Many parents and parents have said: There are "divine beasts" at home, which is really difficult to do!
Every time you help your child to write homework, there are always a bunch of problems, either you can't remember the homework assigned by the teacher, or you have to go to the toilet and drink water just a few minutes, you have to wait for your mother (dad) to take out a hanger before slowly starting to write homework, every day to write homework until 9 or 10 o'clock in the evening, angry parents want to hammer the wall.
Before, there was such a father, accompanying his child to do homework in the middle of the night, almost collapsing!
"The teacher let you bring 10,000 grains of rice"
Dad counts with the child until midnight
On that day, the child came home from school and told his father that the teacher had assigned a homework: "The teacher asked to bring 10,000 grains of rice to school, and the parents should accompany the child to complete it." ”
The child's father felt a lot of headaches after listening to it, these 10,000 grains of rice, how long do you have to count?! But thinking of helping the child successfully complete the homework, the father still insisted on counting with the child.
After counting the 10,000 grains of rice, it was already midnight, and the father of the child who was holding his stomach really couldn't help it, and directly asked the teacher in the parent group: "Why do you want to assign such a meaningless parent-child homework to the child?" ”
However, I did not expect the teacher's reply, directly let the child's father "punch in the face".
The teacher explains:
"This parent-child homework is not really for parents to accompany their children to count 10,000 grains of rice, but to exercise their children's thinking ability and let parents guide their children to learn how to quickly obtain 10,000 grains of rice."
For example, ask your child to count 100 grains of rice and then weigh it to get 10,000 grains of rice. ”
The child's father only then realized that he had misunderstood the purpose of the teacher's parent-child homework, and he suddenly felt ashamed and embarrassed.
The teacher assigns parent-child homework to the child, not just the homework, the focus is not on the homework, but wants the parents to accompany the child to complete it at the same time, triggering the child's more in-depth thinking.
In the process of completing the homework, parents can pay enough attention to and cooperate with the teacher to educate the child together, in order to make the child's education more excellent.
Those years
"Driving crazy" parents' homework
Many parents have complained on the Internet that since the beginning of their children's schooling, their parents as children have almost practiced eighteen martial arts, and the Olympian English handiwork is handy, and the paper-cutting and flower-raising experiments are not a problem...
But even so, there are still some homework that can "drive parents crazy" in minutes.
In the 2018 Zhengzhou Xiaosheng primary examination paper, there is such a "museum package" test question, the form is novel, but not only children, parents are "difficult to cry".
In the title, it involves the treasures of several major towns and courtyards of the Henan Museum - JiaHu Bone Flute, Duling Fangding, Cloud Pattern Copper Ban, etc., and takes this as a guide to integrate the content of various disciplines.
One of the questions goes like this:
The relationship between the different pitches in the Jiahu bone flute is very close to the famous three-point profit and loss law in the Spring and Autumn Period of the mainland, according to the relevant steps given, how many times the frequency of the introduction of "feather" is "palace"?
Jia Hu bone flute
Expert analysis, in order to solve this problem, students should comprehensively apply the knowledge of language, mathematics, science, music, etc. After solving the problem, students will find that there is a wonderful connection between music and mathematics.
Therefore, the original intention of such a test question is to enhance students' interest in traditional culture and better inherit cultural knowledge, but this overly complex test question still caused controversy among everyone.
Such a problem, not to say that it is a child, even parents may not be able to solve it.
However, now parents can't tutor their children, which is not a new thing.
The parents are the top students in the science class who graduated from the 985 University, but when tutoring their 5-year-old daughter's primary school math problems, they are also helpless, and they have to "take half-life" every time they talk.
It's really real! Every parent who accompanies his or her child to write homework has a "history of blood and tears".
Some parents said that they accompanied their son to write homework until the fifth grade, and then was hospitalized for a heart attack and made two stents...
Accompany your child to write homework,
It is also growing up with children
But complaining about it, no matter what this homework should be done, it must continue to be done.
Children will not do, parents will have to teach their children to do ah, but when it comes to accompanying children to complete homework, many parents are a first two big:
"On weekends, I don't dare to let my children play for half a day, otherwise I won't be able to finish my homework." Some homework tutors can't be helped, so they have to look up the answers online. ”
In the eyes of some parents, writing homework with their children, especially parent-child homework, not only occupies their rest time, but also is a meaningless thing, which increases the burden on themselves.
But in fact, at the beginning of the parent-child homework, the teacher's intention is not to increase the burden on parents, but to hope that parents can increase the time spent with their children, and this time of companionship can become a regulator in life.
In the process of guiding children, parents play a more important role in providing children with an idea and method to cultivate the child's ability to take the initiative to manually brain.
Now we are all advocating "quality education", often assigning some parent-child homework and judging, but also to reflect the richness of teaching activities.
But this beautiful original intention has changed its taste at some times.
Some parents not only regard parent-child homework as a tiring burden and perfunctory coping, but also some parents, in order to complete the homework quickly, will directly buy finished products online, or in order to get the ranking, the whole process is done by themselves, and they must do the best...
This is actually contrary to the original intention of parent-child homework, and the result will only be reversed, because of small mistakes.
What we parents have to do is actually very simple, return the homework to the child, lead the child, let the child use his own brain, and create by hand.
The result of the homework is not the most important, the most important thing is the process of doing the homework, the process of getting along with the parents and the child, and the process of the child's independent thinking and brain.
Whether parents accompany their children to grow up, whether they value the cultivation of children's abilities, the development of potential, and the communication and exchange between parents and children, the emphasis on family education is the top priority.
The importance of parent-child homework for children
1
The cultivation artifact of concentration
Attention is very important for children, which affects children's learning, work, and life, concentration of children, not only strong learning ability, but also more effective to solve problems in life.
Because children are younger, attention is often not as good as adults, so in the parent-child homework, there are parents staring at the side, will make the child have a sense of urgency, so that they want to complete the homework more seriously.
Therefore, parent-child homework is a good opportunity to cultivate and exercise children's attention.
2
Inspire children's creativity
In the process of completing parent-child homework, children need to constantly mobilize their own "small brain melons", find problems and solve problems, coupled with parents' step-by-step guidance of children, which is a good problem solving process.
In this process, not only can the child's brain be developed to a certain extent, but also the child's creativity can be inspired, and even the child's talent in some aspects can be explored.
3
The glue of parent-child relationships
Now parents are very busy at work, often because of work reasons, there is no way to accompany the child, over time, the parent-child relationship will slowly estrange, so parent-child homework is like a "glue" in the parent-child relationship.
Parent-child homework requires "intimate interaction" between parents and children, to complete the homework together, the process seems simple but to a large extent to close the relationship between parents and children, enhance the parents' understanding of the child, but also let the child feel the care and love of the parents, become the driving force to stimulate the child to explore the future.
Children's growth and learning can not be separated from the joint efforts of parents and teachers, only when both sides go hand in hand and cooperate with each other, can we fully stimulate the potential of children and promote children to achieve better growth and development!
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▍Author: Uncle Zhi reading.