lifelike characters in the drama are still unforgettable.

The wise Zhen Huan, the arrogant Concubine Hua, the empress with a black belly, the clumsy Concubine... Each character is a representative of a woman type, and their life trajectory and ending make the audience can't help but sit in line with reality.

Among these female characters who have a lot of scenes, a lot of words, and a lot of points to watch, there is one character who is the opposite, completely different from everyone else.

She has a calm, calm and stoic personality, usually speaks little, and is almost ignored by everyone. But in fact, the ears are clear and the mind is broad, and at the critical moment, a sentence will play the role of four or two thousand pounds and determine the overall situation.

This quiet but really powerful woman is Duanfei.

It was also after Zhen Huan saw the essence of Concubine Duan that she joined forces with her and formed a battle alliance, and finally achieved her wish to sit on the throne of supreme power.

For Zhen Huan's success, the quiet concubine is one of the unquestionable decisive factors.

This is called the quieter the woman, the more powerful.

There are many kinds of women, some are outgoing and enthusiastic, some are clumsy, some are brash, and some are taciturn.

If a woman's lethality can be graded, a quiet woman is undoubtedly the top rank. So what kind of high-level performance do they have?

Quiet women are not ostentatious

Many women like to be public, their own, family, people and things are hanging on their lips, especially some parents in short, gossip, but also like to spread publicity.

Over time, such a woman has become the source of gossip and gossip in the eyes of others, and who dares to trust a woman who turns her head and spreads your words to herself?

What happens to a woman who can't be trusted by those around her?

In the workplace, not being trusted means that no one will treat her as a partner, and no team will accept her.

In life, not being trusted will lead to estrangement of relatives and lack of understanding and support from relatives.

And what do quiet women get?

Be trusted in the workplace, become a person worth fighting side by side in the eyes of colleagues and bosses, and have more opportunities for success in the workplace if someone is willing to help at key moments.

In life, because of his lack of publicity, he is liked by his elders, appreciated by his peers, and trusted by his juniors, and becomes a popular person in the family.

In contrast, whether women should be quiet or public, it is clear at a glance.

Most of the time, the power of silence is far greater than the noise.

Quiet women do not chase

The female writer Yi Shu said: "Be quiet in everything, come quietly, go quietly, work hard quietly, and harvest quietly." ”

People are more likely to think rationally and learn effectively in a quiet state.

As a woman who is inherently more emotional than rational, she needs to pay more than men when thinking and learning, so the quiet state is especially important for women.

When women keep quiet, it is easier to be calm and clear-minded, and to have a rich inner spirit and produce wisdom through learning and thinking.

A woman who has a deep understanding of herself and has wisdom must be a woman who can clearly define her own direction and positioning, and she is very clear about what path she wants to take.

From small to which style of dressing is suitable, large to the type of choice of life partner, as well as the planning of self-growth and development, quiet women have their own unique propositions, will not blindly follow and chase, will not lose themselves.

As Su Cen said: "Be the queen of your own destiny, the love field does not lose people, and the workplace does not lose." Fall in love with yourself and be nice enough to yourself to be graceful until you are old. ”

The quiet woman is her own master, in control of her own destiny, and becomes a social force equal to men, until it achieves the same or even more dazzling success.

Quiet women are not impulsive

Unlike men, women from Venus are naturally sensual animals. Therefore, women are easy to be happy, easy to be sad, easy to fear, easy to be angry, and almost all emotions are overflowing with words.

This rapid process from mental activity to appearance is impulsiveness, and emotional experts believe that all emotions from generation to expression do not take more than 12 seconds.

Women are actually very impulsive, and many women have an impulse time of far less than 12 seconds.

Therefore, when seeing the moving plot of literary and artistic works, it is usually women who are prone to tears, and the main audience of Korean dramas is also the vast majority of female audiences.

When they are treated unfairly and are wronged, most of the first people to complain are women, and even some women's attitude to deal with grievances is "No matter what reasons and results it is, the old woman will first make a fuss and feel comfortable." ”

Impulse, the woman's heart, the bottom line are lit up early, how to win such a hand? Unless you reincarnate well, birth is the peak, the beginning is all king fried.

And the quiet woman is the one who can scare the opponent through the calm performance even if she holds the bad card, so as to win the king of reversal.

Yang Dai has a good saying: "Smart women know how to be gentle and strong." It allows you to maintain an elegant posture in the face of difficulties and walk unhurriedly on the one-way life journey. ”

Quiet women, do not express themselves impulsively, she cleverly leaves room for herself and others, so as to be free to move forward and backward.

If life is a battle, a quiet woman is a strategist general, who knows how to advance and retreat, and knows when to advance and retreat.

Quiet women don't please others

Many women have a flattering personality, and they are willing to think about what others like first? Can I do what others like?

The root cause is that this kind of woman does not have self-confidence, and she is eager to affirm herself and be satisfied through the approval of others.

However, in the eyes of the opposite sex, it is not these women who really impress them and are willing to give their whole body.

Men, more appreciate confident women, because confident women can stimulate the desire to conquer and compete in men's bones, returning to the original instinct of males to fight for love.

Quiet women are usually very confident, she does not affect herself with the joys and sorrows of others, she is more concerned about her own sorrows and joys, and pleasing herself is the first priority.

Therefore, quiet women do not easily cater to men, like a lily in the valley, whether there is an audience or not, only bloom for beauty.

Because of self-confidence, quiet women love freely at the same time, and can grasp men's hearts more. The love that is recognized is generous and sincere, and the love that wants to give up is also neatly withdrawn, and it will never drag on and entangle.

No man like this would not appreciate, dislike, chase, or remember.

The Duan Concubine in "The Biography of Zhen Huan" does not appear much in dozens of episodes of the TV series, and it is not outstanding among many harem beauties, but if you watch carefully, you will find that Duan Concubine is the most powerful winner.

She was sick, and everyone thought that she was a sick straw with no fighting power, so as to avoid the cruel palace fight,

She is quiet and cold, so at the critical moment, a single sentence can change the emperor's mind, leaving the lives of Qin Xi and Su Peisheng and becoming Zhen Huan's right-hand allies.

After Zhen Huan ascended to the throne, she was honored as an imperial concubine, but she protected herself, no longer showed her face, and continued to live a peaceful life with her adopted daughter, escaping the tragic end of "fox rabbit death, lackey cooking".

Such a quiet concubine is even more powerful than Zhen Huan, and she is the most powerful character in the whole "Biography of Zhen Huan".

Quiet woman, like a concubine.

Spoiled and not alarmed, quietly watch the flowers blossom and fall in front of the court; go to stay unintentional, look up at the clouds outside the sky.

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