Don't be a poor seeker

"Try to see hope yourself, don't ask your child for hope.

In particular, don't make yourself appear in front of your child as a victim.

You can't force your child to give you hope by masochistically. Make him feel guilty, this time will only make the child hate you, but also hate himself. ”

Just saw this passage, it really hit my heart hard.

Because that's what I've been really like for a long time.

It is also what many parents with mental illness are doing at present.

Really, this passage is absolutely true. I hope that parents who are making the wrong choice will wake up and turn back in time.

Parents who love themselves, take care of themselves, pay attention to themselves, and live well can have the energy to really enter the hearts of children, win the hearts of children, and lead the hearts of children.

An emotionally deprived person, a crying masochist, an incompetent person caught in pain and anxiety, not to mention that the child does not like, eager to flee. It can be said that it is the instinctive choice of any one person.

Love can awaken love, hope can bring hope, confidence can inspire confidence, optimism can inspire optimism, and courage can inspire courage. What kind of raw materials are invested, what kind of finished products are derived.

This is a matter of direction, I hope that more parents can see this article as soon as possible and embark on the right path.

Remember, parents are big, children are small, parents should always be powerful and rational at the helm, the leader of the light, and the strong one who turns the tide.