"Exports are dirty" at a young age, what is the problem

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2024-05-30 17:30Posted on the official account of Shanghai The Paper

Recently, "children's exports become dirty" has attracted attention. Many teachers have found that swearing is very common among children nowadays, and it is showing a trend of younger age. According to "Tonight", a primary school teacher said that in the past, children above the third grade usually started to swear, but now swear words will pop out of the mouths of some first and second grade students. What is the root cause of children's swearing? How should parents and schools educate and guide? The netizens of The Paper Ask Bar expressed their opinions.

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"Swearing is harmful, parents and schools are responsible"

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@澎湃网友IJzU7b: It depends on education, when I was a child, no one in my family sweared, and they would teach me that it was shameful to swear. Although there are many people around me who swear, I can't say it all the time, and when I say it, I am ashamed.

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@Thinking by yourself: First, the younger and younger age of children swearing is the sadness of the Internet age. Nowadays, new Internet media such as short videos and online games affect everyone in our society with their huge traffic, and there are many uncivilized behaviors such as swearing in short videos, and children who are not strong in distinguishing are very susceptible to poisoning. There are few excellent works in the application of modern Chinese in society, and the whole language environment lacks the importance and appreciation of the beauty of language.

Second, schools and families should hold a good position against the younger age of uncivilized behaviors such as swearing. The key to educating children well lies in our sense of responsibility as adults. Children are the hope of the future of our nation, and we adults are mainly responsible for the uncivilized behavior of swearing and other uncivilized behaviors, which should be the light of tomorrow for vigorous and positive growth. Many parents themselves are dirty at home, have no restraint on their behavior, and have no scruples about watching short videos and playing games. Schools should further strengthen language education, so that children can at least not swear or engage in uncivilized behavior on campus.

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@我的世界MC: The problem of primary school students "getting dirty" deserves attention. The Internet can be used to carry out ideological and political education for children, to help them establish correct values, and to let them know what they can do and what they must not do.

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@嗷嗷嗷啊: Many adults, such as teachers and parents, can't manage themselves well, and blurt out swear words, how can they educate the next generation well?

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@你的名字约定的地方: I have to say that the impact of the network is very large. Nowadays, children are very fond of playing online games, and swearing words often appear in the game, and children learn to learn it when they are exposed to it.

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@断桥铲雪: Children are like a blank sheet of paper, if you want to have flowers on it, there should be flowers and trees next to it; If there is a stain on it, it must be a miasma of smoke and mess nearby.

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@澎湃网友zUZfqi: With the rapid development of society and the rapid dissemination of various information, the situation of children obtaining and being affected by information is significantly higher than that of "looking up at the sky and looking down at books" in the past. In the past, there were relatively few things that could influence children, nothing more than the knowledge learned in the classroom, or what parents taught. Nowadays, there are many more sources of information that are constantly emerging and difficult to prevent, subtly influencing children's thinking. Even some adults think that children are noisy, and directly use the mobile phone as a tranquilizer with a baby, which is simple and rude, and the effect is remarkable.

In the current society, behind the low age of children's "export into dirty", there is a trend of precocious maturity of children. Parents, schools, and society all have the responsibility to guide children to establish correct thinking, and not let children be polluted by harmful information. In the period when the child's ideology is not yet finalized, intervene early, observe closely, communicate with the child more, find the signs, guide as soon as possible, and give the child a clean and bright childhood.

"Children don't understand the meaning of swearing, it's good to grow up"

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@S052D75: It's not a big deal for children to learn swearing, but if they don't learn when they are young, they won't be able to speak when they grow up?

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@钩直饵咸: Children can talk about it, there is nothing to be anxious about. Let the child explore freely, and one day the child will find that swearing may not be conducive to communication and cooperation with the outside world, and he will be able to understand what "swearing" means and when not to say it.

Children need to learn in practice to understand the truth, the age of swearing is advanced, and it can be understood that the process of "learning" is advanced, and they should be happy.

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@澎湃网友JnMrua: Children's knowledge level is low, and if they don't master good expressions, swear words are much simpler and more brainless, so they are easy to remember and use, and it will be good when they grow up.

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@神奇小孩: Children will slowly hear more and more swear words as they grow up, and no one can stop them. However, as adults, with the changes in their thoughts, knowledge, vision, and environment, children will gradually abandon or reduce swearing. Because "dirty exports" really can't be put on the table, adults with a little talent or quality will not casually say dirty words.

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@逃离楚门的世界_: How can a child not know that he is swearing? This situation is very normal. When it comes to the occasion when they shouldn't swear, they naturally stop talking.

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@嗡嗡: Don't talk about children, let's just say that most adults will always say a few swear words in their daily life, just to vent their emotions occasionally. If the child only occasionally swears with his classmates in life, it is not a big problem.

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