Know a person, no girlfriend in your 30s, no wife, no house and no car! I've known each other for three years, and it seems that I have been working for no more than 8 months. Now I don't go to work, I don't work, I play every day

Know a person, no girlfriend in your 30s, no wife, no house and no car! I've known each other for three years, and it seems that I have been working for no more than 8 months. Now I don't go to work, I don't work, I play games every day.

I don't know if he's lazy or lazy or addicted to the game! The game kills people! But it was he who killed him. He's either too lazy or has no self-control!

Most people neglect to cultivate their children's self-control. We look at books written by various experts. Experts let us praise children, we praise children; experts let affirm children to affirm children; experts let us accept children we accept children's deficiencies; experts let ...

But we all seem to have forgotten that suffering is part of life! Now we use various concepts taught by experts to prevent the child's mind from being aggrieved a little, so is the child's ability to resist blows very fragile (psychological level)? Although accepting the various parenting concepts of experts can make children a child with a psychological sunshine, the ability to resist blows is fragile, and the ability to resist pressure is also fragile. Do children still have self-control?

Another point is, why do those experts only teach this content? What encouragement, affirmation, acceptance, and these ideas are all imported from abroad! I suddenly thought, is this a tactic used by hostile forces to weaken the spiritual strength of our people?

I think so, because once on the Korean battlefield, the 16-nation coalition was shocked by the Chinese army's spirit of not being afraid of death! The hostile forces have always feared this spirit of the Chinese! Therefore, the hostile forces must be trying to disintegrate our spiritual power. But how to disintegrate this spirit of not being afraid of death in the Chinese? As long as the Chinese have no ability to resist pressure, no self-control, as long as the Psychology of Chinese children is very fragile! Therefore, various parenting concepts have been introduced!

Our parents want their children to grow up healthy and happy, which is very good. But can the children who are taught in this way cope with the outside world? In the real world, it is the law of the jungle, it is deceitful, and there are all kinds of lies and deceptions in the real world. In the real world, no one will let you for no reason, the real world is full of competition, there are all kinds of blows in the real world, there are all kinds of temptations! Can healthy and happy children cope with the outside world? Forgetting to say that today we are all about the spiritual world, I am not saying that children cannot be mentally healthy and happy. Rather, from an early age, do not let the child suffer a little grievance, do not let the child accept a little blow to the mental health!

I don't think it's a mentally healthy person, it's a well-cared for flower in a greenhouse, it's a canary that's kept in a cage,...... Once you go into the wild, you have no ability to survive!

I think the really good educational philosophy is to simulate home as the outside world. Or rather, your education should cover all kinds of situations that may arise in the real world! The future real world will destroy him and beat him badly. Then you have to destroy him from time to time and beat him (the destruction and beating of the spiritual world) be careful not to destroy and beat him all the time! If you keep beating him, he will doubt whether he is your own hand, and he will doubt the world. You have to grasp the degree yourself! We must cultivate children's various abilities to face the outside world! These abilities include: self-control, introspection, self-confidence, stress resistance, survivability, earning power, pattern, ability to communicate with people, and more! With these abilities, our children can have a better future in the future. Our children can be more mature and stable!

Our children have become mature and stable children, our country will become stronger and stronger, our opponents will be more and more afraid of us, will be more and more respectful of us! If our children are psychologically weak, who will be afraid of us and who will respect us?